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Torture and tickle time, all in one.
eliasgoldmund
BDSM, Companion & Massage
Male, Bicurious, Berlin DE
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I'll meet you in sensual tantric heavens, on golden shiny Earth or in dark hell.
mistresslola
BDSM, Sugar baby & Artist
Female, Pansexual, Paris FR
In person & Online
Having a cute appearance doesn’t bother me from being mean, freaky and sadistic.
knotsnacks
Content creator, Artist & BDSM
Non Binary, Queer, Los Angeles CA US
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Experience the beauty in suffering
papipistacchio
BDSM
Male, Straight, Berlin DE
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Swedish/German. Viking roots, Berlin boots. D/s Dominant, explorer, expert cuddler.
Enanna
Coach, Content creator & Workshop
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Multidisciplinary creatrix; conscious kink educator & sensuality coach, author, bodyworker & rope (s)witch
MirabaiBerlin
BDSM, Massage & Dancer
Female, Bisexual, Berlin DE
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Tantric and Kinky
redmorninglight
Muse, Writer & BDSM
Female, Pansexual, Silver Point TN US
In person
An artist, hidden in plain sight. A wall flower, filled with warm passion. A gentle soul that finds beauty in soft pain. Particularly searching for Sapphic souls wanting to learn more about their dominant, kinky, or top tendencies in ways that are sensual yet still satisfying. I have a background in ethics and safety, from the bedroom to the film world, and talk on making consent sexy all day, but I also adore being fully explored. When I rarely have spare time, I write smut that I never publish and paint the muses my mind creates, just to get them out and throw them away.
scarlettseverin
Muse, BDSM & Companion
Female, Bisexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Your Sensual, Dominant Muse
arika
BDSM, Coach & Massage
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Berlin-Based Tantrika & Sexuality Coach Female, 32 Years Old With years of experience in sexuality work, from starting out as a sex educator and researching sexual violence to embracing embodied practices through tantra, I am dedicated to helping individuals and couples connect deeply with themselves and each other. I am certified as a systemic sex counselor and couples coach with trauma expertise, I bring both a compassionate heart and extensive knowledge to every session. Working Together In our work together, expect a safe, open environment where you can explore both sensuality and sexuality. My approach integrates meditation, touch, and personalized coaching. Clients often describe my tantric sessions as gentle, profound, and nourishing – and many return to dive deeper into their journey of intimacy and self-discovery. All Genders & Relationship Styles Welcome Individual & Couples Counseling Topics: Desire, Fetishes & Kinks: Understanding, expressing, and living with what excites you Pain & Discomfort During Sex: Moving past discomfort and finding ease Navigating Desire & Displeasure in relationships (marriage or partnership) Sexual Dissatisfaction & Low Libido Sexually Compulsive or Addictive Behavior Consequences of Sexual Trauma: From verbal abuse to physical assaults Chemsex and Related Challenges Difficulty Reaching Orgasm Managing Non-Consensual Affairs & Infidelity Exploring Sexual Preferences & BDSM Sexual Dysfunction such as: Premature ejaculation Erectile challenges Orgasm inhibition Vaginismus Managing STIs: Information and guidance Topics We Can Address in Couples Counseling New Relationships: "We just got together and want to do things differently this time." Communication Issues: "We have nothing more to say to each other." / "We always talk past each other." Trust Issues: "An affair has affected our trust." Sexual Challenges: "Our sexual tempos don’t match." / "I have a fetish I don’t know how to explain to my partner." Conflict Resolution: "We argue too much." / "Everyday life brings challenges for us." Future Planning: "We have different views on children, career, or where to live." Separation Questions: "Do we need to separate?" Control & Perception: "One of us feels controlled or undervalued." Relationship Models: "We’re not sure what relationship model fits us – monogamy, consensual non-monogamy, polyamory, or swinging." Loss of Infatuation: "The spark has faded… Now what?" ****Open to Sugar Baby Arrangements For those interested in exploring genuine sugar baby connections, I am open if there is a mutual, respectful bond. On a personal note: Sexuality is a passion for me, and I am continually discovering new depths within BDSM and tantra , which enriches my practice and insights. And funn is such an important part to ittt
carlyjorve
Erotic audio, Muse & BDSM
Female, Queer, Amsterdam NL
In person & Online
Hot philosophers should be paid. Your greatest purpose is serving your goddess.
PreciousLillith
Dancer, BDSM & Sugar baby
Female, Demisexual, Portland OR US
In person & Online
Succubae
MaleProDominant
BDSM
Male, Straight, Barcelona ES
In person
I am a professional Dominant based in Brighton, London, but I travel all over the UK.
What is tie and tease?
Torture and tickle time, all in one.
Tie and tease is a BDSM practice that involves restraining a partner (the 'tie') for erotic purposes and then engaging in various teasing activities. The tying can be done using ropes, cuffs, or other bondage tools, and the teasing may include sensual touch, verbal play, or the use of toys. The emphasis is on creating a heightened state of arousal through the combination of restraint and erotic stimulation.
What makes it hot?
The appeal of tie and tease lies in the dynamic of power exchange and sensory exploration. The person being tied experiences vulnerability and the excitement of being teased, while the one in control enjoys the art of being on control and playing with the person tied. This power play can lead to intense physical and emotional sensations, fostering trust and intimacy between partners. The anticipation and delayed gratification add to the allure. As BDSM goes, it's one of the more intimate and playful activities.
No, it can range from simple wrist restraints to more complex bondage, depending on the comfort and desires of the participants.
No, individuals of various experience levels can explore tie and tease, but it's crucial to communicate, start slowly, and prioritise consent.
Yes, tie and tease can be part of a broader BDSM scene, incorporating activities like sensory play or impact play.
Tie and tease: sensual Bdsm
Saturday 17 June 2023
You might associate the phrase 'tie and tease' with all the pain and humiliation that BDSM can involve. But that couldn't be further from the reality of this intimate and sensual experience. Here's the lowdown.
DO
Prioritise communication: Establish clear communication about boundaries, desires, and safe words before engaging in tie and tease activities. Regularly check in with your partner during the experience.
Start slowly: Especially if new to tie and tease, start with basic restraints and light teasing. Gradually increase intensity based on comfort levels and mutual consent.
Focus on aftercare: After a tie and tease session, engage in aftercare to ensure the emotional well-being of both partners. This may involve comforting activities, gentle touch, and open communication.
DON'T
Skip negotiation: Avoid engaging in tie and tease without discussing and agreeing upon boundaries and limits. This negotiation is crucial for a safe and consensual experience.
Use unsafe restraints: Ensure that any restraints used are safe, easily removable, and not too tight. Regularly check for circulation and comfort during the session.
Rush the experience: Take your time and savour the experience. The fun in tie and tease comes from the excruciatingly slow build of excitement. Rushing can lead to misunderstandings, discomfort, or the potential for unsafe practices.