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Spank me like you mean it.
DiablaDoom
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 26, Bisexual
Liverpool UK (In person & Online)
A shape shifting succubus sent to lead you to your doom via fetish facilitation as your purveyor of perversion.
NaughtyNice
Massage
Female, 33, Bisexual
London UK (In person)
Sensual massage in London by female masseuse
mistresskizumi
BDSM
Female, 34, Straight
London UK (In person)
London Asian American Dominatrix
Allanna
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 48, Straight
Manchester UK (In person & Online)
" Never underestimate the power of an Alpha Female - " Mistress Allanna"BDSM- Isn't about pain ..... It's about TRUST
Bathory_cvnt
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 30, Bisexual
London UK (In person & Online)
Venus in Doc Martens
MadameGrayy
BDSM
Female, 26, Bisexual
Northampton UK (In person)
I am Based in Northampton, but also travel to London frequently. I am a sadist and heavily enjoy making men suffer at my feet. I have been in the scene for 3 years now and also attend kink events In London. I love submissive men that make it their best interest to make my life easier. As well as a real time mistress/madame, I also enjoy playing with my subs online. my main kinks are CBT, Financial Domination, Pegging, Humiliation , Worship , Latex and Heavy impact play… and basically anything that will make you suffer 🥵 Hard limits: - CNC - Hardsports - Age play - Race play -Blackmail Session prices vary. [email protected]
RonelleChamber
BDSM
Female, 50, Bisexual
Walsall UK (In person)
Kinky perverted glam Bdsm Queen
Ladyvictorious
BDSM
Female, 40, Bisexual
Bristol UK (In person)
I'm Lady Victorious. I'm an experienced Dominatrix who loves to combine the soft and sensual aspects of Tantra with the sharper edges of BDSM. I'm completely unique as a Domme because of my experience and my intoxicating combination of the erotic, the sensual and the sharp edges of domination. You'll be my perfect sub if you like to serve and to be used for my pleasure. I love foot fetish, impact play of all kinds, sensation play, sensory deprivation, rope bondage and so much more. I look forward to hearing your desires.
What is spanking?
Spank me like you mean it.
Spanking is the act of striking the backside with the hand or an implement for pleasure, arousal, or as part of BDSM activities. It can range from playful and light swats to more intense and deliberate strikes, depending on the preferences and boundaries of those involved. Spanking is often used as a form of erotic stimulation, power exchange, or a means of incorporating pain and pleasure in a consensual and negotiated manner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of spanking can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it introduces an element of power dynamics, where one person takes on the role of the giver and the other as the receiver. The act itself combines the sensations of touch, pain, and pleasure, creating a unique and intense experience.
Additionally, spanking can elicit a sense of vulnerability and submission, adding to the erotic charge of the activity. The audible sounds produced during spanking can also contribute to the overall sensory experience, making it a popular and arousing element within BDSM practices.
While spanking is a common element in BDSM practices, it doesn't exclusively belong to BDSM. Some engage in spanking as part of playful or erotic activities outside the realm of BDSM.
Spanking specifically refers to striking the buttocks, while other forms of impact play may involve striking different parts of the body with various implements.
Yes, preferences can vary widely. Some individuals may enjoy light and playful spanking, while others prefer more intense and disciplinary experiences. Communication is key to understanding individual preferences.
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The disciplinarian dominatrix: meet Agent Ida
Friday 22 September 2023
Sensuali chatted with Agent Ida von Schmidt, the Disciplinarian Dominatrix with a passion for role play and traditional corporal punishment. We discuss her collection of punishment implements, some common misconceptions about Dommes, and BDSM as a form of therapy.
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We chatted with kink illustration extraordinaire and lingerie lover Rebecca Lightbody, about her fetish zines, the eroticism of lingerie, and her overarching mission to bring kink out of the shadows and into the light.
Sensual Domination: The Healing Kink The World Needs Right Now
Thursday 13 April 2023
It’s time for the collective consciousness to switch gears from pain-focused BDSM to sensual dominance. Mankind is in crisis and needs healing. Sensual dominance offers a solution.
Confessions of a London Spanky: Alina
Thursday 20 January 2022
Reflections from a retired spanky featuring a few epiphanies and loads of kinky sex experiences.
DO
Communicate clearly: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss desires, boundaries, and preferences before engaging in spanking activities.
Start lightly: If new to spanking, start with light and gentle swats to gauge comfort levels. Gradually increase intensity based on the receiver's response.
Use safe words: Establish and use safe words to ensure clear communication and allow the receiver to communicate if the spanking becomes too intense or uncomfortable.
DON'T
Ignore consent: Always ensure that all parties involved have explicitly consented to engage in spanking activities. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
Strike unsafe areas: Avoid striking the lower back, kidneys, or spine, as these areas can be sensitive and potentially harmful. Focus on the fleshy parts of the buttocks.
Rush: Take your time and pace the spanking activities. Rushing can lead to miscommunication, discomfort, or unintended harm.
