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nikitafernandes
Kinkster, Educator & Therapist
Female, Queer, New York NY US
Online
I am a Licensed Mental Health Therapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist based in New York City. I graduated with my Master’s in Counseling in Mental Health and Wellness and a dual degree in LGBT Health, Education, and Social Services from New York University. I also hold a Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology with a background in Women and Gender Studies from George Mason University. I identify as a queer South Asian immigrant woman. I’m also neurodivergent and non-monogamous. Aside from being a therapist, I have volunteered as a crisis counselor for the Trevor Project, worked as a graduate assistant for the New York University LGBTQ+ Center, and helped in the planning of social justice conferences. I approach therapy with the intention to understand and connect with my clients as fellow humans. My own journey as a queer South Asian neurodivergent woman, along with the experiences of those close to me, deeply shape my approach. Building a genuine relationship with my clients is my top priority, as I believe it is the biggest predictor of therapeutic success. As a person of color, I actively challenge oppressive structures that have long been dominated by Western white culture. Jiddu Krishnamurti said that it is no measure of health to be adjusted to a society that is profoundly sick and I do not see therapy as a way to numb the pain that is caused by systemic oppression but rather a way to empower clients to have compassion for themselves.
CelesteVeDette
Artist, Dancer & Sugar baby
Female, Queer, Detroit MI US
In person & Online
The Starlet of Timeless Tease
FunFerni
Sugar baby & Content creator
Female, Bisexual, Glenwood Springs CO US
In person & Online
Freaky & naughty 😈 Curvy & thick 🍑 Let’s make your fantasies cum true 😘
destingerek
Artist, Coach & Workshop
Male, Demisexual, San Diego CA US
In person & Online
Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, & personal empowerment. A Certified Sexologist through The American Board of Sexology, he’s the author of the bestselling book “The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, & The One She Craves”. His innovative lens is the result of more than 20yrs of academic rigor & direct study - including 7 formative years traveling the world living & teaching as his provocative alter ego, ‘The Erotic Rockstar’. Destin is host of the podcast: Diving Deep w/Destin: Sex, Love, & Evolution & director of the award winning short film "Seductive Devotion". Through his flagship program, Sexual Self-Mastery, he’s trained over 2000 men to master their sexual energy & become attuned, evolved lovers. Destin’s taken the most potent aspects of his bold life experimentation & integrated it into his iconic body of work, directly supporting men to have better sex, deeper connections to their masculine power, women, & themselves
clarityrose
Massage, Muse & Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, Auckland NZ
In person
Creative Tantric Goddess Traveller. Visiting London 16-19 Sept
misslycoronel
BDSM, Companion & Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, Palm Desert CA US
Online
I’m drawn to energy that’s authentic and a little mysterious—someone who knows how to laugh deeply and isn’t afraid of thoughtful silences, too. Let’s get to know each other through shared stories, unexpected conversations, and maybe a bit of playful banter.
jeremyshub
Coach, Educator & Therapist
Trans, Queer, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Working as a sex therapist, sex educator, sexological bodyworker, and relationship coach, Jeremy brings a wealth of experience and knowledge to their practice. Currently based in Berlin, they identify as polyamorous, slutty, a sex worker, kinky, genderfluid, and queer. With a background in education, science, creative art, and sexual health, Jeremy holds multiple university degrees and has facilitated numerous workshops on sexuality, relationships, and pleasure. Jeremy is dedicated to supporting individuals, couples and relationship constellations of all orientations and gender identities, with a focus on respecting consent and boundaries. Jeremy brings a queer-positive, anti-racist, and intersectional feminist perspective to the work, informed and inspired by the principles of decolonization, anti-patriarchy, anti-capitalism, and pro-earth spirituality.
RedHare
Companion & Sugar baby
Female, Straight, Naperville IL US
In person & Online
Take me anywhere and I'll make you shine, or keep inside to have all to yourself.
soleilmerroir
Erotic audio, BDSM & Therapist
Gender fluid, Bisexual, Mexico City MX
Online
I offer you the journey to the deepest roots of your erotic self, the reasons why you crave the darkness and the heat.
Priscilla
Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, New York NY US
In person
Elegant with a spicy touch of extravagance
jessicarose
Sugar baby
Female, Bicurious, Los Angeles CA US
In person & Online
Fun and outgoing entrepreneur that’s always looking for her next fun experience. Sensual and sweet with a kinky switchy side. I can be shy but once we talk and get comfortable I open up more. I love to make people feel good in all ways. I love flirting. I love going out to concerts, comedy shows, baseball games and hockey games. If you ask me what I’m doing I always have plans to do any of the above. Come with me and spoil me? 😘
sachafoxx
BDSM, Companion & Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, Barcelona ES
In person & Online
Sassy, classy, bad-assy — your ultimate partner in crime xx
What is an open relationship?
More friction, less restriction.
An open relationship refers to a consensual arrangement where individuals agree that they are allowed to pursue sexual or romantic connections outside of the primary relationship. The terms and boundaries of an open relationship can vary widely and are typically established through open communication and mutual agreement between partners.
The aim is to foster transparency, trust, and the freedom for each individual to explore connections with others while maintaining a committed partnership. A sugar baby might be the kind of Sensualist who would be interested in the concept of an open relationship.
What makes it hot?
The appeal of an open relationship lies in the freedom it offers to explore different aspects of one's sexuality and connect with others without sacrificing the primary relationship. It can provide a sense of novelty, variety, and personal growth. The arousal factor often stems from the excitement of navigating new connections, experiencing diverse intimate dynamics, and the deepened communication and trust that can result from openly exploring desires within the bounds of agreed-upon rules.
Yes, for some individuals, the increased communication and trust required in navigating an open relationship can lead to a deeper and more resilient connection with their primary partner.
Open communication is key. Acknowledge and discuss feelings of jealousy with your partner(s), and work together to establish strategies for managing and mitigating these emotions.
Open relationships are not one-size-fits-all. They require mutual consent, clear communication, and a shared understanding of boundaries. It's essential to consider the comfort and desires of all individuals involved.
Debunking Monogamyths: Unlearning Traditional Relationship Norms
Wednesday 4 December 2024
The monogamyths have been busted. Now the question that remains is: how exactly do we make non-monogamy work?
Surprising Ways Polyamory Has Changed My Life
Saturday 23 November 2024
While polyamory is still often viewed as socially unacceptable, it has brought me unexpected growth. Here are the biggest way polyamory has changed my life.
So you want to try Polyamory: featuring Alice Lovegood
Tuesday 23 July 2024
Episode 3 of the Sensuali podcast features the iconic sex educator, ethical kink practitioner and content creator, Alice Lovegood talking all about polyamory with host Emma aka Emmcheeky.
7 old school films about open relationships
Wednesday 5 June 2024
In light of the release of 'Challengers', the blockbuster film that has consolidated society's current obsession with open relationships, here are 7 fantastic old school films all about non-monogamy and three-way fun.
DO
Establish clear communication: Open and honest communication is crucial. Clearly define boundaries, expectations, and desires with your partner(s).
Prioritise safe practices: If engaging in sexual activities with others, prioritise safe sex practices to protect the health and well-being of all involved.
Regular check-ins: Regularly check in with your partner(s) about how the open relationship is impacting everyone involved. Open dialogue ensures ongoing consent and understanding.
DON'T
Neglect emotional boundaries: While exploring outside connections, be mindful of emotional boundaries to avoid unintentional harm to your primary relationship or others involved.
Assume consent: Always seek explicit consent before pursuing connections outside the primary relationship. Assumptions can lead to misunderstandings and trust issues.
Use openness as an excuse: Open relationships require responsibility and accountability. Avoid using the concept of openness as an excuse for dishonesty or neglecting your primary relationship.