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nikitafernandes
Educator, Kinkster & Therapist
Female, Queer, New York NY US
Online
I am a Licensed Mental Health Therapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist based in New York City. I graduated with my Master’s in Counseling in Mental Health and Wellness and a dual degree in LGBT Health, Education, and Social Services from New York University. I also hold a Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology with a background in Women and Gender Studies from George Mason University. I identify as a queer South Asian immigrant woman. I’m also neurodivergent and non-monogamous. Aside from being a therapist, I have volunteered as a crisis counselor for the Trevor Project, worked as a graduate assistant for the New York University LGBTQ+ Center, and helped in the planning of social justice conferences. I approach therapy with the intention to understand and connect with my clients as fellow humans. My own journey as a queer South Asian neurodivergent woman, along with the experiences of those close to me, deeply shape my approach. Building a genuine relationship with my clients is my top priority, as I believe it is the biggest predictor of therapeutic success. As a person of color, I actively challenge oppressive structures that have long been dominated by Western white culture. Jiddu Krishnamurti said that it is no measure of health to be adjusted to a society that is profoundly sick and I do not see therapy as a way to numb the pain that is caused by systemic oppression but rather a way to empower clients to have compassion for themselves.
Ambrosia
Coach, Muse & Massage
Female, Queer, Eugene OR US
In person & Online
Earth is my Domme.🌏 I am yours 🖤
mirandahouston
Content creator, Educator & Therapist
Female, Pansexual, Winnipeg MB CA
In person & Online
Hi, I’m Miranda, a somatic sex therapist with over seven years of experience helping women reconnect with their bodies, heal emotional wounds, and rediscover pleasure. My journey began as a massage therapist, where I specialized in fascial and structural work. It was during this time that I truly saw how deeply our bodies store emotions and how physical tension often reflects emotional blockages. Over time, I transitioned into somatic sex therapy, with a focus on how we carry emotions in the body and how these stored feelings can block our ability to experience pleasure, self-awareness, and confidence. I also specialize in nervous system regulation, guiding clients in managing stress and feeling more grounded within their bodies. How I Can Help You Explore Your Sensuality Sensuality is all about feeling fully connected to your body, allowing yourself to experience deeper pleasure, joy, and intimacy. Life can sometimes pull us away from this part of ourselves due to stress, trauma, or societal pressure, but the beautiful truth is that it’s possible to reconnect and rediscover this powerful sense of embodiment. In our work together, I’ll gently guide you through tools and techniques designed to help you safely explore and expand your sensuality. Together, we’ll tap into what feels empowering and exciting for you. Here’s how: Embodiment Practices: I’ll help you slow down and become more aware of your body’s sensations, teaching you how to truly feel through practices like breathwork, mindful movement, or focused touch. Self-Pleasure Techniques: We’ll approach self-pleasure as a healing tool, free from judgment. I’ll help you find the right rhythms, techniques, and pressure points that feel good, making these experiences more meaningful and enjoyable. Breathwork: Breath is one of the most powerful tools for connecting with your sensuality. I’ll show you how to use breathing techniques to release tension, calm your nervous system, and deepen your connection to pleasure. Movement & Touch: By guiding you through simple yet powerful movements, we’ll release trapped emotions and open up pathways to more organic, flowing sensual expression. Using the Right Products: I’ll introduce you to products like oils, toys, or relaxation tools that can enhance your sensual journey, nurturing and supporting the connection you’re rebuilding with your body. Why Work With Me? If you feel disconnected from your body and your sensual self—whether you’ve never experienced an orgasm, are dealing with numbness, or you’re seeking to rebuild confidence—I am here to help. With a gentle, trauma-informed approach, I offer a safe, non-judgmental space for you to explore and expand your sensuality, guiding you toward reclaiming the pleasure that is your birthright. As a practitioner, I’m also on my own journey of learning and growth, which means I’ll be continuously bringing in new tools, insights, and techniques to support your healing. I believe deeply in the wisdom of Buddha’s teaching that we are always students, learning and evolving together. This philosophy keeps my work fresh, adaptable, and open to the latest insights that can further your personal growth. Let’s Work Together! If you’re ready to reconnect with your body, reclaim your sensuality, and rediscover the pleasure you deserve, I’d love to work with you. Together, we can explore the depths of your body and mind in a way that feels safe, empowering, and truly transformative.
Kali
Artist, Kinkster & Workshop
Female, Demisexual, Johannesburg ZA
In person & Online
Besides her optometry career, Kali delved into a path of self-discovery by training in multiple yoga styles, energy work, somatics, and women's circle facilitation. She believes in the power of vulnerability and embodiment of emotions. Blending these tools to ritualise expression: ranging from the subtlety of innocence to the naughtiness of kink to invite liberation through the body. Kali is passionate about curating transformative journeys and attunes to Goddesses' energy to use sensuality as a gateway to spirituality.
olivlips
Content creator & Coach
Female, Bisexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Sensual Intimacy Coach here to guide you to fulfilling your deepest desires. What intrigues you most about sex & love?
marinmarie
Coach, Educator & Massage
Non Binary, Queer, Berlin DE
In person & Online
I am a transmasculine multitasking artist and sex nerd. I have been working on the topic of sexuality for a decade, through body, desire, sexual orientation and gender identity, with a queer feminist and intersectional approach. I do art and healing practices about sexuality, norms and taboos. As a witch, I work with love. I like to accompany people in their intimacy and sexual empowerment. I work as a sex worker and sacred intimate for women&queers, as well as a sexological bodyworker, intimacy coach, and a facilitator for sex-positive retreats and workshops.
alexnoirs
Coach, Massage & Therapist
Male, Straight, Bangkok TH
In person & Online
Tantric Yoni Squirting Massage Bangkok
EroticMentor
Coach, Massage & Workshop
Male, Pansexual, Roda de Berà ES
In person
Hey there, Ready to dive into a world where the intimate meets the sacred? I'm Christian, a Sexological Bodyworker, Sacred Intimate, and Tantra Massage Practitioner, and I'm inviting you to explore the magic of your body, where pleasure, healing, and freedom intertwine. I work intimately and respectfully with men, women, and couples of all genders and orientations. Whether you're on your own or with a partner, my goal is to help you reconnect with yourself, your body, and your desires, in total freedom and safety. A big plus? I work alongside my wife, who shares the same expertise as me, plus additional skills in Breathwork Therapy. Together, we offer a unique experience, especially beneficial for couples or those wanting to explore bisexual experiences in a compassionate, respectful, and safe environment. If you're curious about discovering how your body can become a true temple of sensation and well-being, you're in the right place. My work is based on a holistic approach, combining Tantra, bodywork techniques, and mindful sexuality exploration. The idea? To dissolve blockages, release buried emotions, and (re)discover pleasure in a totally new way. Yes, you read that right—pleasure can also be a path to transformation! Whether you're already an enthusiast or just curious, I guide you through sensual and deep practices to help you experience your intimacy in a more conscious, free, and joyful way. No taboos, no judgments, just you, your body, and your desire to explore. We let go and let the magic happen. As a Sexological Bodyworker, I focus on releasing tension and body blockages to help you fully thrive. As a Sacred Intimate, I create a space for deep, intimate connection where every moment becomes an invitation to explore oneself—without rush. And of course, as a Tantra Massage Practitioner, I guide you through a sensory experience that awakens the body, mind, and deepest desires. Whether it's opening your heart (and your chakras, if that’s your thing) or releasing physical and emotional tensions, I’ll teach you tools that will allow you to flourish—both in your body and in your life. You’re at the center of the experience, and every gesture, every breath is there to reconnect you with your deepest essence. So, if you're ready for a radical, sensual, and liberating journey, I’m here to guide you. Together, we’ll push the boundaries of pleasure, explore unknown territories, and experience things that will completely change your perception of yourself. Come, it’s time to release the magic of your body. 😏 See you soon for this sensory adventure! Christian
ann
Coach, Educator & Massage
Female, Bisexual, Berlin DE
In person
Sensual tantric massages, sexological bodywork, 4handmassages
fanniprokai
Writer, Educator & Workshop
Female, Bicurious, Mexico City MX
In person & Online
I’m an ambitious dreamer from Hungary. I traveled to Mexico to follow my artistic passion and to nurture my entrepreneurial spirit. I am a sex educator and host of conscious talks, events and private sessions to empower people to better understand their body, and to connect with their sensual self—physically, energetically and intellectually. I am the CEO & founder of Mystra, a Mexican pioneering sensual wellness brand offering a wide range of unique pleasure accessories and self-care products.
destingerek
Artist, Coach & Workshop
Male, Demisexual, San Diego CA US
In person & Online
Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, & personal empowerment. A Certified Sexologist through The American Board of Sexology, he’s the author of the bestselling book “The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, & The One She Craves”. His innovative lens is the result of more than 20yrs of academic rigor & direct study - including 7 formative years traveling the world living & teaching as his provocative alter ego, ‘The Erotic Rockstar’. Destin is host of the podcast: Diving Deep w/Destin: Sex, Love, & Evolution & director of the award winning short film "Seductive Devotion". Through his flagship program, Sexual Self-Mastery, he’s trained over 2000 men to master their sexual energy & become attuned, evolved lovers. Destin’s taken the most potent aspects of his bold life experimentation & integrated it into his iconic body of work, directly supporting men to have better sex, deeper connections to their masculine power, women, & themselves
Sacral_Empowerment
Coach, Massage & Workshop
Female, Bicurious, Kassel DE
In person & Online
I am super passionate about empowering you to fully embody & express the truth of who you are in all aspects of life and especially through the portals of your Power, Passion & Love. This includes - but is not limited to - exploring your desires & boundaries, releasing any shame or guilt around your most authentic sexual expression, embodying your fullbody fuck Yes & hell No to feel safe & be in integrity, empowering you to show up fully also in your vulnerability & sensitivity. Especially if you are also a highly sensitive soul like me, this includes the process of embodiment, to feel safe in your body again, with your wants, needs & boundaries (also energetic), your truth, your timing & building the capacity to attune to yourself, be with all that arises for you while staying connected & being able to differentiate what is yours and what are you feeling from the other person, the space, ancestry etc. to become a FULLY EMPOWERED SENSITIVE SOUL! I love to use the portal of sexuality because the way you show up in your sexuality is the way you show up in your life! As a high sensitive, intuitive & fiery healer, I support you through my highly attuned loving embodied presence, Spirit guidance, integrative trauma-integration (I specialized in developmental trauma (NARM) & sexual abuse) & intuitively combine it with frequency work, tools from (Neo) Tantra, Sacred Sexuality, womb healing, the Hara (Soul Embodiment), (sexological) bodywork, shadow work, Gestalt, internal family constallation & parts work as well as working with energies stored in your system from the collective, ancestry & past lives. I work online via zoom or live in Kassel, Germany or wherever I currently am. Singles, couples in all shapes & forms. All of you is welcome just the way you are. And I am so much looking forward to reading or hearing from you & to support you in your own blossoming & empowerment!
What is pleasure education?
What they didn't teach us at school.
Pleasure education, also known as sex-positive education, is a holistic approach to sexual education that emphasises the importance of understanding, experiencing, and expressing sexual pleasure in a healthy, informed, and consensual manner. It goes beyond the traditional focus on reproduction, contraception, and disease prevention to include discussions about intimacy, consent, body positivity, sexual rights, and the emotional and psychological aspects of sexual experiences. Pleasure education aims to empower individuals to make informed decisions about their sexual health and to enjoy fulfilling and respectful sexual relationships.
What makes it hot?
The importance of pleasure education lies in its ability to foster a more comprehensive and positive understanding of sexuality. By addressing the often-neglected aspects of pleasure and consent, it promotes healthier attitudes towards sex and relationships. This education helps individuals develop a better sense of self-awareness and body positivity, reduces feelings of shame and guilt associated with sexual desires, and encourages open communication between partners. Additionally, it contributes to reducing the incidence of sexual violence and coercion by emphasizing the importance of mutual consent and respect. Overall, pleasure education supports the development of healthier, more respectful, and satisfying sexual experiences.
Resources for pleasure education can be found in various places, including online platforms like Sensuali, books, workshops, and organisations dedicated to sexual health and education.
Pleasure education can be tailored to suit different age groups, ensuring that the content is age-appropriate and developmentally suitable. While young children might focus on body awareness and respect, older teens and adults can explore more in-depth topics like intimacy, consent, and sexual techniques.
Pleasure education aims to be inclusive and respectful of diverse cultural and religious backgrounds. It encourages open dialogue and understanding, allowing individuals to explore their sexuality within the context of their personal beliefs and values.
The remote-controlled sex toys reviving long-distance relationships
Monday 21 October 2024
Forget mile high, it's time to join the 'miles wide' club. These are our favourite remote-controlled toys for long-distance fun or solo pleasure time.
Why we need the sex-positive movement now more than ever
Tuesday 24 September 2024
In a word of play parties and polyamory, the sex-positive movement might seem to be flourishing. But between the rise of red pill ideology and a wave of prudish fear-based parenting, it’s crucial to unlearn the harmful notion that sex is 'dirty' now more than ever.
An interview with Chloe Macintosh: sex educator & founder of Kama
Friday 13 September 2024
'Our sexuality is a piece of us that needs to be reinvestigated with kindness, curiosity and time.' We chatted with Chloe Macintosh, sex educator and founder of Kama, the app helping people discover their body and pleasure through everyday practices.
So you want to have better sex: featuring Chloe Macintosh
Friday 13 September 2024
Episode 5 of the Sensuali podcast features the extraordinary Chloe Macintosh, sex educator and founder of Kama, the platform helping people to revive their sex lives and understand their desires.
Why we should all be practicing self-pleasure
Wednesday 28 February 2024
Self Pleasure Club, a grassroots community for women, intersex, non-binary, trans and gender non-conforming humans, explain why we should all be practicing more self-pleasure.
The benefits of pleasure education: what we didn’t learn at school
Sunday 11 February 2024
As society collectively grows more and more conscious of the lack of sex and pleasure education we received growing up, an increasing number of people are seeking pleasure education coaching to fully explore their sexual and non-sexual pleasure. These are ways that pleasure education will change your life.
Community pleasure education: introducing Self-Pleasure Club
Friday 9 February 2024
Looking for a friendly safe space where you can explore your pleasure and have a natter with like-minded others? This is Self Pleasure Club, providing pleasure education in a non-pressured and communal environment.
DO
Promote open communication: Encourage honest and respectful discussions about sexuality, consent, and pleasure among partners, educators, and learners.
Provide accurate information: Ensure that the information shared is fact-based, up-to-date, and sourced from reputable organisations and experts in the field.
Respect boundaries: Acknowledge and respect personal boundaries and comfort levels when discussing topics related to sexual pleasure and health.
Emphasise consent: Highlight the importance of mutual consent in all sexual activities, making it a foundational principle of pleasure education.
Celebrate diversity: Recognise and affirm the wide range of sexual orientations, identities, and experiences, promoting an inclusive and accepting environment.
DON'T
Shame or stigmatise: Avoid language or attitudes that could make individuals feel ashamed or guilty about their sexual desires or experiences.
Rely on myths: Steer clear of perpetuating common sexual myths or misconceptions; focus on providing clear, accurate, and evidence-based information.
Ignore emotional aspects: Don't overlook the emotional and psychological components of sexual pleasure, such as intimacy, connection, and mental well-being.
Exclude non-heteronormative perspectives: Ensure that pleasure education is inclusive of LGBTQ+ experiences and perspectives, rather than centring solely on heteronormative narratives.
Pressure or coerce: Avoid any form of coercion or pressure to participate in discussions or activities related to sexual pleasure; participation should always be voluntary and consensual.
