mistresscara
Love breaking in newbies and first timers with a gentle but firm hand.


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For my friends seeking domination, I am on the gentler, teasing side. My style is great for newbies and people who are curious beginners and just getting into the scene. One of my kinks is unlocking new kinks for others, so if you don't know what you're into yet, I'd love to meet up and explore you together.
For folks interested in the sweeter side of life, I am open to sugar situations. I am not a high gloss girlie, I will meet you as the regular average person that I am. I am kind, empathetic, and a great listener. I'd love to hear about your life, maybe hold hands, sit next to each other at a restaurant, and make an authentic emotional connection that has no strings attached. I'll just be me and you just be you, no pressure.
Looking for something a bit more extreme and out of the box? I frequently work with a fellow dominatrix who is into sado/pain. We'd love to tag-team you for a session of alternating domination where she goes hard when you're being naughty and I'll give the reward when you're well behaved.
All of my "friends" will start out with a vanilla meet and greet to make sure we are on the same page.
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- 40 years old
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