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Spank me like you mean it.
Cleo08
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 36, Queer
Jakarta ID (In person & Online)
A mixed Asian harlot, dominatrix who's based in Bali, Indonesia 🖤
patdonato
BDSM
Male, 50, Bicurious
Providence RI US (In person)
Love to explore psychological domination. Chastity and denial.
MaleProDominant
BDSM
Male, 45, Straight
London UK (In person)
I am a professional Dominant based in Brighton, London, but I travel all over the UK.
veronicavervet
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 27, Bisexual
London UK (In person & Online)
Are you ready to worship?
LadyVogel
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 23, Sapiosexual
London UK (In person & Online)
GODDESS/FEMME FATALE, Lady Vogel
sapieha
BDSM & Content creator
Non Binary, 30, Queer
Dresden DE (In person & Online)
Sensual Rope witch creating unique experiences that interweave through artistic pleasure.
MissSkylaGold
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 32, Pansexual
London UK (In person & Online)
As soon as I could speak, I could bend those around me to my will. I’m charismatic, charming and disarming - a dangerous combination, and one you will not forget. To me, Domination is an art, as well as my natural disposition. I’ve been practicing Domination for almost a decade, which has given me ample time to turn my innate way of being into a deadly weapon. A weapon I use to bring men to their knees. My words have authority, my touch has purpose and my gaze leaves you pliable for my needs. Building a connection with those I play with is integral, and each session I conduct differs. I curate and create sessions around the skills, experience and preferences of the submissive, this way I get the best out of you. For example, your time in my presence may be spent appreciating the scent of my dainty feet and ensuring that each and every toe is cleaned by your mouth. Or, your desires may lead you to spend hours consuming my waste. I will know what’s best for you, and how best you can please me, and in turn be proud of yourself. I relish in your weakness for me. I will create a space for you to safely explore the corners of your mind, a place where you can have ultimate freedom to be yourself, unapologetically with no judgement. Give yourself over, know yourself better. As well as being a Pro-Domme, I am a well-established fetish photographer, educator, creator of One Night Parties and pleasure professional. I’m a foodie, lover of high end lingerie and all-round indulgence. I enjoy social dates and shopping trips, I’m very good at both.
Relectrix
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 99, Demisexual
Philadelphia PA US (In person & Online)
A sensual Domme with a mean streak
DiscoMama
BDSM
Female, 56, Bisexual
Palma ES (In person)
I am a playful, big hearted and open minded experienced kinkster with strong switch energy.
MistressAsherah
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 31, Queer
Wilmington NC US (In person & Online)
~Let me make art from your Surrender~ 🌷Sensual ProDomme, Repro Health Coach, Eros Embodiment Facilitator, Writer🌷
FILTH_Deelite
BDSM & Content creator
Male, 54, Straight
Amsterdam NL (In person & Online)
I am the founder and owner of Filth Latex Clothing in the Netherlands. My latex journey started about 30 years ago working for Demask in Amsterdam and over the last few years I have been creating my own brand. The goal of Filth is to create new and unique garments of the highest quality that are inspired by fetish in music and fashion. My clothes explore the role and relationship between the voyeur and the exhibitionist with the use of standard and semi transparent latex in the garments. The garments are meant to tease, not be explicit. On a personal level I am just trying to get the kinks out.
LeAngeHeurtebise
Artist & Content creator
Male, 55, Straight
Nijmegen NL (In person & Online)
In the realm of sexual deviances I am more into the creative part of it, creating wonderful one-off experiences with other like minded people. Community is shaped by bringing something to the fore, and everybody has something to offer.
What is spanking?
Spank me like you mean it.
Spanking is the act of striking the backside with the hand or an implement for pleasure, arousal, or as part of BDSM activities. It can range from playful and light swats to more intense and deliberate strikes, depending on the preferences and boundaries of those involved. Spanking is often used as a form of erotic stimulation, power exchange, or a means of incorporating pain and pleasure in a consensual and negotiated manner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of spanking can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it introduces an element of power dynamics, where one person takes on the role of the giver and the other as the receiver. The act itself combines the sensations of touch, pain, and pleasure, creating a unique and intense experience.
Additionally, spanking can elicit a sense of vulnerability and submission, adding to the erotic charge of the activity. The audible sounds produced during spanking can also contribute to the overall sensory experience, making it a popular and arousing element within BDSM practices.
While spanking is a common element in BDSM practices, it doesn't exclusively belong to BDSM. Some engage in spanking as part of playful or erotic activities outside the realm of BDSM.
Spanking specifically refers to striking the buttocks, while other forms of impact play may involve striking different parts of the body with various implements.
Yes, preferences can vary widely. Some individuals may enjoy light and playful spanking, while others prefer more intense and disciplinary experiences. Communication is key to understanding individual preferences.
Black and Blue: a story on spanking
Wednesday 24 July 2024
'He told me to lift up my skirt and slid down my thong all the way to my knees.' To celebrate world BDSM day, Berlin-based erotic writer, Pimenta CÃtrica shares a short and spicy spanking story.
The disciplinarian dominatrix: meet Agent Ida
Friday 22 September 2023
Sensuali chatted with Agent Ida von Schmidt, the Disciplinarian Dominatrix with a passion for role play and traditional corporal punishment. We discuss her collection of punishment implements, some common misconceptions about Dommes, and BDSM as a form of therapy.
Cute kink illustration: meet Rebecca Lightbody
Friday 4 August 2023
We chatted with kink illustration extraordinaire and lingerie lover Rebecca Lightbody, about her fetish zines, the eroticism of lingerie, and her overarching mission to bring kink out of the shadows and into the light.
Sensual Domination: The Healing Kink The World Needs Right Now
Thursday 13 April 2023
It’s time for the collective consciousness to switch gears from pain-focused BDSM to sensual dominance. Mankind is in crisis and needs healing. Sensual dominance offers a solution.
Confessions of a London Spanky: Alina
Thursday 20 January 2022
Reflections from a retired spanky featuring a few epiphanies and loads of kinky sex experiences.
DO
Communicate clearly: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss desires, boundaries, and preferences before engaging in spanking activities.
Start lightly: If new to spanking, start with light and gentle swats to gauge comfort levels. Gradually increase intensity based on the receiver's response.
Use safe words: Establish and use safe words to ensure clear communication and allow the receiver to communicate if the spanking becomes too intense or uncomfortable.
DON'T
Ignore consent: Always ensure that all parties involved have explicitly consented to engage in spanking activities. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
Strike unsafe areas: Avoid striking the lower back, kidneys, or spine, as these areas can be sensitive and potentially harmful. Focus on the fleshy parts of the buttocks.
Rush: Take your time and pace the spanking activities. Rushing can lead to miscommunication, discomfort, or unintended harm.
