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I'm Mistress Sade; a Professional Dominatrix from Auckland, New Zealand, in pursuit of global-domination, unhinging sexual shame and unlocking true sexual potential the world over.
I'm a shameless sadist and take great pleasure in dropping my subs deep into my Divine Domme space, having them kneel at my feet and stare their shadows straight in the eye.
I see my role as being one of great honour; to journey into the ether and bring the subconscious into the conscious. To bring the dark into the light.
For Me, BDSM is the vessel for complete perverse freedom.
It is the de-conditioning of everything we have been taught we need. It is the re-programming of the mind to say Yes to the things that scare you, challenge you, and maybe even hurt you...in the pursuit of sexual and personal liberation. For my subs, that's a price they're willing to pay.
BDSM provides the mechanism to release all of the sexual shame you have inherited over your lifetime, providing a container for consensual, fun, and safe adult play.
I am simply the Conductor leading your mind into its' heavenly abliss, painted with your taboo kinks and fantasties that I just love to unpack and play with.
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- mistresssade
- Pansexual Female (Her/She)
- My experiences are for Female, Couple, Gender fluid, Intersex, Male, Non Binary, Trans
- 31 years old
- White/Caucasian
- I speak English, French
- Undergrad
- 178 cm
- Slim
- No
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- Party Sometimes
- No Tattoos
- A few Piercings
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