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Submission
My happy place is my sub space.
CherryLuxury
Content creator, BDSM & Muse
Services are In person & Online
Female - Straight
Los Angeles CA US
All around angel with a pure heart and perverted mind
Fernsmith
Sugar baby
Services are In person
Trans - Bisexual
Columbus OH US
Trying on my new dresses today, who wants to take me out somewhere fancy to show me off?
Roel
BDSM
Services are In person
Male - Straight
Antwerp BE
Discover your boundries. Set your soul free. Reach core orgasms and let yourself go.
adinstone
BDSM
Services are In person
Male - Straight
Berlin DE
Let’s see and find out together what direction were going
Bash92
BDSM
Services are In person
Male - Straight
Portland OR US
I have been in the lifestyle for 10 years now. My wife and I practice ENM. I am a pleasure Dom with a firm hand and an insatiable knack for getting my partners off.
goddexxgrey
BDSM
Services are In person
Gender fluid - Pansexual
New York NY US
FinDom, Sensual Dom, can be your mommy or daddy Dom.
MsZoe
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Las Vegas NV US
Retired Pornstar living the 24/7 BDSM lifestyle as a true Switchy witch. Im a Mommy Domme and sensual Goddess. Spoiled slut to my one & only Daddy + Mistress to my good boys and girls.
saintvalentine
BDSM
Services are In person
Female - Sapiosexual
Denver CO US
Let me indulge you in your erotic fantasies. Devote to me and I will unveil your true purpose -my ultimate pleasure.
Sir_
BDSM
Services are In person
Male - Straight
New York NY US
It’s better to be a pirate than join the navy. 🏴☠️ Let’s go to couples therapy and see how long it takes the therapist to figure out we’re on a first date. My gorgeous sexy linked partner may be down to join for FMF or FMFM 🤓 Whip smart professional with diverse cultural tastes. 🎯Sensual Dominant seeking submissive play partner - Ongoing preferred. Can we be one of those awesome couples on here? FMF, MFMF, MFM, stag and hotwife arrangements also welcome. 🥳 Top Floor, Life Itself, Chemistry among others. 📥 CMO by day; technology, art, architecture, design, spirituality, food, & music fan by night. 🩺Take care of yourself mentally and physically - I do :) 🚫 NOT a fuckboi fake ‘dom’ incel with poor conversational skills like your last feeld date. Also note: not the trump voting republican some take me to be based on looks. Can’t help it. But … decidedly non traditional on the inside. You’ve read this far. You get it. 🎭 I’m a former comedian. I promise to make you laugh. 🎧Former DJ & music industry exec. Open to an ENM primary relationship with a sex positive woman. ❤️ Happy to meet for a drink or coffee and see if we click. Not into texting - much prefer in real life, totally ok if you want a quick video confirmation that I am indeed for real :) 5’10 / 165lbs fit with high libido and stamina for days. 📍I live in Carroll Gardens Brooklyn or Hilton Head SC. 🍆 Size queens welcome.
matejkubesa
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Male - Bisexual
Olomouc CZ
Young boy, with lots of passion, desire and experience. A am for everything kinky.
Cleo08
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Jakarta ID
A mixed Asian harlot, dominatrix who's based in Bali, Indonesia 🖤
patdonato
BDSM
Services are In person
Male - Bicurious
Providence RI US
Love to explore psychological domination. Chastity and denial.
What is submission?
My happy place is my sub space.
In a sexual context, submission refers to the consensual act of willingly yielding control, authority, or power to a dominant partner. It involves engaging in activities, rituals, or dynamics that emphasise the power imbalance between the submissive and dominant individuals.
Submission is often a key element in BDSM practices, and it can encompass a range of activities, from physical restraint to psychological surrender, all within the framework of negotiated and consensual boundaries. The submissive party derives pleasure from surrendering and following the commands or desires of the dominant partner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of submission can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it taps into power dynamics, creating a sense of vulnerability and surrender that can intensify the erotic experience. The act of giving up control can evoke feelings of trust, intimacy, and heightened sensations.
Additionally, submission allows individuals to explore their desires and boundaries, providing a structured and consensual space to push personal limits and experience new facets of pleasure. The arousal may also stem from the psychological and emotional aspects of surrender, where the submissive finds pleasure in fulfilling the desires of the dominant partner.
Yes, submission can be consensual and part of various relationship dynamics, including those characterised by love, trust, and equality. It's about exploring shared desires within agreed-upon boundaries.
While submission often involves sexual activities, it can extend beyond the sexual realm. Some individuals may engage in non-sexual forms of submission, such as service-oriented tasks or rituals.
Communication is key. Clearly discuss desires, limits, and expectations with a partner. Start with less intense activities and gradually explore, prioritising ongoing consent and safety.
DO
Establish clear communication: Open and honest communication is essential in establishing boundaries, expectations, and consent when engaging in submissive activities.
Prioritise aftercare: After engaging in submissive activities, prioritize aftercare to provide emotional and physical support to the submissive partner. This can include reassurance, cuddling, and checking in on emotional well-being.
Regularly check in: Regularly check in with both partners to ensure ongoing consent and comfort. Consent is dynamic and can be withdrawn at any time, so clear communication is key.
DON'T
Neglect safety: Safety should always be a priority. Avoid activities that pose unnecessary risks, and establish safe words or signals to communicate discomfort or the need to stop.
Assume consent for all activities: Consent is specific to each activity. Just because someone consents to one form of submission doesn't mean they consent to all activities. Clearly negotiate and communicate desires and limits.
Rush the process: Submission is a gradual exploration. Avoid rushing into intense activities without proper communication, understanding, and consent. Take the time to build trust and explore gradually.