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Spank me like you mean it.
Bash92
BDSM
Services are In person
Male - Straight
Portland OR US
I have been in the lifestyle for 10 years now. My wife and I practice ENM. I am a pleasure Dom with a firm hand and an insatiable knack for getting my partners off.
goddexxgrey
BDSM
Services are In person
Gender fluid - Pansexual
New York NY US
FinDom, Sensual Dom, can be your mommy or daddy Dom.
Light_Switch
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Demisexual
Tallahassee FL US
Im a BDSM educator and professional looking to share my skills and my knowledge with others. I have been a part of the BDSM scene and my local community for my entire adult life. Its important staying humble, you may think you know everything but there will always be more to learn.
MsZoe
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Las Vegas NV US
Retired Pornstar living the 24/7 BDSM lifestyle as a true Switchy witch. Im a Mommy Domme and sensual Goddess. Spoiled slut to my one & only Daddy + Mistress to my good boys and girls.
saintvalentine
BDSM
Services are In person
Female - Sapiosexual
Denver CO US
Let me indulge you in your erotic fantasies. Devote to me and I will unveil your true purpose -my ultimate pleasure.
Sir_
BDSM
Services are In person
Male - Straight
New York NY US
It’s better to be a pirate than join the navy. 🏴☠️ Let’s go to couples therapy and see how long it takes the therapist to figure out we’re on a first date. My gorgeous sexy linked partner may be down to join for FMF or FMFM 🤓 Whip smart professional with diverse cultural tastes. 🎯Sensual Dominant seeking submissive play partner - Ongoing preferred. Can we be one of those awesome couples on here? FMF, MFMF, MFM, stag and hotwife arrangements also welcome. 🥳 Top Floor, Life Itself, Chemistry among others. 📥 CMO by day; technology, art, architecture, design, spirituality, food, & music fan by night. 🩺Take care of yourself mentally and physically - I do :) 🚫 NOT a fuckboi fake ‘dom’ incel with poor conversational skills like your last feeld date. Also note: not the trump voting republican some take me to be based on looks. Can’t help it. But … decidedly non traditional on the inside. You’ve read this far. You get it. 🎭 I’m a former comedian. I promise to make you laugh. 🎧Former DJ & music industry exec. Open to an ENM primary relationship with a sex positive woman. ❤️ Happy to meet for a drink or coffee and see if we click. Not into texting - much prefer in real life, totally ok if you want a quick video confirmation that I am indeed for real :) 5’10 / 165lbs fit with high libido and stamina for days. 📍I live in Carroll Gardens Brooklyn or Hilton Head SC. 🍆 Size queens welcome.
matejkubesa
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Male - Bisexual
Olomouc CZ
Young boy, with lots of passion, desire and experience. A am for everything kinky.
Cleo08
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Jakarta ID
A mixed Asian harlot, dominatrix who's based in Bali, Indonesia 🖤
patdonato
BDSM
Services are In person
Male - Bicurious
Providence RI US
Love to explore psychological domination. Chastity and denial.
DiscoMama
BDSM
Services are In person
Female - Bisexual
Palma ES
I am a playful, big hearted and open minded experienced kinkster with strong switch energy.
MistressAsherah
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Wilmington NC US
~Let me make art from your Surrender~ 🌷Sensual ProDomme, Repro Health Coach, Eros Embodiment Facilitator, Writer🌷
FILTH_Deelite
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Male - Straight
Amsterdam NL
I am the founder and owner of Filth Latex Clothing in the Netherlands. My latex journey started about 30 years ago working for Demask in Amsterdam and over the last few years I have been creating my own brand. The goal of Filth is to create new and unique garments of the highest quality that are inspired by fetish in music and fashion. My clothes explore the role and relationship between the voyeur and the exhibitionist with the use of standard and semi transparent latex in the garments. The garments are meant to tease, not be explicit. On a personal level I am just trying to get the kinks out.
What is spanking?
Spank me like you mean it.
Spanking is the act of striking the backside with the hand or an implement for pleasure, arousal, or as part of BDSM activities. It can range from playful and light swats to more intense and deliberate strikes, depending on the preferences and boundaries of those involved. Spanking is often used as a form of erotic stimulation, power exchange, or a means of incorporating pain and pleasure in a consensual and negotiated manner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of spanking can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it introduces an element of power dynamics, where one person takes on the role of the giver and the other as the receiver. The act itself combines the sensations of touch, pain, and pleasure, creating a unique and intense experience.
Additionally, spanking can elicit a sense of vulnerability and submission, adding to the erotic charge of the activity. The audible sounds produced during spanking can also contribute to the overall sensory experience, making it a popular and arousing element within BDSM practices.
While spanking is a common element in BDSM practices, it doesn't exclusively belong to BDSM. Some engage in spanking as part of playful or erotic activities outside the realm of BDSM.
Spanking specifically refers to striking the buttocks, while other forms of impact play may involve striking different parts of the body with various implements.
Yes, preferences can vary widely. Some individuals may enjoy light and playful spanking, while others prefer more intense and disciplinary experiences. Communication is key to understanding individual preferences.
DO
Communicate clearly: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss desires, boundaries, and preferences before engaging in spanking activities.
Start lightly: If new to spanking, start with light and gentle swats to gauge comfort levels. Gradually increase intensity based on the receiver's response.
Use safe words: Establish and use safe words to ensure clear communication and allow the receiver to communicate if the spanking becomes too intense or uncomfortable.
DON'T
Ignore consent: Always ensure that all parties involved have explicitly consented to engage in spanking activities. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
Strike unsafe areas: Avoid striking the lower back, kidneys, or spine, as these areas can be sensitive and potentially harmful. Focus on the fleshy parts of the buttocks.
Rush: Take your time and pace the spanking activities. Rushing can lead to miscommunication, discomfort, or unintended harm.
