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Submission
My happy place is my sub space.
patdonato
BDSM
Male, 50, Bicurious
Providence RI US (In person)
Love to explore psychological domination. Chastity and denial.
jonesy
Artist & Content creator
Non Binary, 36, Queer
Berlin DE (In person & Online)
I create smutty comics and kinky art 👯♂️ I’m part of Kinky Life Drawing in Berlin, but also have a secret crush on LUX BDSM life drawing 👀 Sometimes I get requests to sketch people at play parties, and they seem to be really into that 😸. Maybe because for many people drawing feels so much less intrusive than photography - especially for folks with body image issues. I’ve been dealing with body dysmorphia for most of my life, so I’ve a lot of awareness around this topic. I’m working on a series of comics, which I’m starting to publish on my patreon (www.patreon.com/jonesy_cat), but it’s also the place where you just. an support my work, or commission me✨ You can find my work on instagram: @jonesy_cat_makes_art, fetlife: @jonesy_cat or on telegram: https://t.me/+0777lSBRGWM3ZTJi
FILTH_Deelite
BDSM & Content creator
Male, 54, Straight
Amsterdam NL (In person & Online)
I am the founder and owner of Filth Latex Clothing in the Netherlands. My latex journey started about 30 years ago working for Demask in Amsterdam and over the last few years I have been creating my own brand. The goal of Filth is to create new and unique garments of the highest quality that are inspired by fetish in music and fashion. My clothes explore the role and relationship between the voyeur and the exhibitionist with the use of standard and semi transparent latex in the garments. The garments are meant to tease, not be explicit. On a personal level I am just trying to get the kinks out.
Minnie05
Sugar baby
Female, 19, Bisexual
Miami FL US (In person)
I yearn to satisfy your every need as long as you can provide for me❤️
NolanDom
BDSM & Content creator
Trans, 28, Pansexual
London UK (In person & Online)
Get on your knees and hand over MY money. It's where you belong. It's what you deserve.
Bloody_Marria91
BDSM
Female, 32, Sapiosexual
Bucharest RO (In person)
Huge fan of art (photography, classical music, theatre, movies, sculpture and paintings). Big animal lover. I'm a citizen of the world therefore i don't believe in labels (like straight/gay, race, political inclination, religion...they make us different by choice not by DNA). I'm an admirer and a wild nature addict. I'm not tamable, i'm not a prize, i love challenges. I'm excited by bright minds not by muscles. Cameleonic, dual, tough but also sensitive, empathic, serious but also with a developed sense of humor, calm, sincerely brutal but also an expert liar. The sea and the sky are my antidepressants. Photo is a passion. Art is a drug. Music is food for my soul.
Princess_Latex
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 40, Bisexual
Manchester UK (In person & Online)
Hit me up for the most delicious and decadent of kink and BDSM experiences 😈
foxxy1512
BDSM
Female, 34, Bisexual
São Paulo BR (In person)
Brazilian switcher looking for beautiful and unique moments
BlackVenus
BDSM
Female, 30, Bisexual
London UK (In person)
Carefully curated kinky experiences and GFE with a dominant twist
fullychargedqueer
BDSM
Non Binary, 48, Queer
Leicester UK (In person)
I believe in offering boldly. Will you receive boldly? In the name of your queer pleasure?
SirDavid
BDSM & Content creator
Male, 73, Straight
Bath UK (In person & Online)
Experienced Erotic Artist, Dominant Master and Latex Fetishist, offering advice on all aspects of these subjects.
AloraLux
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 33, Bisexual
Birmingham UK (In person & Online)
British babygirl with a passion for wrestling
What is submission?
My happy place is my sub space.
In a sexual context, submission refers to the consensual act of willingly yielding control, authority, or power to a dominant partner. It involves engaging in activities, rituals, or dynamics that emphasise the power imbalance between the submissive and dominant individuals.
Submission is often a key element in BDSM practices, and it can encompass a range of activities, from physical restraint to psychological surrender, all within the framework of negotiated and consensual boundaries. The submissive party derives pleasure from surrendering and following the commands or desires of the dominant partner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of submission can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it taps into power dynamics, creating a sense of vulnerability and surrender that can intensify the erotic experience. The act of giving up control can evoke feelings of trust, intimacy, and heightened sensations.
Additionally, submission allows individuals to explore their desires and boundaries, providing a structured and consensual space to push personal limits and experience new facets of pleasure. The arousal may also stem from the psychological and emotional aspects of surrender, where the submissive finds pleasure in fulfilling the desires of the dominant partner.
Yes, submission can be consensual and part of various relationship dynamics, including those characterised by love, trust, and equality. It's about exploring shared desires within agreed-upon boundaries.
While submission often involves sexual activities, it can extend beyond the sexual realm. Some individuals may engage in non-sexual forms of submission, such as service-oriented tasks or rituals.
Communication is key. Clearly discuss desires, limits, and expectations with a partner. Start with less intense activities and gradually explore, prioritising ongoing consent and safety.
DO
Establish clear communication: Open and honest communication is essential in establishing boundaries, expectations, and consent when engaging in submissive activities.
Prioritise aftercare: After engaging in submissive activities, prioritize aftercare to provide emotional and physical support to the submissive partner. This can include reassurance, cuddling, and checking in on emotional well-being.
Regularly check in: Regularly check in with both partners to ensure ongoing consent and comfort. Consent is dynamic and can be withdrawn at any time, so clear communication is key.
DON'T
Neglect safety: Safety should always be a priority. Avoid activities that pose unnecessary risks, and establish safe words or signals to communicate discomfort or the need to stop.
Assume consent for all activities: Consent is specific to each activity. Just because someone consents to one form of submission doesn't mean they consent to all activities. Clearly negotiate and communicate desires and limits.
Rush the process: Submission is a gradual exploration. Avoid rushing into intense activities without proper communication, understanding, and consent. Take the time to build trust and explore gradually.