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evaoh
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 38, Pansexual
London UK (In person & Online)
Award-winning Dominatrix and Mentor
thefunnydom
BDSM & Content creator
Male, 44, Straight
Melbourne AU (In person & Online)
A pro Daddy Dominant driven to share and explore both sadism and care, and to teach and train those in need or curious
MistressSin
BDSM
Female, 48, Queer
London UK (In person)
I am a British Femdom based in London. Although I have been naturally dominant since coming of age, I decided to turn My lust for overpowering men into a profession at the age of 25. I have been a professional Dominatrix for 23yrs and find new excitement and love for BDSM with every year that goes by. For Me, there is nothing quite like the feeling of a man, at My feet, relinquishing all control to Me. I have an insatiable lust for the erotic constraints of latex and leather and the sensuality of stockings and heels. I adore every level of kink, but I particularly thrive with the unusual and extreme. Your embarrassment and shame give Me amusement and excitement. The space that I will give to you is completely safe, so you can truly submit, give in, and become the sub that you have always yearned for but hidden... until now.
HouseOfVF
BDSM
Female, 21, Bisexual
London UK (In person)
Please note all applications are to be made through my website. I am Mistress Vera V.F. - a strict, yet caring, dominatrix. Classic, yes, but with something of a contemporary twist. I adore protocol and discipline, which I bring a uniquely personal approach to. I will remain strict and poised looking down at you, but I will also put you at ease. You are in safe hands with me. I will dominate you with a smile on my face. Passionate about kink and BDSM, I truly adore exploring and facilitating fantasies - I strive to learn what makes you tick, and use it to bring you pleasure, pain and ultimate subspace. I offer real-time dungeon sessions, social dates, shopping trips and cashpoint meets in London. You can apply via my website. Occasionally, I might consider online sessions. Note you should be deposit ready at the time of your application. I have seen people of all types, from devoted submissives to those with specific fetishes. Whether you're an obedient and experienced sub or a complete beginner, if you are lucky together we will explore your deepest, darkest desires. I have a wide range of interests, but some of my favourites are: Protocol Corporal punishment Bondage CBT Key holding Slave training I am a BDSM chameleon, and love exploring many types of play. Feel free to still fill out my form if what you are looking for isn't mentioned above and we can discuss. I am not interested in the following kinks at this time. Requests for any of these will be ignored. -Hardsports -Wrestling -Needles -Electrics
davidmarius
BDSM, Therapist & Workshop
Male, 33, Bicurious
Ibiza ES (In person & Online)
I am a Hypnotherapist, Coach and Pleasure Artist / Activist from France living in Ibiza. My occupation as a Hypnotist and Shibari artist is to create erotic experiences for my clients and allow them to fully surrender into pleasure. For the past few years, I've been travelling the world leading workshops and talks around the Neuroscience of orgasms and the psychology of arousal. As the founder of the Orgasmic Hypnosis method, I teach people how to give and receive pleasure through their mind alone, also training women for orgasmic birthing. I am also a performer, director and writer involved in various artistic projects from conscious porn, art films to fashion show choregraphie. With my partner Katarsis, we have created our own brand BoundxBeyond, through which we act as a duo, organizing workshops, parties and sensual events / experiences.
belste
BDSM
Male, 49, Straight
Hemel Hempstead UK (In person)
Crop-wielding rigger Dom. Consent and communication important.
galavanting
BDSM
Female, 40, Queer
Sydney AU (In person)
I'm a queer woman with 20 years' experience in the sexuality field, working across adult film production and performance, sugaring, BDSM service provision, sexuality education, advocacy, and writing. I currently provide BDSM services and support others to cultivate practices of BDSM, hedonism, and somatics as the founder and director of Hedon House, with locations in Sydney and Melbourne. While my hard BDSM skills have been developed over the last 12 years through BDSM education, a traditional House apprenticeship, and thousands of hours of personal and professional play, my soft skills and my deep understanding of the use of body-based practices as tools for liberation, sublimation and self-exploration are what defines my practice. I am highly skilled at supporting others to help define exactly what they want to receive and how they'd like to receive it. To achieve this, I use a combination of verbal consultation, consent containers, lines of somatic inquiry, sensory experimentation, and a sharp read on your energetic and physical presentation in every moment (or communicating with you where that's not possible). I can play with or without protocol, power exchange, or roleplay. Sometimes BDSM play is psychodrama, and other times it's a body-based practice. Sometimes it's both. We work together to discover and cultivate the best possible conditions for your surrender, and I facilitate session content within that container. I am a one-way practitioner; this means that I'm the giver and you're the receiver. This being said, you'll get the most out of our time together when you bring your full self and clear intentions to our play. I provide services to people of all genders and sexualities, and have experience providing gender-affirming services to people on the spectrum of trans experience. I have also completed the Touching Base PDAT training and am able to adapt to different physical abilities, sensory needs and other access requirements. My ethics and politics our queer, and this will be in the room with us when we play, regardless of your gender identity. I currently practice on the lands of the Gadigal people in so-called Sydney and the lands of the Wurundjeri Woi-wurring people in so-called Melbourne. I session primarily from my lovingly-crafted, comfortable and well-equipped Hedon House locations, but am open to providing services from other locations for those with access restrictions that preclude the use of either space.
Goddess_A
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 32, Bisexual
London UK (In person & Online)
I am London’s most statuesque Dominatrix, here to make your fantasies come true. I am a beautiful and strong Amazonian Mistress. Standing at a powerful 6’1” tall before I put on my high heels, I revel in making men feel inferior. I must be worshipped and obeyed. Some of my favourite activities include CP, humiliation and pegging. I also thoroughly enjoy beat downs; any excuse to practise my Muay Thai and show off my strength. I am available for in person sessions at Dungeons and Hotels based in London and Hertfordshire.
mistressmay
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 26, Queer
London UK (In person & Online)
Professional Dominatrix, dungeon owner and content creator
PorcelainVictoria
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 25, Bisexual
Edinburgh UK (In person & Online)
Hi I'm Mistress Victoria Since I can remember I have always been fascinated by the subversive sexual culture, the psychology behind power exchange and the practice of dark arts. I have been involved in the BDSM lifestyle community for the past years and have since then dedicated my time to sharpening my skills and perfecting the art of punishment, rewards, and the paradox of pain and pleasure. Today I am a well established fetish artist, dominatrix and Alpha female If I will allow you to serve Me, you will be soon captivated by my aura and presence. I am really one of a kind type of woman – Beautiful, fierce, alluring, demanding, sexually dominant and independent. I have been blessed with natural beauty – my feline face, porcelain skin and Goddess body will be the perfect canvas for you to worship. My feminine power and deviant mind will make you surrender and give up your thoughts of control – you will be stripped of your ego and be ready to be mould into my perfect plaything. I get the greatest satisfaction when taking you to places you have never been before, where pain is just a memory, problems disappears and your sole focus is on me. Once there, in your subspace, the possibilities will be limited only by our imagination. If your new to BDSM, you wanna try something new let's do it ! Il take it at your pace, talk things through and make sure your fully comfortable. If your happy I'm happy. All kinks are welcomed ! I'm very open-minded this is not just a job but a lifestyle I enjoy it outside of work too. LOCATIONs I can session from Abstrakt Studios Dungeon in Glasgow Edinburgh Dungeon As well as hotels or even your place DINNER DATES We can have a outcall dinner date or even an incall whichever you prefer. Let's get to know each other Incall £120 per HR Outcall £120 per HR STORE These items can be picked up in person or posted, customised to the fullest ! Watersports giving + £20 Others + £100 Cummy gummies (have been inserted into my ass or pussy) Pussy/ass lollipops (have been inserted into my ass or pussy) Cum filled Condom (male cum) Heels Converse Slip on shoes Panties (however you like them) Socks Public hair clippings Nail trimmings Ear wax buds Leggings CONSULTATION Book a consultation with me If you are nervous about meeting me or your new to this we can sit down and talk. For new clients I offer consultations at a discounted rate, we get to know each other and get to know what exactly you want to achieve by seeing me. £80 half hr £120 1hr £240 2hrs These consultations can take place at my flat, or even at a cafe. This will not include any dominating just a talk. If you wish to book a session after the consultation you may do so.
adinstone
BDSM
Male, 25, Straight
Berlin DE (In person)
Let’s see and find out together what direction were going
AvaSheridon
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 43, Sapiosexual
London UK (In person & Online)
The only elite disciplinarian you'll ever need.
What is spanking?
Spank me like you mean it.
Spanking is the act of striking the backside with the hand or an implement for pleasure, arousal, or as part of BDSM activities. It can range from playful and light swats to more intense and deliberate strikes, depending on the preferences and boundaries of those involved. Spanking is often used as a form of erotic stimulation, power exchange, or a means of incorporating pain and pleasure in a consensual and negotiated manner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of spanking can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it introduces an element of power dynamics, where one person takes on the role of the giver and the other as the receiver. The act itself combines the sensations of touch, pain, and pleasure, creating a unique and intense experience.
Additionally, spanking can elicit a sense of vulnerability and submission, adding to the erotic charge of the activity. The audible sounds produced during spanking can also contribute to the overall sensory experience, making it a popular and arousing element within BDSM practices.
While spanking is a common element in BDSM practices, it doesn't exclusively belong to BDSM. Some engage in spanking as part of playful or erotic activities outside the realm of BDSM.
Spanking specifically refers to striking the buttocks, while other forms of impact play may involve striking different parts of the body with various implements.
Yes, preferences can vary widely. Some individuals may enjoy light and playful spanking, while others prefer more intense and disciplinary experiences. Communication is key to understanding individual preferences.
Black and Blue: a story on spanking
Wednesday 24 July 2024
'He told me to lift up my skirt and slid down my thong all the way to my knees.' To celebrate world BDSM day, Berlin-based erotic writer, Pimenta Cítrica shares a short and spicy spanking story.
The disciplinarian dominatrix: meet Agent Ida
Friday 22 September 2023
Sensuali chatted with Agent Ida von Schmidt, the Disciplinarian Dominatrix with a passion for role play and traditional corporal punishment. We discuss her collection of punishment implements, some common misconceptions about Dommes, and BDSM as a form of therapy.
Cute kink illustration: meet Rebecca Lightbody
Friday 4 August 2023
We chatted with kink illustration extraordinaire and lingerie lover Rebecca Lightbody, about her fetish zines, the eroticism of lingerie, and her overarching mission to bring kink out of the shadows and into the light.
Sensual Domination: The Healing Kink The World Needs Right Now
Thursday 13 April 2023
It’s time for the collective consciousness to switch gears from pain-focused BDSM to sensual dominance. Mankind is in crisis and needs healing. Sensual dominance offers a solution.
Confessions of a London Spanky: Alina
Thursday 20 January 2022
Reflections from a retired spanky featuring a few epiphanies and loads of kinky sex experiences.
DO
Communicate clearly: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss desires, boundaries, and preferences before engaging in spanking activities.
Start lightly: If new to spanking, start with light and gentle swats to gauge comfort levels. Gradually increase intensity based on the receiver's response.
Use safe words: Establish and use safe words to ensure clear communication and allow the receiver to communicate if the spanking becomes too intense or uncomfortable.
DON'T
Ignore consent: Always ensure that all parties involved have explicitly consented to engage in spanking activities. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
Strike unsafe areas: Avoid striking the lower back, kidneys, or spine, as these areas can be sensitive and potentially harmful. Focus on the fleshy parts of the buttocks.
Rush: Take your time and pace the spanking activities. Rushing can lead to miscommunication, discomfort, or unintended harm.
