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nikitafernandes

Kinkster, Educator & Therapist

Female, Queer, New York NY US

Online

I am a Licensed Mental Health Therapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist based in New York City. I graduated with my Master’s in Counseling in Mental Health and Wellness and a dual degree in LGBT Health, Education, and Social Services from New York University. I also hold a Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology with a background in Women and Gender Studies from George Mason University. I identify as a queer South Asian immigrant woman. I’m also neurodivergent and non-monogamous. Aside from being a therapist, I have volunteered as a crisis counselor for the Trevor Project, worked as a graduate assistant for the New York University LGBTQ+ Center, and helped in the planning of social justice conferences. I approach therapy with the intention to understand and connect with my clients as fellow humans. My own journey as a queer South Asian neurodivergent woman, along with the experiences of those close to me, deeply shape my approach. Building a genuine relationship with my clients is my top priority, as I believe it is the biggest predictor of therapeutic success. As a person of color, I actively challenge oppressive structures that have long been dominated by Western white culture. Jiddu Krishnamurti said that it is no measure of health to be adjusted to a society that is profoundly sick and I do not see therapy as a way to numb the pain that is caused by systemic oppression but rather a way to empower clients to have compassion for themselves.

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joeywilcox

Kinkster, Companion & Therapist

Male, Pansexual, New York NY US

In person & Online

Hi, My Name is Joey. I'm a huge advocate on knowledge of sex and having knowledge of your own sexuality. I am a 48 year old sexual being that is very knowledgeable in many facets of sex. I am a pansexual that is experienced in all types of sex from vanilla to wild kinks and fetishes. I am big on hygiene and self care. I believe having a clean body and conscious leads to the best sexual experiences.

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