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Spank me like you mean it.
KoreKouture
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 35, Pansexual
Leeds UK (In person & Online)
I'm a very playful Dominant, I adore reactions and helping people to explore to find what they enjoy!
ladylilax
Artist, BDSM & Muse
Female, 29, Bisexual
Dublin IE (In person & Online)
$•••𝔐𝔦𝔰𝔱𝔯𝔢𝔰𝔰 𝔏𝔞𝔡𝔶 𝔏𝔦𝔩𝔞𝔠•••$ -Welcome submissives and curious seekers of surrender... I Am a Professional Mistress, cultured, intelligent, and sophisticated. Experienced and elegant, I am a true Alpha Female. My first love is power. It thrills me, fills my soul, brings more pleasure than orgasm. The moment you step into my space, the time is no longer yours. Your body no longer belongs to you, your will begins to bend to my whims, longing desperately to fulfill my every command. You will be taken in by My sexual prowess the moment we meet. My eyes alone are enough to have you under My spell. Kiss My feet before you enter the room. While My fetishes and perverse proclivities are many, My primary interests - and My greatest turn ons - lie in genuine and total power exchange, Goddess worship, and service training. Be it within the container of a singular rendezvous or an ongoing dynamic, these core kinks are the foundations upon which I build experiences and connections with My playmates and submissives. I delight in receiving your willing and earnest surrender, molding your submissive psyche, training you to My standards of excellence, and witnessing the beautiful unfolding of your subjugation as you grow and evolve under My strict guidance and Divine Feminine authority. I am the quintessential Alpha Female who will take you deep into subspace and keep you there always when in my presence and this is when you will learn your true purpose in life, for it is to kneel down before me and serve me. I am hardcore however I do have a dual side which allows me to explore more sensual aspects
MistressEtta
BDSM
Female, 35, Bicurious
Glasgow UK (In person)
The mean Mother you have always wanted.
Juicy_Jynxxx
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 26, Bisexual
London UK (In person & Online)
Not your average gym bunny! 🥵 Come find out why...
maragenesis
BDSM, Coach & Content creator
Female, 69, Pansexual
Los Angeles CA US (In person & Online)
Los Angeles Demonatrix ❖ Priestess of Pain ❖ Succubitch
XCallxMexSirX
BDSM & Content creator
Non Binary, 29, Pansexual
Boston MA US (In person & Online)
Let Me Take Control And Transform You.
bellabird
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 24, Pansexual
Glasgow UK (In person & Online)
Hello kinksters. I am a Glasgow based switch with 6 years experience under my belt. I have done all different types of sex work but I find my forte is in domination as well as being submissive on film. Corporal punishment, bondage, shibari and pegging are amongst my favourites. Contact me if you’d like to come play!
tealRevel
BDSM
Female, 38, Bicurious
London UK (In person & Online)
Leave what's acceptable at the door. You need Me. Come on in.
chloephemeral
Coach, BDSM & Writer
Female, 42, Pansexual
Barcelona ES (In person & Online)
Intamacy is powerful
BallistaTheBoss
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 43, Straight
Costa Mesa CA US (In person & Online)
Your sadistic, femdomme Daddy
JDLumbersnack
BDSM
Male, 36, Pansexual
Poole UK (In person)
I'm the big guy
mistressrose
BDSM
Female, 25, Bisexual
Peterborough UK (In person)
I have a lot of upset, let me take it out on you pathetic subs, be my toy. 🧸
What is spanking?
Spank me like you mean it.
Spanking is the act of striking the backside with the hand or an implement for pleasure, arousal, or as part of BDSM activities. It can range from playful and light swats to more intense and deliberate strikes, depending on the preferences and boundaries of those involved. Spanking is often used as a form of erotic stimulation, power exchange, or a means of incorporating pain and pleasure in a consensual and negotiated manner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of spanking can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it introduces an element of power dynamics, where one person takes on the role of the giver and the other as the receiver. The act itself combines the sensations of touch, pain, and pleasure, creating a unique and intense experience.
Additionally, spanking can elicit a sense of vulnerability and submission, adding to the erotic charge of the activity. The audible sounds produced during spanking can also contribute to the overall sensory experience, making it a popular and arousing element within BDSM practices.
While spanking is a common element in BDSM practices, it doesn't exclusively belong to BDSM. Some engage in spanking as part of playful or erotic activities outside the realm of BDSM.
Spanking specifically refers to striking the buttocks, while other forms of impact play may involve striking different parts of the body with various implements.
Yes, preferences can vary widely. Some individuals may enjoy light and playful spanking, while others prefer more intense and disciplinary experiences. Communication is key to understanding individual preferences.
Black and Blue: a story on spanking
Wednesday 24 July 2024
'He told me to lift up my skirt and slid down my thong all the way to my knees.' To celebrate world BDSM day, Berlin-based erotic writer, Pimenta Cítrica shares a short and spicy spanking story.
The disciplinarian dominatrix: meet Agent Ida
Friday 22 September 2023
Sensuali chatted with Agent Ida von Schmidt, the Disciplinarian Dominatrix with a passion for role play and traditional corporal punishment. We discuss her collection of punishment implements, some common misconceptions about Dommes, and BDSM as a form of therapy.
Cute kink illustration: meet Rebecca Lightbody
Friday 4 August 2023
We chatted with kink illustration extraordinaire and lingerie lover Rebecca Lightbody, about her fetish zines, the eroticism of lingerie, and her overarching mission to bring kink out of the shadows and into the light.
Sensual Domination: The Healing Kink The World Needs Right Now
Thursday 13 April 2023
It’s time for the collective consciousness to switch gears from pain-focused BDSM to sensual dominance. Mankind is in crisis and needs healing. Sensual dominance offers a solution.
Confessions of a London Spanky: Alina
Thursday 20 January 2022
Reflections from a retired spanky featuring a few epiphanies and loads of kinky sex experiences.
DO
Communicate clearly: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss desires, boundaries, and preferences before engaging in spanking activities.
Start lightly: If new to spanking, start with light and gentle swats to gauge comfort levels. Gradually increase intensity based on the receiver's response.
Use safe words: Establish and use safe words to ensure clear communication and allow the receiver to communicate if the spanking becomes too intense or uncomfortable.
DON'T
Ignore consent: Always ensure that all parties involved have explicitly consented to engage in spanking activities. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
Strike unsafe areas: Avoid striking the lower back, kidneys, or spine, as these areas can be sensitive and potentially harmful. Focus on the fleshy parts of the buttocks.
Rush: Take your time and pace the spanking activities. Rushing can lead to miscommunication, discomfort, or unintended harm.
