Explore sensualists
Spanking, find sensualists profiles into Erotic spanking
Spank me like you mean it.
EightBuddhas
Content creator & BDSM
Male, Bisexual, Louisville KY US
In person & Online
When choosing between two evils, I'll pick the one I haven't tried.
GoddessEros
BDSM, Coach & Companion
Female, Bisexual, Cabo San Lucas MX
In person & Online
I take you in a journey through the senses and the mind, using the art and world of Sensual Shibari.
SensiJane
BDSM, Massage & Sugar baby
Female, Pansexual, Antwerp BE
In person & Online
Wildly sexual. Open to a lot of experiences. I'd love to make your wildest fantasies become reality ✨ Do to see what we van arrange! For kinky content follow my f2f page https://f2f.com/jane_x/ 😘
MyloRyn
Content creator & BDSM
Non Binary, Bisexual, Boston MA US
In person & Online
BDSM: Bondage, impact, and degradation. Vanilla: Deep empathy, conversation, and intimacy.
Onlygrowls
Content creator & BDSM
Male, Straight, Melbourne AU
In person & Online
Primal growls and so many other things
Sonatalicious
BDSM, Coach & Workshop
Female, Pansexual, Riga LV
In person & Online
Natalja Sorokina, sex and kink coach, sexeducator, event organizer, safe space facilitator, sex toys connoisseur, holistic BDSM practitioner. Natalja studies sexuality, looking at it not only from the physical, but also from the psychological side. Having graduated from the Moscow Institute of Sexology, she accumulates additional knowledge from various courses and sources, as well as regularly shares it by conducting lectures and master classes, in private consultations for individuals and couples. Natalja is giving lectures at SexyStyle sexual wellness store for 4 years now, in cultural center Lastadija, took part in two Erasmus+ sexeducation projects, was a lecturer in Latvian health ministry organized sexeducation program for schools, speaks at festivals, PRIDE and private events. Have been co-running a BDSM dungeon in Riga for 4 years, organizing workshops, kinky play parties, and conducting individual and couples sessions. Favorite topics: consent culture, communication, kink, BDSM, ENM, developing sensitivity, intimacy and sensuality in relationship with yourself and partners.
MysteriousMaster
BDSM, Sugar baby & Writer
Male, Straight, Summerlin South NV US
In person & Online
I am a single Vegas local looking for someone to chill with. And maybe someone I can hang with consistently. If you are nice maybe you’ll get lucky, maybe. Known for being dominant. I am Dom/ Brat Tamer. I have the ability to adapt to almost any situation, and I am pretty open minded. I’ve been told I am funny, and I’m always looking for my next adventure. Looking to get to know people, preferably locals, open to getting to know anyone though; as long as you are cool and interesting. Also if I’m in your area on here but it shows Vegas, it’s because I have a trip booked
pixiedream
BDSM, Massage & Sugar baby
Female, Queer, Berlin DE
In person & Online
I can be your manic pixie dream girl <3
SarahKirschBitte
Content creator, Artist & BDSM
Female, Bisexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
If the Queen is happy, there is peace in the queendom .
MistressElleQui
Content creator & BDSM
Female, Bisexual, Seattle WA US
In person & Online
I am Mistress Elle, a sensual sadist and meticulous Professional Dominatrix. I meld your fantasies with reality and craft an experience that will stay with you for a lifetime. When I'm not using my canes, whips, and ropes to turn submissives into art, you can find me in the ballet studio or out in the wilderness with my 2 dogs. My long-term goals include opening a commercial dungeon and possessing a personal library akin to the one from Beauty and the Beast. Well equipped. I am not a FS provider, be sure you read the rules on my website before sending an inquiry. Kinks I love: Rope Bondage (technical, contortion, and predicament) Impact Play / Pain Training / Bastinado Whipping CBT Foot / Heel / Boot Worship Leather Worship MedFet Pet Play Feminization / Maid Training Spitting Bird Feeding Chastity /Keyholding Pegging Needle Play Sounding Electric Play Vacuum Beds/Mummification Wax Play
LadyVyra
BDSM, Massage & Workshop
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Surrender To My Touch
ladyvelvetsteel
BDSM, Coach & Workshop
Female, Bisexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
bespoke BDSM experiences
What is spanking?
Spank me like you mean it.
Spanking is the act of striking the backside with the hand or an implement for pleasure, arousal, or as part of BDSM activities. It can range from playful and light swats to more intense and deliberate strikes, depending on the preferences and boundaries of those involved. Spanking is often used as a form of erotic stimulation, power exchange, or a means of incorporating pain and pleasure in a consensual and negotiated manner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of spanking can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it introduces an element of power dynamics, where one person takes on the role of the giver and the other as the receiver. The act itself combines the sensations of touch, pain, and pleasure, creating a unique and intense experience.
Additionally, spanking can elicit a sense of vulnerability and submission, adding to the erotic charge of the activity. The audible sounds produced during spanking can also contribute to the overall sensory experience, making it a popular and arousing element within BDSM practices.
While spanking is a common element in BDSM practices, it doesn't exclusively belong to BDSM. Some engage in spanking as part of playful or erotic activities outside the realm of BDSM.
Spanking specifically refers to striking the buttocks, while other forms of impact play may involve striking different parts of the body with various implements.
Yes, preferences can vary widely. Some individuals may enjoy light and playful spanking, while others prefer more intense and disciplinary experiences. Communication is key to understanding individual preferences.
Black and Blue: a story on spanking
Wednesday 24 July 2024
'He told me to lift up my skirt and slid down my thong all the way to my knees.' To celebrate world BDSM day, Berlin-based erotic writer, Pimenta Cítrica shares a short and spicy spanking story.
The disciplinarian dominatrix: meet Agent Ida
Friday 22 September 2023
Sensuali chatted with Agent Ida von Schmidt, the Disciplinarian Dominatrix with a passion for role play and traditional corporal punishment. We discuss her collection of punishment implements, some common misconceptions about Dommes, and BDSM as a form of therapy.
Cute kink illustration: meet Rebecca Lightbody
Friday 4 August 2023
We chatted with kink illustration extraordinaire and lingerie lover Rebecca Lightbody, about her fetish zines, the eroticism of lingerie, and her overarching mission to bring kink out of the shadows and into the light.
Sensual Domination: The Healing Kink The World Needs Right Now
Thursday 13 April 2023
It’s time for the collective consciousness to switch gears from pain-focused BDSM to sensual dominance. Mankind is in crisis and needs healing. Sensual dominance offers a solution.
Confessions of a London Spanky: Alina
Thursday 20 January 2022
Reflections from a retired spanky featuring a few epiphanies and loads of kinky sex experiences.
DO
Communicate clearly: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss desires, boundaries, and preferences before engaging in spanking activities.
Start lightly: If new to spanking, start with light and gentle swats to gauge comfort levels. Gradually increase intensity based on the receiver's response.
Use safe words: Establish and use safe words to ensure clear communication and allow the receiver to communicate if the spanking becomes too intense or uncomfortable.
DON'T
Ignore consent: Always ensure that all parties involved have explicitly consented to engage in spanking activities. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
Strike unsafe areas: Avoid striking the lower back, kidneys, or spine, as these areas can be sensitive and potentially harmful. Focus on the fleshy parts of the buttocks.
Rush: Take your time and pace the spanking activities. Rushing can lead to miscommunication, discomfort, or unintended harm.
