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Wax Play
Candlelit dinner now, candlelit party later.
Enanna
Coach, Content creator & Workshop
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Multidisciplinary creatrix; conscious kink educator & sensuality coach, shibari artist, bodyworker and author
mistrixcleokali
Artist, BDSM & Kinkster
Female, Queer, Sydney AU
In person & Online
Kink Witch, Ritualist and Eco-Eroticist.
chloephemeral
Coach, BDSM & Workshop
Female, Pansexual, Barcelona ES
In person & Online
Intamacy is powerful
mistresssade
Muse, BDSM & Kinkster
Female, Pansexual, Auckland NZ
In person & Online
Have you ever met a Real Dominatrix?
senseme_waxplay
Artist, BDSM & Workshop
Female, Bisexual, Lisbon PT
In person & Online
Will support u on your way to sub space
XCallxMexSirX
Artist, BDSM & Kinkster
Non Binary, Pansexual, Boston MA US
In person & Online
✨️BDSM ✨️ Impact ✨Latex ✨ ✨ Pet Play ✨️ Ageplay ✨️ Femization ✨ ✨️ All Things Emersive ✨️
madammezusa
Artist, BDSM & Erotic audio
Gender fluid, Pansexual, Austin TX US
Online
Mistress of The Muse Protocol and sculptor of submission, I mesmerize the mind and body with erotic hypnotic control
jamiejoy
BDSM, Educator & Workshop
Trans, Queer, New York NY US
In person & Online
Queer & Trans sex and kink educator spreading joy and pleasure through community orgynizing
saararei
Artist, BDSM & Educator
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Saara Rei is a workshop facilitator and performance artist with a background in music, dance, education, and public speaking. Saara's work generally centers around the exploration of suffering, both physical and emotional. Through their kink practice, Saara has come to understand that suffering comes from the comparison of what has been or could be to the present moment. And with that, Saara enjoys teaching about how to use suffering as a path to presence and enjoyment in life. Having a Ph.D. in mathematics, Saara’s academic experience adds an intellectual flair to complement their performative approach to bodywork. Playfulness and humor make up a big chunk of Saara's personality and approach to life, giving their workshops a very exploitative and light atmosphere, even while approaching some of the heaviest of topics.
welcome2sarahdise
BDSM & Kinkster
Female, Bisexual, Boston MA US
In person & Online
Sweet Sadist 🍭
ElixaMoon
BDSM, Coach & Massage
Female, Bisexual, Dallas TX US
In person & Online
How big is your Eros, wanna find out? ✨
eliasgoldmund
BDSM, Companion & Massage
Male, Bicurious, Berlin DE
In person
I'll meet you in sensual tantric heavens, on golden shiny Earth or in dark hell.
What is wax play?
Candlelit dinner now, candlelit party later.
Wax play is a form of sensual or BDSM activity involving the use of melted wax from candles or other heat sources on a person's skin. Typically practiced in a controlled environment, it involves dripping warm wax onto the body, creating varying sensations ranging from gentle warmth to intense heat. This activity is often associated with eroticism, power exchange dynamics, and exploration of sensory experiences.
What makes it hot?
What makes wax play appealing is its versatility in sensory stimulation. The sensation of warm wax dripping onto the skin can evoke a range of feelings, from a soothing warmth to an intense thrill, depending on the temperature and type of wax used. Additionally, the visual aspect of watching the wax slowly solidify on the skin can add an element of aesthetic pleasure. Many find wax play an artistic activity. The element of trust and vulnerability, coupled with the potential for sensory overload, heightens the excitement and connection between partners.
Yes, wax play can be safe when practiced with caution and appropriate preparation. It's essential to use low-temperature candles specifically designed for wax play and to test the temperature on a small area of skin before proceeding.
Paraffin wax or soy wax candles are commonly used for wax play as they melt at lower temperatures, reducing the risk of burns. Avoid using beeswax or other high-temperature candles.
To remove wax safely, allow it to cool and solidify before gently peeling it off the skin. Avoid using sharp objects or pulling forcefully, as this can cause skin irritation. Any remaining residue can be cleaned off with warm water and mild soap.
DO
Do communicate clearly with your partner about boundaries, preferences, and any concerns before engaging in wax play.
Temperature test: Test the temperature of the wax on a small area of skin before proceeding to ensure it's comfortable for your partner.
Protect: Use a drop cloth or towel to protect surfaces from wax drips and spills during the session.
Safe word: Have a word or signal in place to immediately stop the activity if either partner becomes uncomfortable or experiences distress.
Aftercare: Prioritise aftercare, which may include gentle massage, hydration, and emotional support, to ensure the well-being of both partners post-session.
DON'T
High temperatures: Don't use high-temperature candles or wax sources, as they can cause serious burns and injury.
Avoid sensitive areas: Don't pour wax directly onto sensitive areas of the body, such as the face, genitals, or open wounds.
No inebriation: Don't engage in wax play if either partner is under the influence of drugs or alcohol, as it can impair judgment and increase the risk of accidents..
Rush: Don't rush the process. Take time to build trust, establish boundaries, and ensure both partners are comfortable and consenting throughout the experience.
