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Spank me like you mean it.
GoddessM
BDSM & Muse
Female, Sapiosexual, New York NY US
In person & Online
Sensually sadistic Deity👑Dominatrix/Pro&Lifestyle
louna
Content creator, BDSM & Kinkster
Female, Sapiosexual, Kajaani FI
In person & Online
Time is more valuable than money. Time is Life.
MsGeminex
Content creator & BDSM
Female, Demisexual, Phoenix AZ US
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Seductive in My ways to tease, torment and train submissive little pets. Traveling often. FMTY & in-calls.
MxLila
BDSM, Muse & Therapist
Non Binary, Queer, Landskrona SE
In person & Online
Purple to the people 💜
etoileVega
BDSM, Coach & Companion
Non Binary, Queer, New York NY US
In person & Online
Pro kinkster. Sensual switch, impact is my specialty.
Fixated0_ral
Content creator, BDSM & Educator
Non Binary, Pansexual, El Paso TX US
In person & Online
I want to provide an open casual space for adults to admit they don’t know anything about sex except how to stick it in! I want to freely speak and educate them on the various way to fuck and be fucked. How to discover themselves with others. How to battle their internalized slut shame. How to be confident in their sensuality. I’m also wanting to meet others and possibly navigate a D/s dynamic. I Dominant regularly but as a switch my submissive side is often not cared for as I wish it was. So hopefully that’s something can also navigate here.
maeling
Content creator & BDSM
Female, Queer, Los Angeles CA US
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The Adorable Domme: a schoolgirl bully with a tiger Asian Mommy Domme twist.
sapieha
Content creator & BDSM
Non Binary, Queer, Dresden DE
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Sensual Rope witch creating unique experiences that interweave through artistic pleasure.
sunkissed615
BDSM & Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, San Jose CA US
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I’m the very wholesome looking neighbor or stranger you’ve been waiting to meet 🥰 come find out the opposite 🥵
naughtynymph89
Content creator, BDSM & Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, Los Angeles CA US
Online
Like all Geminis I’m versatile 💕 See my bio for more 😈
PreciousLillith
Dancer, BDSM & Sugar baby
Female, Demisexual, Portland OR US
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Succubae
MaleProDominant
BDSM
Male, Straight, Barcelona ES
In person
I am a professional Dominant based in Brighton, London, but I travel all over the UK.
What is spanking?
Spank me like you mean it.
Spanking is the act of striking the backside with the hand or an implement for pleasure, arousal, or as part of BDSM activities. It can range from playful and light swats to more intense and deliberate strikes, depending on the preferences and boundaries of those involved. Spanking is often used as a form of erotic stimulation, power exchange, or a means of incorporating pain and pleasure in a consensual and negotiated manner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of spanking can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it introduces an element of power dynamics, where one person takes on the role of the giver and the other as the receiver. The act itself combines the sensations of touch, pain, and pleasure, creating a unique and intense experience.
Additionally, spanking can elicit a sense of vulnerability and submission, adding to the erotic charge of the activity. The audible sounds produced during spanking can also contribute to the overall sensory experience, making it a popular and arousing element within BDSM practices.
While spanking is a common element in BDSM practices, it doesn't exclusively belong to BDSM. Some engage in spanking as part of playful or erotic activities outside the realm of BDSM.
Spanking specifically refers to striking the buttocks, while other forms of impact play may involve striking different parts of the body with various implements.
Yes, preferences can vary widely. Some individuals may enjoy light and playful spanking, while others prefer more intense and disciplinary experiences. Communication is key to understanding individual preferences.
Black and Blue: a story on spanking
Wednesday 24 July 2024
'He told me to lift up my skirt and slid down my thong all the way to my knees.' To celebrate world BDSM day, Berlin-based erotic writer, Pimenta CÃtrica shares a short and spicy spanking story.
The disciplinarian dominatrix: meet Agent Ida
Friday 22 September 2023
Sensuali chatted with Agent Ida von Schmidt, the Disciplinarian Dominatrix with a passion for role play and traditional corporal punishment. We discuss her collection of punishment implements, some common misconceptions about Dommes, and BDSM as a form of therapy.
Cute kink illustration: meet Rebecca Lightbody
Friday 4 August 2023
We chatted with kink illustration extraordinaire and lingerie lover Rebecca Lightbody, about her fetish zines, the eroticism of lingerie, and her overarching mission to bring kink out of the shadows and into the light.
Sensual Domination: The Healing Kink The World Needs Right Now
Thursday 13 April 2023
It’s time for the collective consciousness to switch gears from pain-focused BDSM to sensual dominance. Mankind is in crisis and needs healing. Sensual dominance offers a solution.
Confessions of a London Spanky: Alina
Thursday 20 January 2022
Reflections from a retired spanky featuring a few epiphanies and loads of kinky sex experiences.
DO
Communicate clearly: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss desires, boundaries, and preferences before engaging in spanking activities.
Start lightly: If new to spanking, start with light and gentle swats to gauge comfort levels. Gradually increase intensity based on the receiver's response.
Use safe words: Establish and use safe words to ensure clear communication and allow the receiver to communicate if the spanking becomes too intense or uncomfortable.
DON'T
Ignore consent: Always ensure that all parties involved have explicitly consented to engage in spanking activities. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
Strike unsafe areas: Avoid striking the lower back, kidneys, or spine, as these areas can be sensitive and potentially harmful. Focus on the fleshy parts of the buttocks.
Rush: Take your time and pace the spanking activities. Rushing can lead to miscommunication, discomfort, or unintended harm.
