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saararei
Artist, BDSM & Educator
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Saara Rei is a workshop facilitator and performance artist with a background in music, dance, education, and public speaking. Saara's work generally centers around the exploration of suffering, both physical and emotional. Through their kink practice, Saara has come to understand that suffering comes from the comparison of what has been or could be to the present moment. And with that, Saara enjoys teaching about how to use suffering as a path to presence and enjoyment in life. Having a Ph.D. in mathematics, Saara’s academic experience adds an intellectual flair to complement their performative approach to bodywork. Playfulness and humor make up a big chunk of Saara's personality and approach to life, giving their workshops a very exploitative and light atmosphere, even while approaching some of the heaviest of topics.
mistressseren
BDSM, Coach & Educator
Female, Sapiosexual, New York NY US
In person
For the Discerning and Depraved
bailesovhay
Artist, Kinkster & Sugar baby
Female, Pansexual, Portland OR US
In person & Online
finding the power in submission and vulnerability (and you have the pleasure of watching)
louna
Content creator, BDSM & Kinkster
Female, Sapiosexual, Kajaani FI
In person & Online
Time is more valuable than money. Time is Life.
XCallxMexSirX
Content creator & BDSM
Non Binary, Pansexual, Boston MA US
In person & Online
Let Me Take Control And Transform You.
breeleche
BDSM, Coach & Muse
Female, Queer, Los Angeles CA US
In person & Online
Trained sexologist and certified sex and relationship coach. I love helping folks safely explore their desires and expand their skills. Warm and friendly BDSM enthusiast excited to play.
princeroro
Artist, Photographer & BDSM
Non Binary, Queer, New York NY US
In person & Online
Kink + Queer photographer
What is pet play?
Let's get it on, right meow.
Pet play is a form of BDSM role-playing where individuals adopt the roles and behaviours of animals, typically pets, within a consensual and negotiated power dynamic. Participants may take on the persona of a pet (e.g., puppy, kitten, pony) and engage in activities that align with the chosen role, which can include playful behaviours, training rituals, and the use of accessories like collars and leashes.
What makes it hot?
The appeal of pet play lies in the opportunity for participants to explore a power dynamic where one takes on the role of a submissive "pet" while the other acts as the dominant "owner" or handler. This form of role-playing allows for creative expression, the fulfilment of specific fantasies, and the establishment of a unique and consensual dynamic where trust and communication are paramount. The arousal often comes from the blend of playfulness, power exchange, and the heightened sense of vulnerability or control.
Pet play can involve sexual elements, but it's crucial to establish boundaries and communicate about the level of intimacy and activities that all parties are comfortable with.
While it often involves a submissive role, pet play dynamics can vary. Some engage in a more equal power exchange, and roles can be negotiated to suit the desires of those involved.
Open communication is key. Start by discussing desires, boundaries, and any curiosities about incorporating pet play. Be attentive to your partner's comfort level and be prepared to address any concerns.
DO
Establish clear boundaries: Clearly communicate and establish boundaries for both the pet and the owner to ensure a safe and consensual experience.
Consent and communication: Regularly check in with all parties involved, ensuring ongoing consent and open communication to address any concerns or adjustments.
Safe words and signals: Implement clear safe words or signals that allow the pet to communicate discomfort or the need to pause the play. This ensures a quick response to any unexpected issues.
DON'T
Neglect aftercare: Aftercare is crucial in pet play, as it helps both parties transition back to their usual roles and provides emotional support. Neglecting aftercare can impact the overall well-being of those involved.
Assume preferences: Avoid assumptions about what activities or behaviors are enjoyable for the pet without explicit discussion. Preferences may vary, and open communication is key.
Push boundaries without discussion: Do not push or exceed established boundaries without prior discussion and consent. Respect for limits is essential in maintaining a safe and consensual environment.
