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PreciousLillith
Dancer, BDSM & Sugar baby
Services are In person & Online
Female - Demisexual
Portland OR US
Succubae
goddessivanna
Artist, Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Berlin DE
Goddess Ivanna Professional Dominatrix
Helina
Content creator, BDSM & Coach
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Paris FR
I am a conscious kink facilitator and Dominatrix, passionate about creating transformative, empowering spaces for you to explore power dynamics, consent, and authentic self-expression. In our work together, you'll uncover your deepest desires, define clear boundaries, and tap into the liberating power of kink. With a focus on clear communication and mutual respect, I guide you through a journey of self-discovery, where vulnerability becomes strength and personal empowerment is key. Whether you're looking to release old limitations or step into your fullest self, my sessions offer the perfect blend of playfulness, intensity, pleasure, adventure and self-growth, helping you connect more deeply with your desires, your power, and the freedom within surrender. I offer personalized 1-2-1 sessions, group workshops, and interactive/educative talks, centered around exploring power dynamics, consent, and self-expression through conscious kink, sensuality, and energy work.
maragenesis
Content creator, BDSM & Coach
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Los Angeles CA US
Los Angeles Demonatrix ❖ Priestess of Pain ❖ Succubitch
elemental_subtlety
Muse, BDSM & Massage
Services are In person
Male - Queer
Oakland CA US
As I see it, massage therapy is about holding space. My clients allow me to meet them in a place of incredible vulnerability, and it is my job to meet them there with compassion, respect, and a desire to see them thrive. Without this, I would just be pushing muscle tissue around. While this might be helpful, it would fall short of having a deep impact. Massage has the potential to help people find equilibrium, physically and emotionally. I seek to help that process along by continuously working to improve myself. I’ve taken to describing my style of topping as a sort of sensation domming. Between the years of martial arts training, massage work, and skilled labor jobs, my hands are my favorite tools… and toys. I like to play with connection, space, and anticipation. My goal is to have my scene partner on the edge of her/their seat, tugging at her/their restraints, holding her/their breath and waiting for the moment my hand touches her/them, caresses her/them, my nails drag across her/their skin, with exclamations punctuating every slap, and protests filling the moments in between contact. I take a particular pleasure in taming brats and molding them into well-behaved, eager submissives. My approach is kind, firm, mindful, and as brutal or gentle as each moment requires. I also have an extensive collection of sex toys for you to sample.
vitavolition
Content creator, BDSM & Writer
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Amsterdam NL
Your pain is my pleasure 😈⛓️🖤
MissAria
Erotic audio, BDSM & Companion
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Stockholm SE
Sensual, sapiosexual (and horny), luxury dominatrix type. Travel for civi job so catch me in Stockholm, Munich, London
misslycoronel
BDSM, Companion & Sugar baby
Services are Online
Female - Bisexual
Palm Desert CA US
I’m drawn to energy that’s authentic and a little mysterious—someone who knows how to laugh deeply and isn’t afraid of thoughtful silences, too. Let’s get to know each other through shared stories, unexpected conversations, and maybe a bit of playful banter.
MistressElleQui
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Seattle WA US
I am Mistress Elle, a sensual sadist and meticulous Professional Dominatrix. I meld your fantasies with reality and craft an experience that will stay with you for a lifetime. When I'm not using my canes, whips, and ropes to turn submissives into art, you can find me in the ballet studio or out in the wilderness with my 2 dogs. My long-term goals include opening a commercial dungeon and possessing a personal library akin to the one from Beauty and the Beast. Well equipped. I am not a FS provider, be sure you read the rules on my website before sending an inquiry. Kinks I love: Rope Bondage (technical, contortion, and predicament) Impact Play / Pain Training / Bastinado Whipping CBT Foot / Heel / Boot Worship Leather Worship MedFet Pet Play Feminization / Maid Training Spitting Bird Feeding Chastity /Keyholding Pegging Needle Play Sounding Electric Play Vacuum Beds/Mummification Wax Play
Missjadesmoke
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Demisexual
Phoenix AZ US
Blending seduction with unwavering control. Come see me at DOIAZ or topless services available. Check out my website
SirLifts
Content creator, BDSM & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Male - Pansexual
Sherwood Park AB CA
I work/play in and around health and wellness as a trainer, speaker, author, safe kink/sex educator, professional Dominant and content creator! Coffee? Cannabis? Gym? Walks? Mountains? Adventures? Music? Kink? I'm/we're phucking doooown! Side Note: if you and yours are looking for a safe place to learn, lab, practice and/or explore Kink and BDSM, PLEASE reach out and let's chat. I love educating and working with people as they find spicier more confident and playful versions of themselves. Will add more when I get a chance!
BallistaTheBoss
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Straight
Costa Mesa CA US
Your sadistic, femdomme Daddy
What is impact play?
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Impact play is an activity in the world of BDSM and kink. It involves one person (the 'top' or 'dominant') delivering various forms of physical impact to another person (the 'bottom' or 'submissive'). The purpose of impact play is typically to create sensations of pain for the sub, which in turn creates pleasure for both partners. Impact play can take many forms, such as spanking, whipping or caning.
What makes it hot?
The appeal of impact play is often rooted in punishment. It's about those fulfilling those fantasies surrounding people in positions of power like school teachers. Many people love impact play purely for the rush of endorphins they receive from the pain. Others like the idea of being branded because the connotations it carries of being owned by somebody.
Safety is paramount. Communicate openly with your partner about limits, use safe words, and establish clear signals to indicate comfort levels. Start slowly, especially if you're new to impact play, and avoid sensitive areas like the kidneys and spine. Regularly check in with your partner to ensure their well-being.
While there is specialised BDSM equipment available, you can start with everyday items like hands, belts, or wooden spoons for lighter impact play. If you progress to more intense activities, consider investing in purpose-built tools like floggers or paddles. Always prioritise the cleanliness and safety of any items used.
Absolutely. Many people find pleasure in both giving and receiving sensations from impact play. It can be a way to explore power dynamics, experience different sensations, and enhance intimacy. Open communication ensures that both partners derive enjoyment and satisfaction from the experience.
DO
Communication: Have an open discussion about why you are both into impact play and what you want to get out of it.
Research: Whether you're spanking or being spanked, it's important to know the right parts of the body which are safe to hit.
Aftercare: No matter how soft or heavy the play, spending close time together afterwards is imperative.
DON'T
Rush: Don't hurry into the hardcore stuff. A slow build of impact play is always sexier, anyway.
Danger zones: Don't go near the lower back. This can cause permanent damage and is a hard no-go area.
No Communication: Don't begin without discussing a safe word. This is crucial to all BDSM play.