BDSM & Kink

BDSM, Domination

Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.

MirabaiBerlin BDSM Berlin
7 2

MirabaiBerlin

BDSM, Massage & Dancer

Female, Bisexual, Berlin DE

In person & Online

Tantric and Kinky

Erotic massage FBSM Lingam
missangelafromhell BDSM Mexico City
7

missangelafromhell

BDSM, Companion & Therapist

Female, Demisexual, Mexico City MX

In person & Online

Nothing youve ever imagine

Companionship Travel Couples
mistresslola BDSM Paris
1

mistresslola

BDSM, Sugar baby & Artist

Female, Pansexual, Paris FR

In person & Online

Having a cute appearance doesn’t bother me from being mean, freaky and sadistic.

Ball busting CBT Chastity Dinner
knotsnacks Artist Los Angeles
5

knotsnacks

BDSM, Artist & Content creator

Non Binary, Queer, Los Angeles CA US

In person

Experience the beauty in suffering

Photo Rope bondage Semenawa
mistrixcleokali Artist Sydney
6

mistrixcleokali

BDSM, Artist & Kinkster

Female, Queer, Sydney AU

In person & Online

Welcome, kindred kinksters and curious creatures, I am Mistrix Cleo Kali - Kink Witch, Ritualist and Eco-Eroticist. Tall, tattooed, and ornamented in leather, My arresting aesthetic compels absolute surrender, though it is My incisive imagination and conceptual finesse that ensures your enduring enrapture. My style is intuitive, intentional and artistic, one of softly spoken sadism and exquisitely creative cruelty. I value poetry, potency; I craft catharsis elegantly. Experienced and eloquent in the erotic outer-edges with a sophisticated palate for pain, Mine is a spectral seduction, wrought with a kaleidoscopic command of mediums. More than once, My sessions have been described with the word ‘gesamtkunstwerk’, a German term translating to ‘all encompassing artwork.’ Scenes with Me span the spectrum from conceptual and symbolic to gestural and asemic - the violet iodine-staining of semantic space the true synthesis of My Dominance style. Meaning may indeed be fluid, obscured, but it will always be centered in My sessions. Expect to breathe properly. Expect to explore the contents of your consciousness with Me. I do not use the term "Kink Witch" lightly. I am not a Dominatrix one should chose to simply sate their still-latent fantasies, I am a Dominatrix who will expand and interrogate every desire that shivers from seed, evolving, eroding and corroding according to My vision. I am not interested in your orgasm, I am interested in your awakening. With an almost-decade of sessions under my well-flexed leather belt, and an influence now crossing three continents and counting, I am highly skilled, fluent in fetish and exceptionally adept at coaxing devotion. I work only within the limits of RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink,) and I am open to all cultures, genders, sexualities and ability levels - a statement meant not as an empty platitude, but as a genuine ongoing commitment to inclusiveness, education and awareness in My practice. I completed the Touching Base Professional Disability Awareness Training for Sex Workers in December 2019, and make ongoing efforts to educate myself about the intersections of disability and kink, however I recognise that I am unlikely to consistently and reliably identify where I may be lacking without input from those with lived experience. I encourage and appreciate suggestions on how to ensure My offerings are more accessible.

Bondage CBT Chastity Cuckold JOI
mistresssade Muse Auckland
5 1 5

mistresssade

BDSM, Muse & Kinkster

Female, Pansexual, Auckland NZ

In person & Online

Have you ever met a Real Dominatrix?

Ball busting Body Worship CBT
Mae Artist Amsterdam
11

Mae

BDSM, Artist & Muse

Female, Pansexual, Amsterdam NL

In person & Online

Sensual BDSM or Medical Play?

CBT Edging Foot Fetish Role Play
mistressbeate BDSM Berlin
9

mistressbeate

BDSM

Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE

In person & Online

Psychological Domination⛓

Bondage Chastity Domination
Otto BDSM New York
1 3

Otto

BDSM & Sugar baby

Male, Gay, New York NY US

In person & Online

God gave me an experience beyond limits. Your pain is my pleasure.

Bondage Edging Fetish Gagging
nadirah_khalisa BDSM Berlin
1

nadirah_khalisa

BDSM

Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE

In person

Sultry Siren | Berlin based & FMTY Pro Dominant | Nadirah_Khalisa on all socials

Aftercare Body Worship Bondage
nausilove BDSM Amsterdam
15 2 1

nausilove

BDSM, Kinkster & Companion

Female, Bisexual, Amsterdam NL

In person & Online

Tallest and happiest escort in the world :D

Anal Deep throat GFE PSE Swallow
HentaiMistressKoto BDSM Berlin
13 4 1 33

HentaiMistressKoto

BDSM, Photographer & Sugar baby

Female, Sapiosexual, Berlin DE

In person & Online

I could never get bored of playing Hentai, Shibari, and BDSM. It's my life.

Aftercare Breath play Chastity
What is BDSM?

What is BDSM?

Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.

BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) Sensualist is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form. 

What makes it hot?

Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment. 

No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.

Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.

Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.

5 essential books about BDSM

5 essential books about BDSM

Pauline Marie-Antoinette
Posted by Pauline Marie-Antoinette

Wednesday 12 February 2025

These books go beyond all too obvious BDSM clichés and capture the more authentic essence of power, pleasure, and surrender. The perfect Valentine's gift to someone who truly understands the thrill of control, or lack of.

Meet international lifestyle Dominatrix: Thea X

Meet international lifestyle Dominatrix: Thea X

Iso Thea X
Co-authored by Iso & Thea X

Monday 27 January 2025

'It’s not just my work, it’s my community. I found so much love and joy. So much connection. My heart expanded.' Meet international lifestyle dominatrix, Thea X.

Celebrating Diversity and Exploration on International Fetish Day

Celebrating Diversity and Exploration on International Fetish Day

April Maria
Posted by April Maria

Friday 17 January 2025

Today is International Fetish Day a day to explore, appreciate, and embrace the myriad of desires that exist within human sexuality.

When Desires Don’t Align

When Desires Don’t Align

April Maria
Posted by April Maria

Wednesday 11 December 2024

When desires don't align heres how to explore new sexual experiences together respectfully while still staying true to yourself.

Breaking Down Myths About BDSM

Breaking Down Myths About BDSM

April Maria
Posted by April Maria

Wednesday 27 November 2024

If you've ever wondered what BDSM is really about or how it can enhance relationships, let's separate fact from fiction.

Mommy Knows Best: a Mommy-Domme BDSM tale

Mommy Knows Best: a Mommy-Domme BDSM tale

Vita Volition
Posted by Vita Volition

Monday 28 October 2024

'Bend over Mommy’s knees. It is time I teach you a lesson.' Berlin/Amsterdam-based Vita Volition takes the stage this week with a short BDSM story: 'Mommy Knows Best'.

Meet Berlin Hypno Shibari artist: Hands of Eros

Meet Berlin Hypno Shibari artist: Hands of Eros

Iso Hands of Eros
Co-authored by Iso & Hands of Eros

Monday 28 October 2024

Meet Berlin's favourite Hypno Shibari artist, Hands of Eros aka Emmanuel. His work centres around Shibari, Hypnosis and impact play, helping women connect to their subconscious, discover themselves, and find new paths to sexual empowerment and healing.

Meet founder of Shibari South Africa: Miss Moon

Meet founder of Shibari South Africa: Miss Moon

Iso Miss Moon
Co-authored by Iso & Miss Moon

Friday 25 October 2024

From sensual tickle sessions to healing rope ceremonies, this is the enigmatic founder of Shibari South Africa, Miss Moon.

Her + Him: Two sides of a pegging story

Her + Him: Two sides of a pegging story

Pimenta Cítrica
Posted by Pimenta Cítrica

Tuesday 15 October 2024

'I couldn’t believe it was finally happening, after months of fantasizing about it.' Pimenta Cítrica presents a steamy two-sided story of an unforgettable pegging moment.

Meet London Dominatrix & fetishist: Miss May

Meet London Dominatrix & fetishist: Miss May

Iso Miss May
Co-authored by Iso & Miss May

Monday 30 September 2024

'My session style is playful and dirty but don’t be fooled, I am a natural sadist and using you is my passion.' This is Miss May, London-based Dominatrix and fetishist with a hard and heavy approach.

DO

Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.

Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.

Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.

 

DON'T

Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.

Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.

Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.

BDSM related experiences

Bondage

Bondage

Bondage

All tied up with nowhere to go?

CBT

CBT

CBT

Cock and ball torture: the best kind of therapy.

Chastity

Chastity

Chastity

When refraining is entertaining.

Domination

Domination

Domination

Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.

Dominatrix

Dominatrix

Dominatrix

Good girls go to heaven, bad girls go to dungeons.

FemDom

FemDom

FemDom

Let the matriarchy commence.

Findom

Findom

Findom

Financial domination. The art of the human ATM.

Foot worship

Foot worship

Foot worship

Your feet are my religion.

Latex

Latex

Latex

Want to see my second skin?

Leather

Leather

Leather

Dressed in leather whatever the weather.

Orgasm control

Orgasm control

Orgasm control

Every control freak's dream kink.

Role Play

Role Play

Role Play

Because sometimes getting arrested is very...liberating.

Shibari

Shibari

Shibari

Tying the knot never sounded better.

Submission

Submission

Submission

My happy place is my sub space.

Tie and Tease

Tie and Tease

Tie and Tease

Torture and tickle time, all in one.