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mistressbeate
BDSM
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
From £300 - In person & Online
Psychological Domination⛓
arika
BDSM, Coach & Massage
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Berlin-Based Tantrika & Sexuality Coach Female, 32 Years Old With years of experience in sexuality work, from starting out as a sex educator and researching sexual violence to embracing embodied practices through tantra, I am dedicated to helping individuals and couples connect deeply with themselves and each other. I am certified as a systemic sex counselor and couples coach with trauma expertise, I bring both a compassionate heart and extensive knowledge to every session. Working Together In our work together, expect a safe, open environment where you can explore both sensuality and sexuality. My approach integrates meditation, touch, and personalized coaching. Clients often describe my tantric sessions as gentle, profound, and nourishing – and many return to dive deeper into their journey of intimacy and self-discovery. All Genders & Relationship Styles Welcome Individual & Couples Counseling Topics: Desire, Fetishes & Kinks: Understanding, expressing, and living with what excites you Pain & Discomfort During Sex: Moving past discomfort and finding ease Navigating Desire & Displeasure in relationships (marriage or partnership) Sexual Dissatisfaction & Low Libido Sexually Compulsive or Addictive Behavior Consequences of Sexual Trauma: From verbal abuse to physical assaults Chemsex and Related Challenges Difficulty Reaching Orgasm Managing Non-Consensual Affairs & Infidelity Exploring Sexual Preferences & BDSM Sexual Dysfunction such as: Premature ejaculation Erectile challenges Orgasm inhibition Vaginismus Managing STIs: Information and guidance Topics We Can Address in Couples Counseling New Relationships: "We just got together and want to do things differently this time." Communication Issues: "We have nothing more to say to each other." / "We always talk past each other." Trust Issues: "An affair has affected our trust." Sexual Challenges: "Our sexual tempos don’t match." / "I have a fetish I don’t know how to explain to my partner." Conflict Resolution: "We argue too much." / "Everyday life brings challenges for us." Future Planning: "We have different views on children, career, or where to live." Separation Questions: "Do we need to separate?" Control & Perception: "One of us feels controlled or undervalued." Relationship Models: "We’re not sure what relationship model fits us – monogamy, consensual non-monogamy, polyamory, or swinging." Loss of Infatuation: "The spark has faded… Now what?" ****Open to Sugar Baby Arrangements For those interested in exploring genuine sugar baby connections, I am open if there is a mutual, respectful bond. On a personal note: Sexuality is a passion for me, and I am continually discovering new depths within BDSM and tantra , which enriches my practice and insights. And funn is such an important part to ittt
mistresslola
BDSM, Sugar baby & Artist
Female, Pansexual, Paris FR
In person & Online
Having a cute appearance doesn’t bother me from being mean, freaky and sadistic.
yesanansi
Content creator & BDSM
Trans, Queer, New York NY US
In person & Online
Entranced by my gaze. You want to go deeper into your fantasies and make them real. You’re a filthy slut who wants to be owned. Or maybe you’re a puppy boy who needs some fine-tuned training. Or better yet, you just need to submit to a divine Black power. You’ve arrived at the right corner of the Internet and found me, Sir Anansi. Down into my web you go. With over 8 years of experience in the lifestyle I have particular expertise in creating fantastical scenes. Let's explore your depths. My expertise lies within pet/creature play, plant play, trampling, foot fetish, smothering, sensory play & deprivation, strap-on play, and so much more. Follow me on the apps at yes.anansi
PreciousLillith
Dancer, BDSM & Sugar baby
Female, Demisexual, Portland OR US
From $200 - In person & Online
Succubae
mistressrozz
Content creator & BDSM
Female, Pansexual, Los Angeles CA US
From $450 - In person
I am Mistress Rozz, and I tend the gateway of an amazing experience you are on the threshold of. If you're reading this you probably have submissive tenancies and fantasies. If you are a submissive; no matter your experience level, there are things that you need training in. There is no one-size-fits-all perfect sub. I will shape you thoughtfully, relentlessly and sadistically into what I prefer. When you come and serve me you turn yourself over to me, and throughout the course of our session I will test that. My interests include: Leather and Latex fetish, Bondage, Suspension, Predicament Bondage, Mummification, Corporal Punishment, Obedience Training, Objectification, Spitting, Human Ashtray, Sissification, Role Play, Humiliation, Chastity Training, Sensory Deprivation and Sensory Play, CBT, Ballbusting, Shoe, Stocking and Foot Worship, Trampling.
knotsnacks
Content creator, Artist & BDSM
Non Binary, Queer, Los Angeles CA US
From $300 - In person
Experience the beauty in suffering
AgentIda
BDSM
Female, Straight, Berlin DE
From £250 - In person
Ready to punish you and use you as my plaything
GoddessM
BDSM & Muse
Female, Straight, New York NY US
In person & Online
Sensually sadistic Deity👑Dominatrix/Pro&Lifestyle
handsoferos
BDSM & Content creator
Male, Straight, Berlin DE
In person & Online
As a Hypno-Shibari Artist and Soft Dom, I weave the art of Shibari with the depth of hypnosis to create transformative, kinky and healing experiences. I spend my time exploring the delicate balance of power, impact and tenderness, always seeking new ways to connect deeply with others. Friends describe me as an "iron glove in a velvet glove"—firm yet tender. Passionate about unlocking inner potential and fostering self-discovery, I am on a journey of constant learning and profound connection.
vitavolition
Content creator, BDSM & Writer
Female, Queer, Amsterdam NL
From €125 - In person & Online
Your pain is my pleasure 😈⛓️🖤
sunkissed615
BDSM & Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, San Jose CA US
In person & Online
I’m the very wholesome looking neighbor or stranger you’ve been waiting to meet 🥰 come find out the opposite 🥵
What is spanking?
Spank me like you mean it.
Spanking is the act of striking the backside with the hand or an implement for pleasure, arousal, or as part of BDSM activities. It can range from playful and light swats to more intense and deliberate strikes, depending on the preferences and boundaries of those involved. Spanking is often used as a form of erotic stimulation, power exchange, or a means of incorporating pain and pleasure in a consensual and negotiated manner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of spanking can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it introduces an element of power dynamics, where one person takes on the role of the giver and the other as the receiver. The act itself combines the sensations of touch, pain, and pleasure, creating a unique and intense experience.
Additionally, spanking can elicit a sense of vulnerability and submission, adding to the erotic charge of the activity. The audible sounds produced during spanking can also contribute to the overall sensory experience, making it a popular and arousing element within BDSM practices.
While spanking is a common element in BDSM practices, it doesn't exclusively belong to BDSM. Some engage in spanking as part of playful or erotic activities outside the realm of BDSM.
Spanking specifically refers to striking the buttocks, while other forms of impact play may involve striking different parts of the body with various implements.
Yes, preferences can vary widely. Some individuals may enjoy light and playful spanking, while others prefer more intense and disciplinary experiences. Communication is key to understanding individual preferences.
Black and Blue: a story on spanking
Wednesday 24 July 2024
'He told me to lift up my skirt and slid down my thong all the way to my knees.' To celebrate world BDSM day, Berlin-based erotic writer, Pimenta Cítrica shares a short and spicy spanking story.
The disciplinarian dominatrix: meet Agent Ida
Friday 22 September 2023
Sensuali chatted with Agent Ida von Schmidt, the Disciplinarian Dominatrix with a passion for role play and traditional corporal punishment. We discuss her collection of punishment implements, some common misconceptions about Dommes, and BDSM as a form of therapy.
Cute kink illustration: meet Rebecca Lightbody
Friday 4 August 2023
We chatted with kink illustration extraordinaire and lingerie lover Rebecca Lightbody, about her fetish zines, the eroticism of lingerie, and her overarching mission to bring kink out of the shadows and into the light.
Sensual Domination: The Healing Kink The World Needs Right Now
Thursday 13 April 2023
It’s time for the collective consciousness to switch gears from pain-focused BDSM to sensual dominance. Mankind is in crisis and needs healing. Sensual dominance offers a solution.
Confessions of a London Spanky: Alina
Thursday 20 January 2022
Reflections from a retired spanky featuring a few epiphanies and loads of kinky sex experiences.
DO
Communicate clearly: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss desires, boundaries, and preferences before engaging in spanking activities.
Start lightly: If new to spanking, start with light and gentle swats to gauge comfort levels. Gradually increase intensity based on the receiver's response.
Use safe words: Establish and use safe words to ensure clear communication and allow the receiver to communicate if the spanking becomes too intense or uncomfortable.
DON'T
Ignore consent: Always ensure that all parties involved have explicitly consented to engage in spanking activities. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
Strike unsafe areas: Avoid striking the lower back, kidneys, or spine, as these areas can be sensitive and potentially harmful. Focus on the fleshy parts of the buttocks.
Rush: Take your time and pace the spanking activities. Rushing can lead to miscommunication, discomfort, or unintended harm.
