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Tie and Tease
Torture and tickle time, all in one.
galavanting
BDSM
Services are In person
Female - Queer
Sydney AU
I'm a queer woman with 20 years' experience in the sexuality field, working across adult film production and performance, sugaring, BDSM service provision, sexuality education, advocacy, and writing. I currently provide BDSM services and support others to cultivate practices of BDSM, hedonism, and somatics as the founder and director of Hedon House, with locations in Sydney and Melbourne. While my hard BDSM skills have been developed over the last 12 years through BDSM education, a traditional House apprenticeship, and thousands of hours of personal and professional play, my soft skills and my deep understanding of the use of body-based practices as tools for liberation, sublimation and self-exploration are what defines my practice. I am highly skilled at supporting others to help define exactly what they want to receive and how they'd like to receive it. To achieve this, I use a combination of verbal consultation, consent containers, lines of somatic inquiry, sensory experimentation, and a sharp read on your energetic and physical presentation in every moment (or communicating with you where that's not possible). I can play with or without protocol, power exchange, or roleplay. Sometimes BDSM play is psychodrama, and other times it's a body-based practice. Sometimes it's both. We work together to discover and cultivate the best possible conditions for your surrender, and I facilitate session content within that container. I am a one-way practitioner; this means that I'm the giver and you're the receiver. This being said, you'll get the most out of our time together when you bring your full self and clear intentions to our play. I provide services to people of all genders and sexualities, and have experience providing gender-affirming services to people on the spectrum of trans experience. I have also completed the Touching Base PDAT training and am able to adapt to different physical abilities, sensory needs and other access requirements. My ethics and politics our queer, and this will be in the room with us when we play, regardless of your gender identity. I currently practice on the lands of the Gadigal people in so-called Sydney and the lands of the Wurundjeri Woi-wurring people in so-called Melbourne. I session primarily from my lovingly-crafted, comfortable and well-equipped Hedon House locations, but am open to providing services from other locations for those with access restrictions that preclude the use of either space.
Roel
BDSM
Services are In person
Male - Straight
Antwerp BE
Discover your boundries. Set your soul free. Reach core orgasms and let yourself go.
goddexxgrey
BDSM
Services are In person
Gender fluid - Pansexual
New York NY US
FinDom, Sensual Dom, can be your mommy or daddy Dom.
MsZoe
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Las Vegas NV US
Retired Pornstar living the 24/7 BDSM lifestyle as a true Switchy witch. Im a Mommy Domme and sensual Goddess. Spoiled slut to my one & only Daddy + Mistress to my good boys and girls.
saintvalentine
BDSM
Services are In person
Female - Sapiosexual
Denver CO US
Let me indulge you in your erotic fantasies. Devote to me and I will unveil your true purpose -my ultimate pleasure.
Sir_
BDSM
Services are In person
Male - Straight
New York NY US
It’s better to be a pirate than join the navy. 🏴☠️ Let’s go to couples therapy and see how long it takes the therapist to figure out we’re on a first date. My gorgeous sexy linked partner may be down to join for FMF or FMFM 🤓 Whip smart professional with diverse cultural tastes. 🎯Sensual Dominant seeking submissive play partner - Ongoing preferred. Can we be one of those awesome couples on here? FMF, MFMF, MFM, stag and hotwife arrangements also welcome. 🥳 Top Floor, Life Itself, Chemistry among others. 📥 CMO by day; technology, art, architecture, design, spirituality, food, & music fan by night. 🩺Take care of yourself mentally and physically - I do :) 🚫 NOT a fuckboi fake ‘dom’ incel with poor conversational skills like your last feeld date. Also note: not the trump voting republican some take me to be based on looks. Can’t help it. But … decidedly non traditional on the inside. You’ve read this far. You get it. 🎭 I’m a former comedian. I promise to make you laugh. 🎧Former DJ & music industry exec. Open to an ENM primary relationship with a sex positive woman. ❤️ Happy to meet for a drink or coffee and see if we click. Not into texting - much prefer in real life, totally ok if you want a quick video confirmation that I am indeed for real :) 5’10 / 165lbs fit with high libido and stamina for days. 📍I live in Carroll Gardens Brooklyn or Hilton Head SC. 🍆 Size queens welcome.
matejkubesa
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Male - Bisexual
Olomouc CZ
Young boy, with lots of passion, desire and experience. A am for everything kinky.
Cleo08
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Jakarta ID
A mixed Asian harlot, dominatrix who's based in Bali, Indonesia 🖤
patdonato
BDSM
Services are In person
Male - Bicurious
Providence RI US
Love to explore psychological domination. Chastity and denial.
DiscoMama
BDSM
Services are In person
Female - Bisexual
Palma ES
I am a playful, big hearted and open minded experienced kinkster with strong switch energy.
MistressAsherah
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Wilmington NC US
~Let me make art from your Surrender~ 🌷Sensual ProDomme, Repro Health Coach, Eros Embodiment Facilitator, Writer🌷
MommyThea
BDSM & Content creator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Straight
Austin TX US
Nurturing mommy-Domme for good boys. Photos and audio JOIs on my Patreon 🙇♂️
What is tie and tease?
Torture and tickle time, all in one.
Tie and tease is a BDSM practice that involves restraining a partner (the 'tie') for erotic purposes and then engaging in various teasing activities. The tying can be done using ropes, cuffs, or other bondage tools, and the teasing may include sensual touch, verbal play, or the use of toys. The emphasis is on creating a heightened state of arousal through the combination of restraint and erotic stimulation.
What makes it hot?
The appeal of tie and tease lies in the dynamic of power exchange and sensory exploration. The person being tied experiences vulnerability and the excitement of being teased, while the one in control enjoys the art of being on control and playing with the person tied. This power play can lead to intense physical and emotional sensations, fostering trust and intimacy between partners. The anticipation and delayed gratification add to the allure. As BDSM goes, it's one of the more intimate and playful activities.
No, it can range from simple wrist restraints to more complex bondage, depending on the comfort and desires of the participants.
No, individuals of various experience levels can explore tie and tease, but it's crucial to communicate, start slowly, and prioritise consent.
Yes, tie and tease can be part of a broader BDSM scene, incorporating activities like sensory play or impact play.
DO
Prioritise communication: Establish clear communication about boundaries, desires, and safe words before engaging in tie and tease activities. Regularly check in with your partner during the experience.
Start slowly: Especially if new to tie and tease, start with basic restraints and light teasing. Gradually increase intensity based on comfort levels and mutual consent.
Focus on aftercare: After a tie and tease session, engage in aftercare to ensure the emotional well-being of both partners. This may involve comforting activities, gentle touch, and open communication.
DON'T
Skip negotiation: Avoid engaging in tie and tease without discussing and agreeing upon boundaries and limits. This negotiation is crucial for a safe and consensual experience.
Use unsafe restraints: Ensure that any restraints used are safe, easily removable, and not too tight. Regularly check for circulation and comfort during the session.
Rush the experience: Take your time and savour the experience. The fun in tie and tease comes from the excruciatingly slow build of excitement. Rushing can lead to misunderstandings, discomfort, or the potential for unsafe practices.