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mistresslola
BDSM, Sugar baby & Artist
Female, Pansexual, Paris FR
In person & Online
Having a cute appearance doesn’t bother me from being mean, freaky and sadistic.
knotsnacks
Content creator, Artist & BDSM
Non Binary, Queer, Los Angeles CA US
In person
Experience the beauty in suffering
papipistacchio
BDSM
Male, Straight, Berlin DE
In person
Swedish/German. Viking roots, Berlin boots. D/s Dominant, explorer, expert cuddler.
MissBecky
BDSM
Female, Bisexual, Berlin DE
In person
I'm Miss Becky, a dominatrix specializing in the art of bullying and tease. With a decade of experience, I masterfully blend psychological dominance with physical control, creating unforgettable sessions for those who crave intensity and authenticity. My approach is rooted in understanding the desires and limits of my submissives, pushing them to their boundaries while ensuring a safe, consensual environment. I revel in the power dynamics, expertly wielding my words and actions to evoke vulnerability, excitement, and a deep sense of submission. Each session with me is a unique journey, tailored to your specific fantasies and fears. Whether you're a seasoned submissive or a curious newcomer, I will guide you through an experience that will leave you yearning for more. My tools of the trade include a sharp tongue, a keen sense of intuition, and an array of instruments designed to tease, torment, and tantalize. Step into my world, where the line between pleasure and pain blurs.
sunkissed615
BDSM & Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, San Jose CA US
In person & Online
I’m the very wholesome looking neighbor or stranger you’ve been waiting to meet 🥰 come find out the opposite 🥵
naughtynymph89
Content creator, BDSM & Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, Los Angeles CA US
Online
Like all Geminis I’m versatile 💕 See my bio for more 😈
sapieha
Content creator & BDSM
Non Binary, Queer, Dresden DE
In person & Online
Sensual Rope witch creating unique experiences that interweave through artistic pleasure.
MirabaiBerlin
BDSM, Massage & Dancer
Female, Bisexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Tantric and Kinky
GoddessM
BDSM & Muse
Female, Straight, New York NY US
In person & Online
Sensually sadistic Deity👑Dominatrix/Pro&Lifestyle
arika
BDSM, Coach & Massage
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Berlin-Based Tantrika & Sexuality Coach Female, 32 Years Old With years of experience in sexuality work, from starting out as a sex educator and researching sexual violence to embracing embodied practices through tantra, I am dedicated to helping individuals and couples connect deeply with themselves and each other. I am certified as a systemic sex counselor and couples coach with trauma expertise, I bring both a compassionate heart and extensive knowledge to every session. Working Together In our work together, expect a safe, open environment where you can explore both sensuality and sexuality. My approach integrates meditation, touch, and personalized coaching. Clients often describe my tantric sessions as gentle, profound, and nourishing – and many return to dive deeper into their journey of intimacy and self-discovery. All Genders & Relationship Styles Welcome Individual & Couples Counseling Topics: Desire, Fetishes & Kinks: Understanding, expressing, and living with what excites you Pain & Discomfort During Sex: Moving past discomfort and finding ease Navigating Desire & Displeasure in relationships (marriage or partnership) Sexual Dissatisfaction & Low Libido Sexually Compulsive or Addictive Behavior Consequences of Sexual Trauma: From verbal abuse to physical assaults Chemsex and Related Challenges Difficulty Reaching Orgasm Managing Non-Consensual Affairs & Infidelity Exploring Sexual Preferences & BDSM Sexual Dysfunction such as: Premature ejaculation Erectile challenges Orgasm inhibition Vaginismus Managing STIs: Information and guidance Topics We Can Address in Couples Counseling New Relationships: "We just got together and want to do things differently this time." Communication Issues: "We have nothing more to say to each other." / "We always talk past each other." Trust Issues: "An affair has affected our trust." Sexual Challenges: "Our sexual tempos don’t match." / "I have a fetish I don’t know how to explain to my partner." Conflict Resolution: "We argue too much." / "Everyday life brings challenges for us." Future Planning: "We have different views on children, career, or where to live." Separation Questions: "Do we need to separate?" Control & Perception: "One of us feels controlled or undervalued." Relationship Models: "We’re not sure what relationship model fits us – monogamy, consensual non-monogamy, polyamory, or swinging." Loss of Infatuation: "The spark has faded… Now what?" ****Open to Sugar Baby Arrangements For those interested in exploring genuine sugar baby connections, I am open if there is a mutual, respectful bond. On a personal note: Sexuality is a passion for me, and I am continually discovering new depths within BDSM and tantra , which enriches my practice and insights. And funn is such an important part to ittt
etoileVega
BDSM, Coach & Companion
Non Binary, Queer, New York NY US
In person & Online
Pro kinkster. Sensual switch, impact is my specialty.
daddyra
Content creator, BDSM & Companion
Trans, Queer, New York NY US
In person & Online
Submitting to me feels like bathing in sunshine ☀️ let Daddy praise you while you dress up 👗 BDSM 🖤 outbound only
What is spanking?
Spank me like you mean it.
Spanking is the act of striking the backside with the hand or an implement for pleasure, arousal, or as part of BDSM activities. It can range from playful and light swats to more intense and deliberate strikes, depending on the preferences and boundaries of those involved. Spanking is often used as a form of erotic stimulation, power exchange, or a means of incorporating pain and pleasure in a consensual and negotiated manner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of spanking can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it introduces an element of power dynamics, where one person takes on the role of the giver and the other as the receiver. The act itself combines the sensations of touch, pain, and pleasure, creating a unique and intense experience.
Additionally, spanking can elicit a sense of vulnerability and submission, adding to the erotic charge of the activity. The audible sounds produced during spanking can also contribute to the overall sensory experience, making it a popular and arousing element within BDSM practices.
While spanking is a common element in BDSM practices, it doesn't exclusively belong to BDSM. Some engage in spanking as part of playful or erotic activities outside the realm of BDSM.
Spanking specifically refers to striking the buttocks, while other forms of impact play may involve striking different parts of the body with various implements.
Yes, preferences can vary widely. Some individuals may enjoy light and playful spanking, while others prefer more intense and disciplinary experiences. Communication is key to understanding individual preferences.
Black and Blue: a story on spanking
Wednesday 24 July 2024
'He told me to lift up my skirt and slid down my thong all the way to my knees.' To celebrate world BDSM day, Berlin-based erotic writer, Pimenta Cítrica shares a short and spicy spanking story.
The disciplinarian dominatrix: meet Agent Ida
Friday 22 September 2023
Sensuali chatted with Agent Ida von Schmidt, the Disciplinarian Dominatrix with a passion for role play and traditional corporal punishment. We discuss her collection of punishment implements, some common misconceptions about Dommes, and BDSM as a form of therapy.
Cute kink illustration: meet Rebecca Lightbody
Friday 4 August 2023
We chatted with kink illustration extraordinaire and lingerie lover Rebecca Lightbody, about her fetish zines, the eroticism of lingerie, and her overarching mission to bring kink out of the shadows and into the light.
Sensual Domination: The Healing Kink The World Needs Right Now
Thursday 13 April 2023
It’s time for the collective consciousness to switch gears from pain-focused BDSM to sensual dominance. Mankind is in crisis and needs healing. Sensual dominance offers a solution.
Confessions of a London Spanky: Alina
Thursday 20 January 2022
Reflections from a retired spanky featuring a few epiphanies and loads of kinky sex experiences.
DO
Communicate clearly: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss desires, boundaries, and preferences before engaging in spanking activities.
Start lightly: If new to spanking, start with light and gentle swats to gauge comfort levels. Gradually increase intensity based on the receiver's response.
Use safe words: Establish and use safe words to ensure clear communication and allow the receiver to communicate if the spanking becomes too intense or uncomfortable.
DON'T
Ignore consent: Always ensure that all parties involved have explicitly consented to engage in spanking activities. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
Strike unsafe areas: Avoid striking the lower back, kidneys, or spine, as these areas can be sensitive and potentially harmful. Focus on the fleshy parts of the buttocks.
Rush: Take your time and pace the spanking activities. Rushing can lead to miscommunication, discomfort, or unintended harm.
