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RedSonia
Content creator & BDSM
Female, Bisexual, Berlin DE
From £400 - In person & Online
Mature and experienced English Dominatrix with a Lens
sandrakinkr
BDSM, Companion & Sugar baby
Female, Straight, Dallas TX US
From £200 - In person & Online
Let me take you deep into the darkest part of the lifestyle
MissAria
Erotic audio, BDSM & Companion
Female, Pansexual, Stockholm SE
In person & Online
Sensual, sapiosexual (and horny), luxury dominatrix type. Travel for civi job so catch me in Stockholm, Munich, London
Chatouille
BDSM, Retreat & Workshop
Female, Demisexual, Asheville NC US
From $80 - In person
Transformative FemDom disciplinarian. Headmistress & curator of Lair Derriere, a private FemDom society.
JanelleMarie
BDSM, Companion & Educator
Female, Queer, Denver CO US
In person
Radiant Goddess, Tantra Companion, Pro-domme
soma_rose
BDSM, Dancer & Massage
Female, Queer, Providence RI US
In person & Online
i am a priestess of deep, present and sensual embodiment. i am a sensual movement artist // performer with a focus on pole dance and contemporary movement. i am a midwifery student devoted to expanding sovereignty and freedom with pregnant folx in our community. i am a professional massage therapist with a focus on trauma-informed support in expanding pleasure and sensation. i am a practicing somatic astrologer and tarot reader as well. i am also a doctoral student writing a dissertation on mysticism and sexual ethics. i have been practicing and teaching around trauma-transforming BDSM practice as a submissive // gentle switch for many years now.
MissA
BDSM, Companion & Muse
Female, Bisexual, Philadelphia PA US
From $1 - In person & Online
Travel the world that exists inside you 🖤 Sensualist, hedonist, earth mother domme. Specializing in newbies. Imagine sliding into a deep grotto of relaxation, only to adventure into the realms of deep human experience and expressive impact play ... or more. Magic hands. Also seeking submissives/service subs with hopes of finding at least one in-person intimate sub to be enmeshed in my life. Also seeking rope bunnies to help me progress my rigging skills. Will occasionally switch with friends, especially for leather and latex bondage.
thefunnydom
Content creator & BDSM
Male, Straight, Melbourne AU
In person & Online
A pro Daddy Dominant driven to share and explore both sadism and care, and to teach and train those in need or curious
papipistacchio
BDSM
Male, Straight, Berlin DE
In person
Swedish/German. Viking roots, Berlin boots. D/s Dominant, explorer, expert cuddler.
SultanaAisha
BDSM, Coach & Content creator
Female, Sapiosexual, Zürich CH
From £999 - In person & Online
Lifestyle Femdom Sultana Goddess Aisha Owner of THE HAREM in Zürich Cultivating 24/7 slaves to serve me and my Domme friends Dominatrix and Educatrix Host of FemDom Events with International well known Dommes Goddess of my own belief system THE AISHISM
chloephemeral
Coach, BDSM & Workshop
Female, Pansexual, Barcelona ES
In person & Online
Intamacy is powerful
MoonEnergy
BDSM, Companion & Massage
Female, Bisexual, Stockholm SE
In person & Online
Sassy, smart and charming femdom Curvy Good ass Bisexual Love foot and other types of worship Very into massages As an ex-horsegirl and dancer, I can move my body in ways that will captivate you I wear a suit for my corporate 9-5 Spicy on the downlow xoxo
What is spanking?
Spank me like you mean it.
Spanking is the act of striking the backside with the hand or an implement for pleasure, arousal, or as part of BDSM activities. It can range from playful and light swats to more intense and deliberate strikes, depending on the preferences and boundaries of those involved. Spanking is often used as a form of erotic stimulation, power exchange, or a means of incorporating pain and pleasure in a consensual and negotiated manner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of spanking can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it introduces an element of power dynamics, where one person takes on the role of the giver and the other as the receiver. The act itself combines the sensations of touch, pain, and pleasure, creating a unique and intense experience.
Additionally, spanking can elicit a sense of vulnerability and submission, adding to the erotic charge of the activity. The audible sounds produced during spanking can also contribute to the overall sensory experience, making it a popular and arousing element within BDSM practices.
While spanking is a common element in BDSM practices, it doesn't exclusively belong to BDSM. Some engage in spanking as part of playful or erotic activities outside the realm of BDSM.
Spanking specifically refers to striking the buttocks, while other forms of impact play may involve striking different parts of the body with various implements.
Yes, preferences can vary widely. Some individuals may enjoy light and playful spanking, while others prefer more intense and disciplinary experiences. Communication is key to understanding individual preferences.
Black and Blue: a story on spanking
Wednesday 24 July 2024
'He told me to lift up my skirt and slid down my thong all the way to my knees.' To celebrate world BDSM day, Berlin-based erotic writer, Pimenta Cítrica shares a short and spicy spanking story.
The disciplinarian dominatrix: meet Agent Ida
Friday 22 September 2023
Sensuali chatted with Agent Ida von Schmidt, the Disciplinarian Dominatrix with a passion for role play and traditional corporal punishment. We discuss her collection of punishment implements, some common misconceptions about Dommes, and BDSM as a form of therapy.
Cute kink illustration: meet Rebecca Lightbody
Friday 4 August 2023
We chatted with kink illustration extraordinaire and lingerie lover Rebecca Lightbody, about her fetish zines, the eroticism of lingerie, and her overarching mission to bring kink out of the shadows and into the light.
Sensual Domination: The Healing Kink The World Needs Right Now
Thursday 13 April 2023
It’s time for the collective consciousness to switch gears from pain-focused BDSM to sensual dominance. Mankind is in crisis and needs healing. Sensual dominance offers a solution.
Confessions of a London Spanky: Alina
Thursday 20 January 2022
Reflections from a retired spanky featuring a few epiphanies and loads of kinky sex experiences.
DO
Communicate clearly: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss desires, boundaries, and preferences before engaging in spanking activities.
Start lightly: If new to spanking, start with light and gentle swats to gauge comfort levels. Gradually increase intensity based on the receiver's response.
Use safe words: Establish and use safe words to ensure clear communication and allow the receiver to communicate if the spanking becomes too intense or uncomfortable.
DON'T
Ignore consent: Always ensure that all parties involved have explicitly consented to engage in spanking activities. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
Strike unsafe areas: Avoid striking the lower back, kidneys, or spine, as these areas can be sensitive and potentially harmful. Focus on the fleshy parts of the buttocks.
Rush: Take your time and pace the spanking activities. Rushing can lead to miscommunication, discomfort, or unintended harm.
