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mistressrozz
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 35, Pansexual
Los Angeles CA US (In person)
I am Mistress Rozz, and I tend the gateway of an amazing experience you are on the threshold of. If you're reading this you probably have submissive tenancies and fantasies. If you are a submissive; no matter your experience level, there are things that you need training in. There is no one-size-fits-all perfect sub. I will shape you thoughtfully, relentlessly and sadistically into what I prefer. When you come and serve me you turn yourself over to me, and throughout the course of our session I will test that. My interests include: Leather and Latex fetish, Bondage, Suspension, Predicament Bondage, Mummification, Corporal Punishment, Obedience Training, Objectification, Spitting, Human Ashtray, Sissification, Role Play, Humiliation, Chastity Training, Sensory Deprivation and Sensory Play, CBT, Ballbusting, Shoe, Stocking and Foot Worship, Trampling.
CherryLuxury
BDSM, Muse & Content creator
Female, 30, Straight
Los Angeles CA US (In person & Online)
All around angel with a pure heart and perverted mind
MissAlanaBelle
BDSM
Female, 35, Queer
Nottingham UK (In person)
Mixed Race BBW for Sensual BDSM and Escort
Ende_J
Artist, BDSM & Content creator
Male, 28, Bisexual
Los Angeles CA US (In person & Online)
Welcome^_^. I hold sex and sexuality as brushes and view the people who submit to my care as canvas. By making use of a D/S dynamic, I aim to turn my subs into art objects and refelct and amplifiiy the beauty they show me. Through a sereis of sessions, my subs and I build a relationship founded on trust and comfort, allowing for a release of repressive anxieties. My approach combines conversation with artistic expression. Using photography, mirrors and rope as my primary media, I capture your essence in a way that reveals an unfiltered you: its gorgeous. Additionally, I find rope work can evoke sensations of being held and supported, further enhancing your experience of safety and relaxation. When you work with me, you are not just a sub—you become a living masterpiece.
RightontheEdge
BDSM
Male, 46, Straight
Lincoln UK (In person)
**To be completed soon** Dominant Skilled in using words, toys, pain and edging/orgasm control.
BlackPantherTO
BDSM, Muse & Content creator
Male, 28, Straight
Toronto ON CA (In person & Online)
6ft tall East African Athletic🏃♂️ & adventurous✈️🗺️ Airline professional👨✈️ Switch Kinky adventures😈 Hung 🍆 Toy bag filled with lots of fun possibilities ⛓️ 📍 Downtown TO
breeleche
BDSM, Coach & Muse
Female, 34, Queer
Los Angeles CA US (In person & Online)
Trained sexologist and certified sex and relationship coach. I love helping folks safely explore their desires and expand their skills. Warm and friendly BDSM enthusiast excited to play.
MissSophia
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 28, Pansexual
Berlin DE (In person & Online)
Professional Dominatrix with a special love for blood and male tears
LokoSokol
BDSM, Muse & Sugar baby
Non Binary, 26, Queer
Seattle WA US (In person & Online)
Worship me and I may grant you a boon; shower me with riches and you will see Heaven on Earth 💋
TheMominatrix
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 34, Bisexual
Seattle WA US (In person & Online)
Mommy is ready, are you?
mistressseren
BDSM
Female, 31, Sapiosexual
New York NY US (In person)
Prepare to be tantalized + tormented. I'm a mindful menace and a sadistic trickster. I'm the force to guide you on a journey of self-discovery through pain and pleasure. I will push you to your edges, but I do it from the heart. I chose to be a Domina after spending my career in the art world, tech, fashion, and finance. Now my unique ability to master new things is turned on you. My scenes are meticulously tailored experiences, based on the unique D/s connection I have with you. This is why my subs always come back, the authenticity, emotional depth, and artistry of my scenes are what make me a luxury Domina. If you’re seeking quick sexual gratification or a fleeting thrill, I am not the one for you. My scenes are built to create pleasure, catharsis, and expansion. My approach is inspired by Mother Nature and Carl Jung. Raised in the Rocky Mountains, I experienced nature as my Domme. I believe kink can bring you to individuation, Carl Jung’s theory of becoming oneself. BDSM is the perfect method to explore the hidden and neglected aspects of your psyche. Let’s make your subconscious conscious. There is nothing more beautiful or powerful than that. I will domme you emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Being in a scene with me is to experience a surreal nightmare. I am a high-protocol Domina. My standards are high, and I invite you to meet them. I adore humiliation, corporal punishment, foot worship, sissification, degradation, and impact play. I am a true sadist and nothing pleases me more than your groans and moans. When I am not in the dungeon, I am learning. I read books on philosophy, psychology, and BDSM. I spend my free time at museums, hot yoga, and the theatre. Curiosity is what drives me and I love to travel. Last year, I spent time in Italy, Bali, Vietnam, Mexico City, Berlin, Japan, and Morocco. I spend my free time daydreaming about new ways to make my submissives suffer for me.
Elizabeth_24
Muse
Trans, 20, Lesbian
Manchester UK (In person)
Your favourite Trans Bunny Girl Up and down for basically anything ;)
What is spanking?
Spank me like you mean it.
Spanking is the act of striking the backside with the hand or an implement for pleasure, arousal, or as part of BDSM activities. It can range from playful and light swats to more intense and deliberate strikes, depending on the preferences and boundaries of those involved. Spanking is often used as a form of erotic stimulation, power exchange, or a means of incorporating pain and pleasure in a consensual and negotiated manner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of spanking can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it introduces an element of power dynamics, where one person takes on the role of the giver and the other as the receiver. The act itself combines the sensations of touch, pain, and pleasure, creating a unique and intense experience.
Additionally, spanking can elicit a sense of vulnerability and submission, adding to the erotic charge of the activity. The audible sounds produced during spanking can also contribute to the overall sensory experience, making it a popular and arousing element within BDSM practices.
While spanking is a common element in BDSM practices, it doesn't exclusively belong to BDSM. Some engage in spanking as part of playful or erotic activities outside the realm of BDSM.
Spanking specifically refers to striking the buttocks, while other forms of impact play may involve striking different parts of the body with various implements.
Yes, preferences can vary widely. Some individuals may enjoy light and playful spanking, while others prefer more intense and disciplinary experiences. Communication is key to understanding individual preferences.
Black and Blue: a story on spanking
Wednesday 24 July 2024
'He told me to lift up my skirt and slid down my thong all the way to my knees.' To celebrate world BDSM day, Berlin-based erotic writer, Pimenta Cítrica shares a short and spicy spanking story.
The disciplinarian dominatrix: meet Agent Ida
Friday 22 September 2023
Sensuali chatted with Agent Ida von Schmidt, the Disciplinarian Dominatrix with a passion for role play and traditional corporal punishment. We discuss her collection of punishment implements, some common misconceptions about Dommes, and BDSM as a form of therapy.
Cute kink illustration: meet Rebecca Lightbody
Friday 4 August 2023
We chatted with kink illustration extraordinaire and lingerie lover Rebecca Lightbody, about her fetish zines, the eroticism of lingerie, and her overarching mission to bring kink out of the shadows and into the light.
Sensual Domination: The Healing Kink The World Needs Right Now
Thursday 13 April 2023
It’s time for the collective consciousness to switch gears from pain-focused BDSM to sensual dominance. Mankind is in crisis and needs healing. Sensual dominance offers a solution.
Confessions of a London Spanky: Alina
Thursday 20 January 2022
Reflections from a retired spanky featuring a few epiphanies and loads of kinky sex experiences.
DO
Communicate clearly: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss desires, boundaries, and preferences before engaging in spanking activities.
Start lightly: If new to spanking, start with light and gentle swats to gauge comfort levels. Gradually increase intensity based on the receiver's response.
Use safe words: Establish and use safe words to ensure clear communication and allow the receiver to communicate if the spanking becomes too intense or uncomfortable.
DON'T
Ignore consent: Always ensure that all parties involved have explicitly consented to engage in spanking activities. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
Strike unsafe areas: Avoid striking the lower back, kidneys, or spine, as these areas can be sensitive and potentially harmful. Focus on the fleshy parts of the buttocks.
Rush: Take your time and pace the spanking activities. Rushing can lead to miscommunication, discomfort, or unintended harm.