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Services and experiences I offer
About me
I’m Vonka. I require no honorifics or titles, as the name Vonka alone should represent my position of Dominance in your mind. Though if it titillates you, you may also call me Sir or Goddess.
While I have explored most of the realms of sex work, my profile here is focused on my focus of in person domination. I have identified as a kinkster in my personal life since my teen years and have dabbled in sessioning over my long career in sex work, but it is only recently taking up more of my time and attention. Previously I helped organize the largest and longest running monthly BDSM play party in NJ for 10 years. I currently also offer custom fetish videos online, sex & kink education classes in person, and you can find me performing burlesque at venues all over New York.
I am located in New Jersey on the cusp of NYC, and am happiest taking my sessions in Manhattan or Jersey City. I stand at a mere 5’3 barefoot, but my presence will tower over you. My soft, painted porcelain skin and lean curvy body will enchant, seduce, and control you. This sweet face and my playful nature may take you off guard, yet make no mistake; I am a sadist. I take delight in your suffering, be it in the form of crying out from the pain of my strikes or your desperate gasps for air underneath my *award winning* ass. I can be merciless in my power. If my striking blue hair caught your eye, be warned the most colorful creatures are often poisonous.
Those who serve me well may see my tender side and be treated as cherished pets throughout our session or in our aftercare. I am happy to cater to fetishists, truly dedicated submissives, as well as new kink explorers. Our unique chemistry may reveal itself over the course of our time together.
Women and those of feminine identities are my favorites to play with. Men will win my greatest favor by including another beautiful lady in our time together, be it a partner of yours or another provider I might recommend to join us. I love group interactions of all kinds.
If you ache for sexual release, be prepared to be teased and told: “No.” Beg me for permission knowing I may not grant it. I do not perform “jobs” of any kind and am not here to grant your every pleasure. Come to me for exploration of your desires without strict goalposts, so that we may live in the moment naturally.
While I deeply enjoy inflicting pain on the enthusiastic, trust that I prioritize safety for both sides. No matter our dynamics in play, we are equal as humans and will negotiate and use safe words/tap outs when needed. I may even intentionally push you to the limit and test that you indeed know your safe word.
Witness my glee if you ask me about my cats or gift me a sweet wine or chocolates to enjoy. Consider taking me to a Burlesque show or a crafty cocktail bar at the beginning of a session to see me enjoy myself with you publicly before our more intimate time in private.
- My experiences are for Everyone
- Female, 30s
- White/Caucasian
- I speak English
- 5'3 ft
- Undergrad
- Athletic, Curvy
- Yes
- Sometimes
- No Party
- Full body Tattoos
- Full body Piercings
