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Spank me like you mean it.
LadyVyra
BDSM, Massage & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Berlin DE
Surrender To My Touch
ladyvelvetsteel
BDSM, Coach & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Berlin DE
bespoke BDSM experiences
Missjadesmoke
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Demisexual
Phoenix AZ US
Blending seduction with unwavering control. Come see me at DOIAZ or topless services available. Check out my website
MissMoon
BDSM
Services are In person
Female - Bicurious
Cape Town ZA
Step into the Moons shadow & serve me
SirLifts
Content creator, BDSM & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Male - Pansexual
Sherwood Park AB CA
I work/play in and around health and wellness as a trainer, speaker, author, safe kink/sex educator, professional Dominant and content creator! Coffee? Cannabis? Gym? Walks? Mountains? Adventures? Music? Kink? I'm/we're phucking doooown! Side Note: if you and yours are looking for a safe place to learn, lab, practice and/or explore Kink and BDSM, PLEASE reach out and let's chat. I love educating and working with people as they find spicier more confident and playful versions of themselves. Will add more when I get a chance!
BallistaTheBoss
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Straight
Costa Mesa CA US
Your sadistic, femdomme Daddy
BadCarob
BDSM
Services are In person
Male - Demisexual
Ontario CA US
I am a kink educator,, pro and lifestyle dominant with 30+ years experience. I also blend and incorporate Tantra and energy with my play. I love creating unique and transformative experiences with others. I love understanding and connecting with people through play.
CherryLuxury
Content creator, BDSM & Muse
Services are In person & Online
Female - Straight
Los Angeles CA US
All around angel with a pure heart and perverted mind
BlackPantherTO
Content creator, BDSM & Muse
Services are In person & Online
Male - Straight
Toronto ON CA
6ft tall East African Athletic🏃♂️ & adventurous✈️🗺️ Airline professional👨✈️ Switch Kinky adventures😈 Hung 🍆 Toy bag filled with lots of fun possibilities ⛓️ 📍 Downtown TO
MissSophia
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Berlin DE
Professional Dominatrix with a special love for blood and male tears
LokoSokol
BDSM, Muse & Sugar baby
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Queer
Seattle WA US
Worship me and I may grant you a boon; shower me with riches and you will see Heaven on Earth 💋
davidmarius
BDSM, Therapist & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Male - Bicurious
Ibiza ES
I am a Hypnotherapist, Coach and Pleasure Artist / Activist from France living in Ibiza. My occupation as a Hypnotist and Shibari artist is to create erotic experiences for my clients and allow them to fully surrender into pleasure. For the past few years, I've been travelling the world leading workshops and talks around the Neuroscience of orgasms and the psychology of arousal. As the founder of the Orgasmic Hypnosis method, I teach people how to give and receive pleasure through their mind alone, also training women for orgasmic birthing. I am also a performer, director and writer involved in various artistic projects from conscious porn, art films to fashion show choregraphie. With my partner Katarsis, we have created our own brand BoundxBeyond, through which we act as a duo, organizing workshops, parties and sensual events / experiences.
What is spanking?
Spank me like you mean it.
Spanking is the act of striking the backside with the hand or an implement for pleasure, arousal, or as part of BDSM activities. It can range from playful and light swats to more intense and deliberate strikes, depending on the preferences and boundaries of those involved. Spanking is often used as a form of erotic stimulation, power exchange, or a means of incorporating pain and pleasure in a consensual and negotiated manner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of spanking can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it introduces an element of power dynamics, where one person takes on the role of the giver and the other as the receiver. The act itself combines the sensations of touch, pain, and pleasure, creating a unique and intense experience.
Additionally, spanking can elicit a sense of vulnerability and submission, adding to the erotic charge of the activity. The audible sounds produced during spanking can also contribute to the overall sensory experience, making it a popular and arousing element within BDSM practices.
While spanking is a common element in BDSM practices, it doesn't exclusively belong to BDSM. Some engage in spanking as part of playful or erotic activities outside the realm of BDSM.
Spanking specifically refers to striking the buttocks, while other forms of impact play may involve striking different parts of the body with various implements.
Yes, preferences can vary widely. Some individuals may enjoy light and playful spanking, while others prefer more intense and disciplinary experiences. Communication is key to understanding individual preferences.
DO
Communicate clearly: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss desires, boundaries, and preferences before engaging in spanking activities.
Start lightly: If new to spanking, start with light and gentle swats to gauge comfort levels. Gradually increase intensity based on the receiver's response.
Use safe words: Establish and use safe words to ensure clear communication and allow the receiver to communicate if the spanking becomes too intense or uncomfortable.
DON'T
Ignore consent: Always ensure that all parties involved have explicitly consented to engage in spanking activities. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
Strike unsafe areas: Avoid striking the lower back, kidneys, or spine, as these areas can be sensitive and potentially harmful. Focus on the fleshy parts of the buttocks.
Rush: Take your time and pace the spanking activities. Rushing can lead to miscommunication, discomfort, or unintended harm.
