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ericd
Erotic audio, BDSM & Massage
Services are In person & Online
Male - Straight
Berlin DE
Very (test) filler filler
lylaaa_boo
Dancer, Muse & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Straight
Hong Kong HK
Rope Bunny in love with Shibari. It’s all about feelings.
handsoferos
BDSM & Content creator
Services are In person & Online
Male - Straight
Berlin DE
As a Hypno-Shibari Artist and Soft Dom, I weave the art of Shibari with the depth of hypnosis to create transformative, kinky and healing experiences. I spend my time exploring the delicate balance of power, impact and tenderness, always seeking new ways to connect deeply with others. Friends describe me as an "iron glove in a velvet glove"—firm yet tender. Passionate about unlocking inner potential and fostering self-discovery, I am on a journey of constant learning and profound connection.
JanelleMarie
BDSM, Companion & Educator
Services are In person
Female - Queer
Denver CO US
Radiant Goddess, Tantra Companion, Pro-domme
MsGeminex
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Demisexual
Phoenix AZ US
Seductive in My ways to tease, torment and train submissive little pets. Traveling often. FMTY & in-calls.
Fixated0_ral
Content creator, BDSM & Educator
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Pansexual
El Paso TX US
I want to provide an open casual space for adults to admit they don’t know anything about sex except how to stick it in! I want to freely speak and educate them on the various way to fuck and be fucked. How to discover themselves with others. How to battle their internalized slut shame. How to be confident in their sensuality. I’m also wanting to meet others and possibly navigate a D/s dynamic. I Dominant regularly but as a switch my submissive side is often not cared for as I wish it was. So hopefully that’s something can also navigate here.
benrussell
Content creator & Companion
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Queer
Vienna AT
Queering sex is what I do. You wanna join?
DaliaDestrange
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Pansexual
Bellingham WA US
"Pleasure is a measure of freedom." - Adrienne Maree Brown
Jenjen52982
Writer, BDSM & Sugar baby
Services are Online
Female - Sapiosexual
Herkimer NY US
"I can be your fantasy, and baby you can be mine."
sunkissed615
BDSM & Sugar baby
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
San Jose CA US
I’m the very wholesome looking neighbor or stranger you’ve been waiting to meet 🥰 come find out the opposite 🥵
naughtynymph89
Content creator, BDSM & Sugar baby
Services are Online
Female - Bisexual
Los Angeles CA US
Like all Geminis I’m versatile 💕 See my bio for more 😈
redmorninglight
Muse, Writer & BDSM
Services are In person
Female - Pansexual
Silver Point TN US
An artist, hidden in plain sight. A wall flower, filled with warm passion. A gentle soul that finds beauty in soft pain. Particularly searching for Sapphic souls wanting to learn more about their dominant, kinky, or top tendencies in ways that are sensual yet still satisfying. I have a background in ethics and safety, from the bedroom to the film world, and talk on making consent sexy all day, but I also adore being fully explored. When I rarely have spare time, I write smut that I never publish and paint the muses my mind creates, just to get them out and throw them away.
What is submission?
My happy place is my sub space.
In a sexual context, submission refers to the consensual act of willingly yielding control, authority, or power to a dominant partner. It involves engaging in activities, rituals, or dynamics that emphasise the power imbalance between the submissive and dominant individuals.
Submission is often a key element in BDSM practices, and it can encompass a range of activities, from physical restraint to psychological surrender, all within the framework of negotiated and consensual boundaries. The submissive party derives pleasure from surrendering and following the commands or desires of the dominant partner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of submission can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it taps into power dynamics, creating a sense of vulnerability and surrender that can intensify the erotic experience. The act of giving up control can evoke feelings of trust, intimacy, and heightened sensations.
Additionally, submission allows individuals to explore their desires and boundaries, providing a structured and consensual space to push personal limits and experience new facets of pleasure. The arousal may also stem from the psychological and emotional aspects of surrender, where the submissive finds pleasure in fulfilling the desires of the dominant partner.
Yes, submission can be consensual and part of various relationship dynamics, including those characterised by love, trust, and equality. It's about exploring shared desires within agreed-upon boundaries.
While submission often involves sexual activities, it can extend beyond the sexual realm. Some individuals may engage in non-sexual forms of submission, such as service-oriented tasks or rituals.
Communication is key. Clearly discuss desires, limits, and expectations with a partner. Start with less intense activities and gradually explore, prioritising ongoing consent and safety.
DO
Establish clear communication: Open and honest communication is essential in establishing boundaries, expectations, and consent when engaging in submissive activities.
Prioritise aftercare: After engaging in submissive activities, prioritize aftercare to provide emotional and physical support to the submissive partner. This can include reassurance, cuddling, and checking in on emotional well-being.
Regularly check in: Regularly check in with both partners to ensure ongoing consent and comfort. Consent is dynamic and can be withdrawn at any time, so clear communication is key.
DON'T
Neglect safety: Safety should always be a priority. Avoid activities that pose unnecessary risks, and establish safe words or signals to communicate discomfort or the need to stop.
Assume consent for all activities: Consent is specific to each activity. Just because someone consents to one form of submission doesn't mean they consent to all activities. Clearly negotiate and communicate desires and limits.
Rush the process: Submission is a gradual exploration. Avoid rushing into intense activities without proper communication, understanding, and consent. Take the time to build trust and explore gradually.