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Spanking
Spank me like you mean it.
MaleProDominant
BDSM
Services are In person
Male - Straight
Barcelona ES
I am a professional Dominant based in Brighton, London, but I travel all over the UK.
sandrakinkr
BDSM, Companion & Sugar baby
Services are In person & Online
Female - Straight
Dallas TX US
Let me take you deep into the darkest part of the lifestyle
Helina
Content creator, BDSM & Coach
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Paris FR
I am a conscious kink facilitator and Dominatrix, passionate about creating transformative, empowering spaces for you to explore power dynamics, consent, and authentic self-expression. In our work together, you'll uncover your deepest desires, define clear boundaries, and tap into the liberating power of kink. With a focus on clear communication and mutual respect, I guide you through a journey of self-discovery, where vulnerability becomes strength and personal empowerment is key. Whether you're looking to release old limitations or step into your fullest self, my sessions offer the perfect blend of playfulness, intensity, pleasure, adventure and self-growth, helping you connect more deeply with your desires, your power, and the freedom within surrender. I offer personalized 1-2-1 sessions, group workshops, and interactive/educative talks, centered around exploring power dynamics, consent, and self-expression through conscious kink, sensuality, and energy work.
Ende_J
Content creator, Artist & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Male - Bisexual
Los Angeles CA US
Welcome^_^. I hold sex and sexuality as brushes and view the people who submit to my care as canvas. By making use of a D/S dynamic, I aim to turn my subs into art objects and refelct and amplifiiy the beauty they show me. Through a sereis of sessions, my subs and I build a relationship founded on trust and comfort, allowing for a release of repressive anxieties. My approach combines conversation with artistic expression. Using photography, mirrors and rope as my primary media, I capture your essence in a way that reveals an unfiltered you: its gorgeous. Additionally, I find rope work can evoke sensations of being held and supported, further enhancing your experience of safety and relaxation. When you work with me, you are not just a sub—you become a living masterpiece.
maragenesis
Content creator, BDSM & Coach
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Los Angeles CA US
Los Angeles Demonatrix ❖ Priestess of Pain ❖ Succubitch
yesanansi
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Trans - Queer
New York NY US
Entranced by my gaze. You want to go deeper into your fantasies and make them real. You’re a filthy slut who wants to be owned. Or maybe you’re a puppy boy who needs some fine-tuned training. Or better yet, you just need to submit to a divine Black power. You’ve arrived at the right corner of the Internet and found me, Sir Anansi. Down into my web you go. With over 8 years of experience in the lifestyle I have particular expertise in creating fantastical scenes. Let's explore your depths. My expertise lies within pet/creature play, plant play, trampling, foot fetish, smothering, sensory play & deprivation, strap-on play, and so much more. Follow me on the apps at yes.anansi
AgentIda
BDSM
Services are In person
Female - Straight
Berlin DE
Ready to punish you and use you as my plaything
vitavolition
Content creator, BDSM & Writer
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Amsterdam NL
Your pain is my pleasure 😈⛓️🖤
MissAria
Erotic audio, BDSM & Companion
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Stockholm SE
Sensual, sapiosexual (and horny), luxury dominatrix type. Travel for civi job so catch me in Stockholm, Munich, London
MissA
BDSM, Companion & Muse
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Philadelphia PA US
Travel the world that exists inside you 🖤 Sensualist, hedonist, earth mother domme. Specializing in newbies. Imagine sliding into a deep grotto of relaxation, only to adventure into the realms of deep human experience and expressive impact play ... or more. Magic hands. Also seeking submissives/service subs with hopes of finding at least one in-person intimate sub to be enmeshed in my life. Also seeking rope bunnies to help me progress my rigging skills. Will occasionally switch with friends, especially for leather and latex bondage.
thefunnydom
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Male - Straight
Melbourne AU
A pro Daddy Dominant driven to share and explore both sadism and care, and to teach and train those in need or curious
SultanaAisha
BDSM, Coach & Content creator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Sapiosexual
Zürich CH
Lifestyle Femdom Sultana Goddess Aisha Owner of THE HAREM in Zürich Cultivating 24/7 slaves to serve me and my Domme friends Dominatrix and Educatrix Host of FemDom Events with International well known Dommes Goddess of my own belief system THE AISHISM
What is spanking?
Spank me like you mean it.
Spanking is the act of striking the backside with the hand or an implement for pleasure, arousal, or as part of BDSM activities. It can range from playful and light swats to more intense and deliberate strikes, depending on the preferences and boundaries of those involved. Spanking is often used as a form of erotic stimulation, power exchange, or a means of incorporating pain and pleasure in a consensual and negotiated manner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of spanking can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it introduces an element of power dynamics, where one person takes on the role of the giver and the other as the receiver. The act itself combines the sensations of touch, pain, and pleasure, creating a unique and intense experience.
Additionally, spanking can elicit a sense of vulnerability and submission, adding to the erotic charge of the activity. The audible sounds produced during spanking can also contribute to the overall sensory experience, making it a popular and arousing element within BDSM practices.
While spanking is a common element in BDSM practices, it doesn't exclusively belong to BDSM. Some engage in spanking as part of playful or erotic activities outside the realm of BDSM.
Spanking specifically refers to striking the buttocks, while other forms of impact play may involve striking different parts of the body with various implements.
Yes, preferences can vary widely. Some individuals may enjoy light and playful spanking, while others prefer more intense and disciplinary experiences. Communication is key to understanding individual preferences.
DO
Communicate clearly: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss desires, boundaries, and preferences before engaging in spanking activities.
Start lightly: If new to spanking, start with light and gentle swats to gauge comfort levels. Gradually increase intensity based on the receiver's response.
Use safe words: Establish and use safe words to ensure clear communication and allow the receiver to communicate if the spanking becomes too intense or uncomfortable.
DON'T
Ignore consent: Always ensure that all parties involved have explicitly consented to engage in spanking activities. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
Strike unsafe areas: Avoid striking the lower back, kidneys, or spine, as these areas can be sensitive and potentially harmful. Focus on the fleshy parts of the buttocks.
Rush: Take your time and pace the spanking activities. Rushing can lead to miscommunication, discomfort, or unintended harm.
