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What do you get when you mix softcore porn with an encyclopedia of sex? Why, Dirty Lola, of course!

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Dirty Lola is an award-winning sex edutainer, speaker, and self-proclaimed dildo slinger. Known for her live sex ed, Q&A show, Sex Ed A Go-Go, and as a Sexpert on the Emmy Nominated Netflix docuseries The Principles of Pleasure, Lola has spent over a decade working to end the stigma and shame surrounding sex and sexuality while sharing her discoveries with polyamory and kink. Lola is an instructor for Everyone Deserves Sex Ed and is on the board of the Youth Sexpert Program. She has brought her unique flavor of sex-ed to numerous sexual wellness brands and media outlets such as New York Magazine, HBO, and Vice.

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