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Submission
My happy place is my sub space.
naughtynymph89
Content creator, BDSM & Sugar baby
Services are Online
Female - Bisexual
Los Angeles CA US
Like all Geminis I’m versatile 💕 See my bio for more 😈
redmorninglight
Muse, Writer & BDSM
Services are In person
Female - Pansexual
Silver Point TN US
An artist, hidden in plain sight. A wall flower, filled with warm passion. A gentle soul that finds beauty in soft pain. Particularly searching for Sapphic souls wanting to learn more about their dominant, kinky, or top tendencies in ways that are sensual yet still satisfying. I have a background in ethics and safety, from the bedroom to the film world, and talk on making consent sexy all day, but I also adore being fully explored. When I rarely have spare time, I write smut that I never publish and paint the muses my mind creates, just to get them out and throw them away.
sandrakinkr
BDSM, Companion & Sugar baby
Services are In person & Online
Female - Straight
Dallas TX US
Let me take you deep into the darkest part of the lifestyle
Helina
Content creator, BDSM & Coach
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Paris FR
I am a conscious kink facilitator and Dominatrix, passionate about creating transformative, empowering spaces for you to explore power dynamics, consent, and authentic self-expression. In our work together, you'll uncover your deepest desires, define clear boundaries, and tap into the liberating power of kink. With a focus on clear communication and mutual respect, I guide you through a journey of self-discovery, where vulnerability becomes strength and personal empowerment is key. Whether you're looking to release old limitations or step into your fullest self, my sessions offer the perfect blend of playfulness, intensity, pleasure, adventure and self-growth, helping you connect more deeply with your desires, your power, and the freedom within surrender. I offer personalized 1-2-1 sessions, group workshops, and interactive/educative talks, centered around exploring power dynamics, consent, and self-expression through conscious kink, sensuality, and energy work.
AgentIda
BDSM
Services are In person
Female - Straight
Berlin DE
Ready to punish you and use you as my plaything
MissA
BDSM, Companion & Muse
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Philadelphia PA US
Travel the world that exists inside you 🖤 Sensualist, hedonist, earth mother domme. Specializing in newbies. Imagine sliding into a deep grotto of relaxation, only to adventure into the realms of deep human experience and expressive impact play ... or more. Magic hands. Also seeking submissives/service subs with hopes of finding at least one in-person intimate sub to be enmeshed in my life. Also seeking rope bunnies to help me progress my rigging skills. Will occasionally switch with friends, especially for leather and latex bondage.
SubChris
Coach, Educator & Kinkster
Services are Online
Couple - Bisexual
Colorado Springs CO US
I am an experienced swinger with couples and men. I am a submissive woman specializing in pleasure. I have helped many couples find sexual fulfillment of wishes, expectations, needs, and pleasure. Exploring your sexuality and finding erogenous zones. Discovering and satisfying your wants, desires, and fantasies, sharing my knowledge and expertise with you so you can be confident and secure in your sexuality and needs. I work mostly online but occasionally meet males and couples in personal sessions.
soleilmerroir
Erotic audio, BDSM & Therapist
Services are Online
Gender fluid - Bisexual
Mexico City MX
I offer you the journey to the deepest roots of your erotic self, the reasons why you crave the darkness and the heat.
SensiJane
BDSM, Massage & Sugar baby
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Antwerp BE
Wildly sexual. Open to a lot of experiences. I'd love to make your wildest fantasies become reality ✨ Do to see what we van arrange! For kinky content follow my f2f page https://f2f.com/jane_x/ 😘
jonesy
Content creator & Artist
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Queer
Berlin DE
I create smutty comics and kinky art 👯♂️ I’m part of Kinky Life Drawing in Berlin, but also have a secret crush on LUX BDSM life drawing 👀 Sometimes I get requests to sketch people at play parties, and they seem to be really into that 😸. Maybe because for many people drawing feels so much less intrusive than photography - especially for folks with body image issues. I’ve been dealing with body dysmorphia for most of my life, so I’ve a lot of awareness around this topic. I’m working on a series of comics, which I’m starting to publish on my patreon (www.patreon.com/jonesy_cat), but it’s also the place where you just. an support my work, or commission me✨ You can find my work on instagram: @jonesy_cat_makes_art, fetlife: @jonesy_cat or on telegram: https://t.me/+0777lSBRGWM3ZTJi
pixiedream
BDSM, Massage & Sugar baby
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Berlin DE
I can be your manic pixie dream girl <3
GothiccCutie
Content creator & Sugar baby
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Chattanooga TN US
Hiya! I’m a curvy alt girl with a praise kink. Just tell me how to please you 😈 looking to build online connections where we both benefit and enjoy each other thoroughly 🥰 Creating content is a hobby of mine- and I do customs as well.
What is submission?
My happy place is my sub space.
In a sexual context, submission refers to the consensual act of willingly yielding control, authority, or power to a dominant partner. It involves engaging in activities, rituals, or dynamics that emphasise the power imbalance between the submissive and dominant individuals.
Submission is often a key element in BDSM practices, and it can encompass a range of activities, from physical restraint to psychological surrender, all within the framework of negotiated and consensual boundaries. The submissive party derives pleasure from surrendering and following the commands or desires of the dominant partner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of submission can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it taps into power dynamics, creating a sense of vulnerability and surrender that can intensify the erotic experience. The act of giving up control can evoke feelings of trust, intimacy, and heightened sensations.
Additionally, submission allows individuals to explore their desires and boundaries, providing a structured and consensual space to push personal limits and experience new facets of pleasure. The arousal may also stem from the psychological and emotional aspects of surrender, where the submissive finds pleasure in fulfilling the desires of the dominant partner.
Yes, submission can be consensual and part of various relationship dynamics, including those characterised by love, trust, and equality. It's about exploring shared desires within agreed-upon boundaries.
While submission often involves sexual activities, it can extend beyond the sexual realm. Some individuals may engage in non-sexual forms of submission, such as service-oriented tasks or rituals.
Communication is key. Clearly discuss desires, limits, and expectations with a partner. Start with less intense activities and gradually explore, prioritising ongoing consent and safety.
DO
Establish clear communication: Open and honest communication is essential in establishing boundaries, expectations, and consent when engaging in submissive activities.
Prioritise aftercare: After engaging in submissive activities, prioritize aftercare to provide emotional and physical support to the submissive partner. This can include reassurance, cuddling, and checking in on emotional well-being.
Regularly check in: Regularly check in with both partners to ensure ongoing consent and comfort. Consent is dynamic and can be withdrawn at any time, so clear communication is key.
DON'T
Neglect safety: Safety should always be a priority. Avoid activities that pose unnecessary risks, and establish safe words or signals to communicate discomfort or the need to stop.
Assume consent for all activities: Consent is specific to each activity. Just because someone consents to one form of submission doesn't mean they consent to all activities. Clearly negotiate and communicate desires and limits.
Rush the process: Submission is a gradual exploration. Avoid rushing into intense activities without proper communication, understanding, and consent. Take the time to build trust and explore gradually.