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harlemandaurora
Muse, Sugar baby & Workshop
Couple, Queer, New York NY US
In person & Online
Hi, you can call me Harlem! My friends and clients used to call me gym dom at work. It stuck for a while sort of as a running gag. A first it wasn't intentional but over time it became natural as i gave in to my authentic self. Over time in my career in personal training I really only had a select group of clients per year that like my attention to detail whether that be in their training or during stretch and massage. I've always been great with anatomy and great with my hands. A friend of mine told me about sensuali and how I could exercise this skill with more people who find it hard to find this experience. What I bring to people is full experience. I'm that handsome black man that you hire for an at home training visit; you feel that certain something and you need me to help you release the tension. For some people its the push and pull of now that I'm worked out lets hit the club and we have a great time while we dance the night away. I travel. I'm a +1. I've had the pleasure or fulfilling the fantasy. Being arm candy or someone to hold you or be held. I hope to meet whoever you are soon.
littledove
Companion, Sugar baby & Therapist
Female, Straight, Milford CT US
From $100 - In person & Online
Mommy Knows Best
Mia
Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, New York NY US
In person
Chillin and ready for spices with a special one
Enanna
Coach, Content creator & Workshop
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
From €200 - In person & Online
Multidisciplinary creatrix; conscious kink educator & sensuality coach, author, bodyworker & rope (s)witch
Priscilla
Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, New York NY US
In person
Elegant with a spicy touch of extravagance
GoddessEros
BDSM, Coach & Companion
Female, Bisexual, Cabo San Lucas MX
In person & Online
I take you in a journey through the senses and the mind, using the art and world of Sensual Shibari.
MysteriousMaster
BDSM, Sugar baby & Writer
Male, Straight, Summerlin South NV US
In person & Online
I am a single Vegas local looking for someone to chill with. And maybe someone I can hang with consistently. If you are nice maybe you’ll get lucky, maybe. Known for being dominant. I am Dom/ Brat Tamer. I have the ability to adapt to almost any situation, and I am pretty open minded. I’ve been told I am funny, and I’m always looking for my next adventure. Looking to get to know people, preferably locals, open to getting to know anyone though; as long as you are cool and interesting. Also if I’m in your area on here but it shows Vegas, it’s because I have a trip booked
venarose
Companion, Massage & Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, Amsterdam NL
From €300 - In person
Sensuality is beauty experienced through the senses.
laceylegacy
Companion, Sugar baby & Therapist
Female, Straight, Longview TX US
From $500 - In person & Online
You should have anything you want …
Rebecca
Content creator & Sugar baby
Female, Straight, Los Angeles CA US
In person & Online
I’m new to this and exploring. I’m looking forward to new experiences !
Lovelymaya
Content creator & Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, Leuven BE
In person & Online
Hii :) I’m Maya, your petite and kinky not so average girl next door. I love having a good time and am allergic to drama. I’d say I’m a bratty sub, but if you can show me who’s in charge, I can be a very good girl 😘
sunshinebb
Sugar baby
Female, Bicurious, Austin TX US
In person
I love yoga, music, plant medicine, traveling , and most things mind blowing / adventurous. Im a great listener, quick learner, love to take direction, and love attention and affection once I feel safe (:
What is a mentor?
You can be the boss, daddy.
The term 'mentor' in the sensual world is most commonly associated with sugar dating. It refers to an individual (usually the sugar daddy/mama) who provides guidance, support, and often financial assistance to a less experienced or younger partner (sugar baby) in exchange for companionship, including a romantic or intimate aspect. However, a mentor could also exist in other worlds such as BDSM, coaching or therapy. Most typically offer mentorship beyond traditional relationships, often fostering personal and professional growth.
What makes it hot?
Dynamic power play: The power dynamic in a mentor-mentee relationship, especially in sugar dating, can be arousing as it involves a blend of guidance, financial support, and potentially romantic or intimate connections.
Educational and experiential exchange: The mentor can provide valuable insights, experiences, and opportunities, creating a dynamic where both parties benefit intellectually, emotionally, and sensually.
Luxurious lifestyle: Sugar dating often involves a more lavish lifestyle, with mentors providing financial support for their mentees, contributing to a heightened level of interest and excitement.
In sugar dating, a sensual mentorship may involve a more explicit understanding of the exchange, often including financial support and a unique power dynamic that goes beyond typical relationships.
Research reputable platforms, be clear about your expectations, and communicate openly. Trust your instincts and make you have a true emotional connection before anything else.
While sugar dating often involves specific arrangements, some relationships evolve into long-term connections. Clear communication about expectations and desires is crucial for navigating the trajectory of the relationship.
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DO
Clear communication: Maintain open and clear communication about expectations, boundaries, and desires. A transparent dialogue ensures that both parties are on the same page and comfortable with the arrangement.
Establish mutual respect: Cultivate a relationship built on mutual respect. Both the mentor and mentee should value and appreciate each other's contributions to the relationship, fostering a healthy and positive dynamic.
Prioritise safety: Prioritise safety and well-being. Meet in public places initially, share personal information cautiously, and be aware of potential risks associated with online interactions.
DON'T
Coercion or pressure: Neither the mentor nor the mentee should engage in activities that feel coercive or pressured. Consent and comfort are paramount, and both parties should feel free to express their boundaries.
Neglect emotional considerations: While sugar dating may involve financial arrangements, it's essential to recognise and address the emotional aspects of the relationship. Neglecting emotional considerations can lead to misunderstandings and discomfort.
Skip regular check-ins: Regularly check in with each other to ensure that the relationship remains consensual and positive. Open dialogue helps address concerns and ensures that both parties continue to benefit from the arrangement.
