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Every control freak's dream kink.
nausilove
BDSM, Kinkster & Companion
Female, Bisexual, Paris FR
From €1000 - In person & Online
Tallest and happiest escort in the world :D
Moku
Coach, Massage & Therapist
Male, Straight, Hilo HI US
In person
Healing Handz Massage
welcome2sarahdise
BDSM & Kinkster
Female, Bisexual, Boston MA US
In person & Online
Sweet Sadist 🍭
Handsyalien
Dancer, Kinkster & Massage
Female, Queer, Oakland CA US
From $300 - In person & Online
Let's get weird
ElixaMoon
BDSM, Coach & Massage
Female, Bisexual, Dallas TX US
In person & Online
How big is your Eros, wanna find out? ✨
carol
Kinkster, Massage & Therapist
Female, Straight, Neptune Beach FL US
From $110 - In person & Online
Come closer…Let’s move your Blocks to Bliss!
elemental_subtlety
Muse, BDSM & Massage
Male, Queer, Oakland CA US
In person
As I see it, massage therapy is about holding space. My clients allow me to meet them in a place of incredible vulnerability, and it is my job to meet them there with compassion, respect, and a desire to see them thrive. Without this, I would just be pushing muscle tissue around. While this might be helpful, it would fall short of having a deep impact. Massage has the potential to help people find equilibrium, physically and emotionally. I seek to help that process along by continuously working to improve myself. I’ve taken to describing my style of topping as a sort of sensation domming. Between the years of martial arts training, massage work, and skilled labor jobs, my hands are my favorite tools… and toys. I like to play with connection, space, and anticipation. My goal is to have my scene partner on the edge of her/their seat, tugging at her/their restraints, holding her/their breath and waiting for the moment my hand touches her/them, caresses her/them, my nails drag across her/their skin, with exclamations punctuating every slap, and protests filling the moments in between contact. I take a particular pleasure in taming brats and molding them into well-behaved, eager submissives. My approach is kind, firm, mindful, and as brutal or gentle as each moment requires. I also have an extensive collection of sex toys for you to sample.
ann
Coach, Educator & Massage
Female, Bisexual, Berlin DE
From £250 - In person
Sensual tantric massages, sexological bodywork, 4handmassages
goddessivanna
Artist, Content creator & BDSM
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Goddess Ivanna Professional Dominatrix
MassageTantric
Companion, Educator & Massage
Male, Bicurious, Garachico ES
In person
Your body craves for touch of another human being. Warmth of another, skin on skin contact that feels blissful and safe. I can offer you all kinds of intimacy and closeness: - Hugs and cuddles for when you feel lonely. - Gentle caress, dance, kiss for when you want to feel wanted. - Massage when you just want to unwind and relax. The most unique is the experience of Tantric massage. During this 2-3hr session we enter a sacred space, a bubble of intimate space where I am only focused on giving you the best possible experience and you are receiving it as a God or Goddess. Tantra massage is about touch with loving, conscious intention. Tantric massage is not about sex or orgasm, however you might experience one, in any part or in your whole body. Boundaries are most important so we always have a calm conversation about what you need, where are your boundaries, what are you open to and willing to try. We work with F.R.I.E.S model of consent, so you always say if something is too much. Please ask me anything if you have questions.
ronhades
BDSM, Companion & Educator
Non Binary, Pansexual, Berlin DE
From €50 - In person
Sensual sadist, Bondage enthusiast
MissAria
Erotic audio, BDSM & Companion
Female, Pansexual, Stockholm SE
In person & Online
Sensual, sapiosexual (and horny), luxury dominatrix type. Travel for civi job so catch me in Stockholm, Munich, London
What is orgasm control?
Every control freak's dream kink.
Orgasm control refers to the intentional manipulation or restraint of an individual's sexual climax, often done by a partner. This can involve delaying the orgasm, denying it altogether, or intensifying the experience through various techniques and activities. The practice requires a high level of trust and communication between partners, as it involves a nuanced exploration of pleasure and arousal.
What makes it hot?
What makes orgasm control exciting is the heightened anticipation and intensity it adds to intimate moments. The deliberate delay or denial of orgasm builds a strong sense of desire and arousal, creating a more profound release when finally allowed. The power dynamics involved can also be exhilarating, with one partner surrendering control and the other taking on the role of orchestrating pleasure. The excitement lies in the emotional and physical intensity.
When practiced consensually and with open communication, orgasm control is generally safe. However, it's important to be aware of your partner's physical and emotional well-being throughout the experience.
Approach the conversation with sensitivity and communicate your desires openly. Emphasise the mutual exploration of pleasure and discuss any concerns or boundaries your partner may have.
Techniques vary and can include edging (delaying climax), denial, sensory play, or the use of certain devices. Experimenting with different methods can help discover what works best for both partners.
DO
Communication and consent: Openly discuss desires, boundaries, and comfort levels before exploring orgasm control. Obtain explicit consent and ensure ongoing communication throughout the experience.
Build trust: Establish a foundation of trust between partners. Trust is crucial in orgasm control, as it involves vulnerability and surrender. Always prioritise your partner's emotional well-being.
Variety and exploration: Experiment with different techniques and activities to find what works best for both partners. Explore a variety of sensations, and be receptive to feedback to enhance the overall experience.
DON'T
Assume readiness: Never assume that your partner is ready for orgasm control without explicit consent. Respect their boundaries and preferences, and be attentive to cues during intimate moments.
Ignore limits: Respect any established limits and boundaries set by your partner. Pushing too far or too fast can lead to discomfort or emotional distress, undermining the trust essential for orgasm control.
Neglect aftercare: After an orgasm control session, provide emotional support and aftercare. Discuss feelings, ensure your partner feels secure, and address any emotional or physical needs that may arise.
