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My happy place is my sub space.
BlackVenus
BDSM
Female, 30, Bisexual
London UK (In person)
Carefully curated kinky experiences and GFE with a dominant twist
fullychargedqueer
BDSM
Non Binary, 48, Queer
Leicester UK (In person)
I believe in offering boldly. Will you receive boldly? In the name of your queer pleasure?
SirDavid
BDSM & Content creator
Male, 73, Straight
Bath UK (In person & Online)
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AloraLux
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 33, Bisexual
Birmingham UK (In person & Online)
British babygirl with a passion for wrestling
SensualRubber
BDSM
Gender fluid, 25, Bisexual
Sheffield UK (In person)
Rubber rubber fetish slut I'll do this now later thanx
mistresskizumi
BDSM
Female, 34, Straight
London UK (In person)
London Asian American Dominatrix
Allanna
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 48, Straight
Manchester UK (In person & Online)
" Never underestimate the power of an Alpha Female - " Mistress Allanna"BDSM- Isn't about pain ..... It's about TRUST
Bathory_cvnt
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 30, Bisexual
London UK (In person & Online)
Venus in Doc Martens
RonelleChamber
BDSM
Female, 50, Bisexual
Walsall UK (In person)
Kinky perverted glam Bdsm Queen
Ladyvictorious
BDSM
Female, 40, Bisexual
Bristol UK (In person)
I'm Lady Victorious. I'm an experienced Dominatrix who loves to combine the soft and sensual aspects of Tantra with the sharper edges of BDSM. I'm completely unique as a Domme because of my experience and my intoxicating combination of the erotic, the sensual and the sharp edges of domination. You'll be my perfect sub if you like to serve and to be used for my pleasure. I love foot fetish, impact play of all kinds, sensation play, sensory deprivation, rope bondage and so much more. I look forward to hearing your desires.
What is submission?
My happy place is my sub space.
In a sexual context, submission refers to the consensual act of willingly yielding control, authority, or power to a dominant partner. It involves engaging in activities, rituals, or dynamics that emphasise the power imbalance between the submissive and dominant individuals.
Submission is often a key element in BDSM practices, and it can encompass a range of activities, from physical restraint to psychological surrender, all within the framework of negotiated and consensual boundaries. The submissive party derives pleasure from surrendering and following the commands or desires of the dominant partner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of submission can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it taps into power dynamics, creating a sense of vulnerability and surrender that can intensify the erotic experience. The act of giving up control can evoke feelings of trust, intimacy, and heightened sensations.
Additionally, submission allows individuals to explore their desires and boundaries, providing a structured and consensual space to push personal limits and experience new facets of pleasure. The arousal may also stem from the psychological and emotional aspects of surrender, where the submissive finds pleasure in fulfilling the desires of the dominant partner.
Yes, submission can be consensual and part of various relationship dynamics, including those characterised by love, trust, and equality. It's about exploring shared desires within agreed-upon boundaries.
While submission often involves sexual activities, it can extend beyond the sexual realm. Some individuals may engage in non-sexual forms of submission, such as service-oriented tasks or rituals.
Communication is key. Clearly discuss desires, limits, and expectations with a partner. Start with less intense activities and gradually explore, prioritising ongoing consent and safety.
DO
Establish clear communication: Open and honest communication is essential in establishing boundaries, expectations, and consent when engaging in submissive activities.
Prioritise aftercare: After engaging in submissive activities, prioritize aftercare to provide emotional and physical support to the submissive partner. This can include reassurance, cuddling, and checking in on emotional well-being.
Regularly check in: Regularly check in with both partners to ensure ongoing consent and comfort. Consent is dynamic and can be withdrawn at any time, so clear communication is key.
DON'T
Neglect safety: Safety should always be a priority. Avoid activities that pose unnecessary risks, and establish safe words or signals to communicate discomfort or the need to stop.
Assume consent for all activities: Consent is specific to each activity. Just because someone consents to one form of submission doesn't mean they consent to all activities. Clearly negotiate and communicate desires and limits.
Rush the process: Submission is a gradual exploration. Avoid rushing into intense activities without proper communication, understanding, and consent. Take the time to build trust and explore gradually.