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Every control freak's dream kink.
ann
Coach, Educator & Massage
Female, Bisexual, Berlin DE
In person
Sensual tantric massages, sexological bodywork, 4handmassages
MassageTantric
Companion, Educator & Massage
Male, Bicurious, Garachico ES
In person
Your body craves for touch of another human being. Warmth of another, skin on skin contact that feels blissful and safe. I can offer you all kinds of intimacy and closeness: - Hugs and cuddles for when you feel lonely. - Gentle caress, dance, kiss for when you want to feel wanted. - Massage when you just want to unwind and relax. The most unique is the experience of Tantric massage. During this 2-3hr session we enter a sacred space, a bubble of intimate space where I am only focused on giving you the best possible experience and you are receiving it as a God or Goddess. Tantra massage is about touch with loving, conscious intention. Tantric massage is not about sex or orgasm, however you might experience one, in any part or in your whole body. Boundaries are most important so we always have a calm conversation about what you need, where are your boundaries, what are you open to and willing to try. We work with F.R.I.E.S model of consent, so you always say if something is too much. Please ask me anything if you have questions.
MissAria
Erotic audio, BDSM & Companion
Female, Pansexual, Stockholm SE
In person & Online
Sensual, sapiosexual (and horny), luxury dominatrix type. Travel for civi job so catch me in Stockholm, Munich, London
Chatouille
BDSM, Retreat & Workshop
Female, Demisexual, Asheville NC US
In person
Transformative FemDom disciplinarian. Headmistress & curator of Lair Derriere, a private FemDom society.
JanelleMarie
BDSM, Companion & Educator
Female, Queer, Denver CO US
In person
Radiant Goddess, Tantra Companion, Pro-domme
MorganneKing
Muse, BDSM & Coach
Female, Pansexual, San Francisco CA US
In person & Online
Lifestyle FemDom and FLR. Goddess and Muse for those in service to Divine Feminine Power.
mistresssade
Muse, BDSM & Kinkster
Female, Pansexual, Auckland NZ
In person & Online
Have you ever met a Real Dominatrix?
soleilmerroir
Erotic audio, BDSM & Therapist
Gender fluid, Bisexual, Mexico City MX
Online
I offer you the journey to the deepest roots of your erotic self, the reasons why you crave the darkness and the heat.
joyenjoyen
Dancer, Muse & BDSM
Female, Pansexual, Manila PH
Online
JOYEN (Pronouns: Perceived) is a Sadistic Rope Bondage Dominatrix and Burlesque Stripper, with expertise in the art of macabre and seduction. Her favorite style is aesthetically-pleasing and acrobatic tormenting rope, and Her interest lies in the realm of elegant fetish and erotica. Nothing delights Her Infernal Majesty more than those willing to completely surrender their darkest and most vulnerable selves (and wallets) in the dangerous embrace of Her rope.
Passion
Muse, Kinkster & Massage
Male, Bisexual, Vienna AT
In person & Online
Ask me anything I will be happy
pedrocordas
Content creator, BDSM & Educator
Male, Straight, Lisbon PT
In person & Online
My twenty one -year obsession with rope started in Tokyo. I frequently travel to Japan to keep alive my passion for rope, studies, and research. Since there are so many rope salons in Tokyo, with so many talented rope people, if one keeps one’s heart and eyes open, one will learn a lot about Japan and its rope culture. This amazing odyssey in kinbaku has allowed me to meet/see/learn from so many great people. Over the years I have performed and taught in four continents including, Asia, Europe, North America, and Oceania. The topics I teach are vast, I usually adjust my classes to the level of the participants – from beginner to experienced - with an emphasis on form, intention, and aesthetics.
rafa_el_M
Content creator & Coach
Male, Bisexual, New York NY US
In person & Online
Sex, healing, and play!
What is orgasm control?
Every control freak's dream kink.
Orgasm control refers to the intentional manipulation or restraint of an individual's sexual climax, often done by a partner. This can involve delaying the orgasm, denying it altogether, or intensifying the experience through various techniques and activities. The practice requires a high level of trust and communication between partners, as it involves a nuanced exploration of pleasure and arousal.
What makes it hot?
What makes orgasm control exciting is the heightened anticipation and intensity it adds to intimate moments. The deliberate delay or denial of orgasm builds a strong sense of desire and arousal, creating a more profound release when finally allowed. The power dynamics involved can also be exhilarating, with one partner surrendering control and the other taking on the role of orchestrating pleasure. The excitement lies in the emotional and physical intensity.
When practiced consensually and with open communication, orgasm control is generally safe. However, it's important to be aware of your partner's physical and emotional well-being throughout the experience.
Approach the conversation with sensitivity and communicate your desires openly. Emphasise the mutual exploration of pleasure and discuss any concerns or boundaries your partner may have.
Techniques vary and can include edging (delaying climax), denial, sensory play, or the use of certain devices. Experimenting with different methods can help discover what works best for both partners.
DO
Communication and consent: Openly discuss desires, boundaries, and comfort levels before exploring orgasm control. Obtain explicit consent and ensure ongoing communication throughout the experience.
Build trust: Establish a foundation of trust between partners. Trust is crucial in orgasm control, as it involves vulnerability and surrender. Always prioritise your partner's emotional well-being.
Variety and exploration: Experiment with different techniques and activities to find what works best for both partners. Explore a variety of sensations, and be receptive to feedback to enhance the overall experience.
DON'T
Assume readiness: Never assume that your partner is ready for orgasm control without explicit consent. Respect their boundaries and preferences, and be attentive to cues during intimate moments.
Ignore limits: Respect any established limits and boundaries set by your partner. Pushing too far or too fast can lead to discomfort or emotional distress, undermining the trust essential for orgasm control.
Neglect aftercare: After an orgasm control session, provide emotional support and aftercare. Discuss feelings, ensure your partner feels secure, and address any emotional or physical needs that may arise.
