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Tie and Tease
Torture and tickle time, all in one.
mistressseren
BDSM
Female, 31, Sapiosexual
New York NY US (In person)
Prepare to be tantalized + tormented. I'm a mindful menace and a sadistic trickster. I'm the force to guide you on a journey of self-discovery through pain and pleasure. I will push you to your edges, but I do it from the heart. I chose to be a Domina after spending my career in the art world, tech, fashion, and finance. Now my unique ability to master new things is turned on you. My scenes are meticulously tailored experiences, based on the unique D/s connection I have with you. This is why my subs always come back, the authenticity, emotional depth, and artistry of my scenes are what make me a luxury Domina. If you’re seeking quick sexual gratification or a fleeting thrill, I am not the one for you. My scenes are built to create pleasure, catharsis, and expansion. My approach is inspired by Mother Nature and Carl Jung. Raised in the Rocky Mountains, I experienced nature as my Domme. I believe kink can bring you to individuation, Carl Jung’s theory of becoming oneself. BDSM is the perfect method to explore the hidden and neglected aspects of your psyche. Let’s make your subconscious conscious. There is nothing more beautiful or powerful than that. I will domme you emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Being in a scene with me is to experience a surreal nightmare. I am a high-protocol Domina. My standards are high, and I invite you to meet them. I adore humiliation, corporal punishment, foot worship, sissification, degradation, and impact play. I am a true sadist and nothing pleases me more than your groans and moans. When I am not in the dungeon, I am learning. I read books on philosophy, psychology, and BDSM. I spend my free time at museums, hot yoga, and the theatre. Curiosity is what drives me and I love to travel. Last year, I spent time in Italy, Bali, Vietnam, Mexico City, Berlin, Japan, and Morocco. I spend my free time daydreaming about new ways to make my submissives suffer for me.
evaoh
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 38, Pansexual
London UK (In person & Online)
Award-winning Dominatrix and Mentor
MxEve
Companion
Female, 30, Pansexual
London UK (In person)
Mostly deep in thought / on top / charming you
MistressSin
BDSM
Female, 48, Queer
London UK (In person)
I am a British Femdom based in London. Although I have been naturally dominant since coming of age, I decided to turn My lust for overpowering men into a profession at the age of 25. I have been a professional Dominatrix for 23yrs and find new excitement and love for BDSM with every year that goes by. For Me, there is nothing quite like the feeling of a man, at My feet, relinquishing all control to Me. I have an insatiable lust for the erotic constraints of latex and leather and the sensuality of stockings and heels. I adore every level of kink, but I particularly thrive with the unusual and extreme. Your embarrassment and shame give Me amusement and excitement. The space that I will give to you is completely safe, so you can truly submit, give in, and become the sub that you have always yearned for but hidden... until now.
HouseOfVF
BDSM
Female, 21, Bisexual
London UK (In person)
Please note all applications are to be made through my website. I am Mistress Vera V.F. - a strict, yet caring, dominatrix. Classic, yes, but with something of a contemporary twist. I adore protocol and discipline, which I bring a uniquely personal approach to. I will remain strict and poised looking down at you, but I will also put you at ease. You are in safe hands with me. I will dominate you with a smile on my face. Passionate about kink and BDSM, I truly adore exploring and facilitating fantasies - I strive to learn what makes you tick, and use it to bring you pleasure, pain and ultimate subspace. I offer real-time dungeon sessions, social dates, shopping trips and cashpoint meets in London. You can apply via my website. Occasionally, I might consider online sessions. Note you should be deposit ready at the time of your application. I have seen people of all types, from devoted submissives to those with specific fetishes. Whether you're an obedient and experienced sub or a complete beginner, if you are lucky together we will explore your deepest, darkest desires. I have a wide range of interests, but some of my favourites are: Protocol Corporal punishment Bondage CBT Key holding Slave training I am a BDSM chameleon, and love exploring many types of play. Feel free to still fill out my form if what you are looking for isn't mentioned above and we can discuss. I am not interested in the following kinks at this time. Requests for any of these will be ignored. -Hardsports -Wrestling -Needles -Electrics
belste
BDSM
Male, 49, Straight
Hemel Hempstead UK (In person)
Crop-wielding rigger Dom. Consent and communication important.
galavanting
BDSM
Female, 40, Queer
Sydney AU (In person)
I'm a queer woman with 20 years' experience in the sexuality field, working across adult film production and performance, sugaring, BDSM service provision, sexuality education, advocacy, and writing. I currently provide BDSM services and support others to cultivate practices of BDSM, hedonism, and somatics as the founder and director of Hedon House, with locations in Sydney and Melbourne. While my hard BDSM skills have been developed over the last 12 years through BDSM education, a traditional House apprenticeship, and thousands of hours of personal and professional play, my soft skills and my deep understanding of the use of body-based practices as tools for liberation, sublimation and self-exploration are what defines my practice. I am highly skilled at supporting others to help define exactly what they want to receive and how they'd like to receive it. To achieve this, I use a combination of verbal consultation, consent containers, lines of somatic inquiry, sensory experimentation, and a sharp read on your energetic and physical presentation in every moment (or communicating with you where that's not possible). I can play with or without protocol, power exchange, or roleplay. Sometimes BDSM play is psychodrama, and other times it's a body-based practice. Sometimes it's both. We work together to discover and cultivate the best possible conditions for your surrender, and I facilitate session content within that container. I am a one-way practitioner; this means that I'm the giver and you're the receiver. This being said, you'll get the most out of our time together when you bring your full self and clear intentions to our play. I provide services to people of all genders and sexualities, and have experience providing gender-affirming services to people on the spectrum of trans experience. I have also completed the Touching Base PDAT training and am able to adapt to different physical abilities, sensory needs and other access requirements. My ethics and politics our queer, and this will be in the room with us when we play, regardless of your gender identity. I currently practice on the lands of the Gadigal people in so-called Sydney and the lands of the Wurundjeri Woi-wurring people in so-called Melbourne. I session primarily from my lovingly-crafted, comfortable and well-equipped Hedon House locations, but am open to providing services from other locations for those with access restrictions that preclude the use of either space.
Goddess_A
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 32, Bisexual
London UK (In person & Online)
I am London’s most statuesque Dominatrix, here to make your fantasies come true. I am a beautiful and strong Amazonian Mistress. Standing at a powerful 6’1” tall before I put on my high heels, I revel in making men feel inferior. I must be worshipped and obeyed. Some of my favourite activities include CP, humiliation and pegging. I also thoroughly enjoy beat downs; any excuse to practise my Muay Thai and show off my strength. I am available for in person sessions at Dungeons and Hotels based in London and Hertfordshire.
Roel
BDSM
Male, 48, Straight
Antwerp BE (In person)
Discover your boundries. Set your soul free. Reach core orgasms and let yourself go.
PorcelainVictoria
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 25, Bisexual
Edinburgh UK (In person & Online)
Hi I'm Mistress Victoria Since I can remember I have always been fascinated by the subversive sexual culture, the psychology behind power exchange and the practice of dark arts. I have been involved in the BDSM lifestyle community for the past years and have since then dedicated my time to sharpening my skills and perfecting the art of punishment, rewards, and the paradox of pain and pleasure. Today I am a well established fetish artist, dominatrix and Alpha female If I will allow you to serve Me, you will be soon captivated by my aura and presence. I am really one of a kind type of woman – Beautiful, fierce, alluring, demanding, sexually dominant and independent. I have been blessed with natural beauty – my feline face, porcelain skin and Goddess body will be the perfect canvas for you to worship. My feminine power and deviant mind will make you surrender and give up your thoughts of control – you will be stripped of your ego and be ready to be mould into my perfect plaything. I get the greatest satisfaction when taking you to places you have never been before, where pain is just a memory, problems disappears and your sole focus is on me. Once there, in your subspace, the possibilities will be limited only by our imagination. If your new to BDSM, you wanna try something new let's do it ! Il take it at your pace, talk things through and make sure your fully comfortable. If your happy I'm happy. All kinks are welcomed ! I'm very open-minded this is not just a job but a lifestyle I enjoy it outside of work too. LOCATIONs I can session from Abstrakt Studios Dungeon in Glasgow Edinburgh Dungeon As well as hotels or even your place DINNER DATES We can have a outcall dinner date or even an incall whichever you prefer. Let's get to know each other Incall £120 per HR Outcall £120 per HR STORE These items can be picked up in person or posted, customised to the fullest ! Watersports giving + £20 Others + £100 Cummy gummies (have been inserted into my ass or pussy) Pussy/ass lollipops (have been inserted into my ass or pussy) Cum filled Condom (male cum) Heels Converse Slip on shoes Panties (however you like them) Socks Public hair clippings Nail trimmings Ear wax buds Leggings CONSULTATION Book a consultation with me If you are nervous about meeting me or your new to this we can sit down and talk. For new clients I offer consultations at a discounted rate, we get to know each other and get to know what exactly you want to achieve by seeing me. £80 half hr £120 1hr £240 2hrs These consultations can take place at my flat, or even at a cafe. This will not include any dominating just a talk. If you wish to book a session after the consultation you may do so.
AvaSheridon
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 43, Sapiosexual
London UK (In person & Online)
The only elite disciplinarian you'll ever need.
FuckingOriginal
BDSM
Female, 25, Bisexual
Birmingham UK (In person)
Sensual Sadist and Domina. Experience the power of intimacy in my fully equipped cosy play room.
What is tie and tease?
Torture and tickle time, all in one.
Tie and tease is a BDSM practice that involves restraining a partner (the 'tie') for erotic purposes and then engaging in various teasing activities. The tying can be done using ropes, cuffs, or other bondage tools, and the teasing may include sensual touch, verbal play, or the use of toys. The emphasis is on creating a heightened state of arousal through the combination of restraint and erotic stimulation.
What makes it hot?
The appeal of tie and tease lies in the dynamic of power exchange and sensory exploration. The person being tied experiences vulnerability and the excitement of being teased, while the one in control enjoys the art of being on control and playing with the person tied. This power play can lead to intense physical and emotional sensations, fostering trust and intimacy between partners. The anticipation and delayed gratification add to the allure. As BDSM goes, it's one of the more intimate and playful activities.
No, it can range from simple wrist restraints to more complex bondage, depending on the comfort and desires of the participants.
No, individuals of various experience levels can explore tie and tease, but it's crucial to communicate, start slowly, and prioritise consent.
Yes, tie and tease can be part of a broader BDSM scene, incorporating activities like sensory play or impact play.
Tie and tease: sensual Bdsm
Saturday 17 June 2023
You might associate the phrase 'tie and tease' with all the pain and humiliation that BDSM can involve. But that couldn't be further from the reality of this intimate and sensual experience. Here's the lowdown.
DO
Prioritise communication: Establish clear communication about boundaries, desires, and safe words before engaging in tie and tease activities. Regularly check in with your partner during the experience.
Start slowly: Especially if new to tie and tease, start with basic restraints and light teasing. Gradually increase intensity based on comfort levels and mutual consent.
Focus on aftercare: After a tie and tease session, engage in aftercare to ensure the emotional well-being of both partners. This may involve comforting activities, gentle touch, and open communication.
DON'T
Skip negotiation: Avoid engaging in tie and tease without discussing and agreeing upon boundaries and limits. This negotiation is crucial for a safe and consensual experience.
Use unsafe restraints: Ensure that any restraints used are safe, easily removable, and not too tight. Regularly check for circulation and comfort during the session.
Rush the experience: Take your time and savour the experience. The fun in tie and tease comes from the excruciatingly slow build of excitement. Rushing can lead to misunderstandings, discomfort, or the potential for unsafe practices.