intimacyilluminate BDSM Washington

intimacyilluminate

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Gender fluid , Bisexual
In person & Online

Pleasure is a priority not a perk

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About me

Awaken Your Erotic Power & Pleasure

I’m Alisa, a somatic sex, kink, and intimacy coach, BDSM educator, and certified sexologist. I guide individuals, couples, and polycules through the transformative power of pleasure and embodiment—helping you feel safe, empowered, and deeply connected to your desires.

In our sessions, we explore what turns you on, what holds you back, and how to fully embrace your authentic erotic self. Whether you're new to the world of kink, seeking to deepen your connection with a partner, or simply ready to rewrite the stories around your pleasure, I offer a judgment-free space to explore, discover, and expand.

Who I Work With
✨ Individuals of any gender, sexual orientation, or relationship structure
✨ Those curious about BDSM & kink—seeking confidence and guidance
✨ Partners looking to deepen intimacy & communication
✨ Those ready to shed shame and embrace pleasure as a birthright
✨ Anyone craving a safe, expansive space to explore their erotic edges

What We Can Explore Together
🔥 Full-body pleasure mapping—understanding how your body experiences desire
🔥 Navigating BDSM & kink—from boundaries to roleplay & scene creation
🔥 Releasing shame & claiming your pleasure—turning old beliefs into empowerment
🔥 Erotic embodiment & sensual movement—connecting breath, touch, and energy
🔥 Consent, communication & deepening intimacy—with yourself or a partner

I believe pleasure is not a luxury—it’s essential. Our work together is personalized, experiential, and always at your own pace. I bring compassion, playfulness, and deep presence into each session, ensuring you feel safe, seen, and celebrated.

Ways to Work With Me
💋 1:1 coaching—individualized sessions for personal exploration & empowerment
💋 Couples & group coaching—for deepening intimacy, trust, and play
💋 Workshops & speaking engagements—erotic embodiment, kink education & beyond

I offer both virtual and in-person sessions. Every journey begins with a free 45-minute discovery call to ensure we’re the right fit.

Ready to explore?
📩 Reach out to me at [email protected] and take the first step toward more pleasure, more connection, and more YOU.

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My Locations

Washington, DC, US
Alexandria, VA, US

Experiences I offer

More about Alisa

intimacyilluminate
Bisexual Gender fluid (She/They)
34 years old
White/Caucasian
I speak English
Postgrad
A few Tattoos
A few Piercings

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